"In the late 1940s most of
the nonalcoholics on the Board at the time had been institutional [non-profit
organization] men. Bernard Smith on the other hand was a businessman and lawyer.
From the time he had joined the Board, three years earlier, he had always
favored corporate management for the A.A. office and an elected conference to
sit with the Trustees as the final plan of service structure for Alcoholics
Anonymous.
Chairman Leonard Harrison appointed Bernard Smith Chairman of the Trustees Committee on the proposed Conference [despite] their differences of opinion.
Bernard Smith has a
remarkable faculty for persuasion and negotiation. Moreover, his ideas about a
conference had already taken a deeper hold than any of us realized. [H]e
took up the task of convincing the Trustees committee on the Conference. He put this question to the committee: Shall we set up this Conference of
delegates, or shall we forget about it? To my astonishment the committee
unanimously said, 'Let's give the Conference a try.' It seemed like a
miracle."
2001 AAWS, Inc.
Alcoholics
Anonymous Comes of Age, pg.
212
"If there be divorce or separation, there should be no undue haste for
the couple to get together. The man should be sure of his recovery. The wife
should fully understand his new way of life. If their old relationship is to
be resumed it must be on a better basis, since the former did not work. This
means a new attitude and spirit all around. Sometimes it is to the best
interests of all concerned that a couple remain apart. Obviously, no rule can
be laid down. Let the alcoholic continue his program day by day. When the
time for living together has come, it will be apparent to both
parties."
Alcoholics
Anonymous 4th Edition
Working With Others, Page
99