OK a number of points here ..
On softwood the so called standard 4 x 2 sizes etc., these refer to
sawn timber size at a stated moisture content.
These were metricated ( as UK has to do what France tells it ) and the
standard sizes for thickness are
16, 19, 22, 25, 32, 38, 47, 50, 63, 75, 100, 150, 250 and 300mm
The standard widths are:
75, 100, 115, 125, 138, 150, 175, 200, 225, 250, 275, 300mm
Not all thickness are in all widths ... but that is the standard range.
The BS standard for this requires these sizes to met -1mm to +3mm up
to 100mm size -2mm to +4mm above 100mm
So for a 4" x 2" your timber can be in range 99-103 x 49-53 mm
However it could be sold outside of these sizes as long as it does not
claim it meets BS EN 1313-1
If you buy is PSE (planed on 2 face) there is further loss in size ...
the example of 4" x 2" now becomes 47 x 97 and with allowable
deviation can be 96-100 x 46-50
Most wood shops would be aiming for the minimum end of finished sizes to
maximize their output. (there is also Class 2 which has tighter tolerance)
PAR would lose even more as it is planed all all 4 faces.
There other type of timber (I built my house out of it) you may come
across ... certainly becoming popular in the sheds,
CLS (Canadian Lumbar Standard)
This has rounded arrises (long edges) and is much easier to handle than
rough sawn ... having all 4 faces machined.
It is typically much consistent in size.
Typical sizes found in UK are
38 x 63 and 38 x 89
Notionally the 3x2 and 4x2 formats, and used where those would have
been used.
Extensively used in Timber frame construction as it is all much more
consistent in size.
As to the part of your question relating to Green tint ..........
This will only be there if the timber is pressure treated .. typically
Tantalised treatment.
BTW - once you cut it, any exposed timber has to be treated to maintain
it's qualities.
It is difficult to comment on the grey mould you mention without seeing
it, this could be standard oxidising of softwood, which turns surface
light grey.
Rick