On Wed, 19 Jun 2013 00:45:02 +0100, "Chris R"
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inv...@invalid.munge.co.uk> wrote:
>
>Leaving aside minor errors, the Ombudsman may be having the same difficulty
>as we are here in understanding the true basis of your complaint. But you
>referred earlier to the lack of "exceptional circumstances" being the reason
>given for the refusal to accept your complaint. Under the current edition of
>the rules (an earlier version may apply to your complaint) you do not need
>to show exceptional circumstances to complain as the deceased's personal
>representative. But you would need exceptional circumstances if a time limit
>had expired under chapter 4. Is that perhaps the reason given?
>
http://www.legalombudsman.org.uk/downloads/documents/publications/Scheme-Rules.pdf
>rules 4.5 to 4.8.
This is the explanation:
"Turning to rule 4.2 (b), in my view, "exceptional
circumstances"refers to something out of the ordinary that prevented
the deceased from complaining about her service. This situation might
arise where the firm have 'hidden' their poor service, or the poor
service arises from a failure to advise in circumstances where it was
not reasonable to expect the deceased to have known there was poor
service prior to their death. I have not seen anything that shows your
mother was not aware of the gift she provided to your sister, meaning
she had no reason to complain to the firm. If you believe, that you
have evidence to the contrary, then please forward this to me to
consider."
My mother did not gift it, she merely allowed it to registered in the
daugher's sole name. There is no evidence that she gifted it. There
is no document to say that she had gifted it. If the solicitor who
believed this had happened had written to her confirming her
instructions then she would have known his view and could have done
something about it. Instead he states he wrote a careful note on a
file which he knows will be destroyed in 6 yrs.
Immediately after the supposed gifting is supposed to have occured my
mother was passed on to the other solicitor to deal with her Will and
it is clear from that a letter written from that meeting and
subsequent, and prior to completion of the purchase, that my mother
was seeking to deal with her investment via her Will. She was
supported in this by the Will solicitor who also noted on the file
"daughter appears to want it all".
There may have been a response from my mother and it may well be on
the same destroyed file. The letter the Will solicitor wrote to my
mother at the early stages was not obtained from the firm and they
cannot produce a copy so we can assume that must also have been filed
on the now destroyed file.
Yes my mother could have done more. She was 75yrs old and wanted the
minimum of fuss and formality. I'm angry at that.
Originally there had been a family meeting, all of us, at the same
firm, at which it was agreed a 75% daughter, 25% mother, tenants in
common ownership. When I asked her what had happened on learning that
it was all in the daughter's name and that she had given our
inheritance away she just waved her hand in one of those dismissive
gestures, smiled and said it was all sorted. End of discussion.
The firm was conflicted. This is the sort of mess firms get
themselves into when conflicted. There is no documentation to show
that, in accordance with SRA policy, there was agreement for
information to be passed on from one client to another.
I really don't care what the daughter did or didn't do. It is self
apparent that, having known of the Will for several years (her
testimony), and having known of the proprietor's gifting view, she
could be tempted to use that information to her advantage. A good and
loving daughter would have seen that there was an issue and sought to
resolve it. That is now collateral damage. A daughter who is
prepared to cheat her mother and her siblings. It is the slackness of
the firm that gave her the opening. It was the support from the
proprietor after my mother's death that fuelled her to refuse to
honour the Will.
I spoke to and wrote to the proprietor after my mother's death and
challenges in writing the ownership of the property. He continued to
pronounce his stance without checking the Will file and the reasons
the Will was written as it was. He had plenty of opportunity to not
rely on his memory of an event from 11yrs ago which had been
superseded. He didn't even offer me the Will file to which I was
entitled. I had to learn from another firm that I could get this.
The Will solicitor had plenty of opportunity to clarify to all what
the story was (well she tried to in the Will file anyway).
It really would have been less hassle if my mother had not used a
solicitor at all.
The LO has all these papers and letters. In his refusal to deal with
it he for instance puts the "gifting" meeting AFTER the purchase of
the property instead of clearly as testified by the proprietor, one or
two months BEFORE the purchase.
I'll say again, if the firm had done a good job there would have been
no room for dispute. My mother did not know they were doing a bad job
because she never got to hear directly the proprietor's view that the
property had been gifted. Furthermore how is she supposed to know
what has or has not been filed or thrown away? Have you asked to
study your Will file recently?
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AnthonyL