This is the stuff I'd use
>> http://www.toolstation.com/shop/Painting+Decorating/Fillers+Putty/Pro+Fill+500g/d150/sd3169/p17703
Not easy to apply, but rock solid, even in very thin layers.
Use the plastic applicator (or scraps of wood) instead of your wet trowel.
Use it alone, and make sure surface is dust free and dry.
As I said, not easy to use, so only mix up golf ball size bits at a time.