You are falling into a common trap of conflating overload protection and
fault protection, and also assuming that it falls to the circuit
protective device to proved both for "everything".
In the case of a general purpose socket circuit, the protective device
at the origin of the circuit needs to provide both fault and overload
protection for the circuit as a whole, but not provide overload
protection for each individual accessory, since that can be provided by
other means.
The test regime for double sockets requires a long term loading test
with a 20A load. This is a solid and sensible engineering practice that
reflects a maximum load that will be "higher than reality". While you
may think you can contrive ways to get larger loads onto a single socket
than that, you will find it far harder to achieve in practice. (the fact
that sockets are not melting all around the country every day indicates
that the design has been very well proven in practice).
Some socket makers (MK for example) claim to test their double sockets
with 26A of loading, however many will test only up to the level of that
required by the BS since that is all that is required to put the product
onto the market.
> A 20A fuse would allow short term overloads already. Upping
> that to 30A is too much.
There is nothing stopping you using 20A circuits if you prefer, however
in domestic environments they tent to prove far less flexible in high
load areas like kitchens.
> Ir surprises me how many petty safety rules
> there are yet it's so easy to set fire to your wall simply by using two
> 13A sockets at 13A.
For definitions of "easy" that include really rather difficult. The vast
majority of 13A loads that you can find to plug in, tend to be
relatively short term in real world cases.
> How difficult would it have been to make them take
> 6A more?
What not have a go at costing it and see? Over engineering things for a
one off solution is sometimes acceptable. However for common items that
will be deployed many hundreds of millions of times, a 20% increase in
manufacturing price may well be "too much", especially as the current
design has been proven to work so well and safely.