I hate to say it, but I figured this was about the way the game would
go, so I decided to back out. The combination of a
quickly-put-together-encounter, lots of players and new high-level
characters that people were unfamiliar with just suggested to me that
it would be chaotic. I guess I kinda did what Dan suggested and
realized that, if I went, I'd probably be more of a burden then a
help, so I sat it out.
All of these problems that keep coming up are, in my opinion, only
problems because of the group size. There is always a talker, a rules
lawyer, the guy that shows up late, the guy that wants to hog all the
roleplaying.... However, it's usually ONE. It's a minor setback or
inconvenience, but the game generally moves on just fine. When you
are talking 10 people, you have two or three of each of those all
thrown in and it is just too much.
Now, like Dan, I will accept the offer of straight talk and say
something that is pretty in-your-face (but before you get too mad)
read my follow up paragraph: In a small group, you kick out people
that are being disruptive. There is usually one DM who calls all the
shots and decides how many PC's he's willing to DM for. There is also
one host who says who is welcome and who is not (no smokers, the guy
that cusses all the time can't come back, dude keeps eyeballing his
wife can't return). In this group, no one is in charge and no one
will tell x player or y player they are being disruptive because,
chances are they are someone else's bf/gf/wife/husband, long-time
friend, co-worker. Besides, It is a multiple-GM,
multiple-game-location group and who really has the right to start
deciding who is a good fit and who is not? No one.
That said, I generally consider myself to be fairly pragmatic, and
since I don't want you guys to think I just talk the talk but won't
walk the walk, I will kick myself out of the group to help allieviate
this problem. I listened to all your game write-ups for months before
I re-joined this group and don't recall anything like this going on
back then. As one of the newest people to join and feeling 100%
confident that reducing the number of players will make the sessions
more enjoyable, I'm going put myself on the bench. If another day
comes up, maybe during the week with less players or if this game
somehow has a need for another gamer, please invite me, 'cause I want
to play.