If it had been my girlfriend I'd have dumped her on the spot for cheating on
me, but if you don't consider it cheating as it was with girls rather than a
man, and you can live with it, then do nothing and carry on as normal.
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Kate
Hello Kate and thanks for your reply.
To be brutally honest I was shocked but also turned on to see my
wife , Sally , who is 43 , naked and being pleasured by half a dozen
girls in their mid twenties......but who I am to talk as I enjoy no
strings fun with older guys...
We did have a frank talk about her '' experience '' on the weekend,
she said when they turned the music off they ''overpowered her
''....removing her bra and panties and to be fair to her she did tell
me exactly what they did with her and what she had to do as well.
When i asked her whether she felt like she had to repeat it in the
future she said'' Don't worry , It's what girls do when they get
together ''.....but added that ''Perhaps I should have gone over there
fully clothed as perhaps I was asking for it ''
Asking for it ??......Is this how women behave ??.....Sally told me
they all smelt of drink....but I get the feeling the she is more
embarrassed about it now .....perhaps as I saw what went on.
But surely if you go and ask a bunch of girls to turn the music off
you don't expect to end up naked with them ??
Another thought......we had spent the day on the beach and had both
seen quite a few topless women ....Perhaps this had stirred something
within her ??
Pete, Bristol.
If you've had a few infidelities then it's probably best to let it go. It's
not what women do when they get together normally, but alcohol does help
loosen bra straps :) I'm going to have to ask more women to turn the noise
down I think! As for 'asking for it', it doesn't work as a defence for
rapists so it doesn't wash I'm afraid.
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Kate
> "Saxondale" <tot...@tiscali.co.uk> wrote in message
> news:3660a0df-730e-48ad...@26g2000hsk.googlegroups.com...
>
> > We haven't talked about it since but I never realised my wife liked a
> > bit of ''the other'' .
> > I am bi myself although my wife doesn't know this
Why not?
It's not like she could criticise you for it now. :)
> > and no doubt she
> > would hit the roof if she ever caught me with another man.
The way you yourself hit the roof when you caught her with another
woman, for sure... :)
> > Your thoughts please ???....
I don't know, maybe drop hints that you two are due for a conversation.
You could be on the brink of exploring new sexual delights!
> If it had been my girlfriend I'd have dumped her on the spot for cheating on
> me,
What if she'd come back to invite you?
> but if you don't consider it cheating as it was with girls rather than a
> man, and you can live with it, then do nothing and carry on as normal.
Yep, no need to make a mountain out of it.
Greg
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