Brexit Special: 5 Stoic Strategies to help you cope

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A nice quiet week, then? Or perhaps a good time to dip into a bit of practical philosophy & psychology to deal with the slings & arrows ...

I hope these two articles help


 

Brexit: 5 Stoic Strategies to help you cope


and
 

The 2 steps to Achieving your Potential Through Positive Psychology


My very best wishes

Tim


Brexit: 5 Stoic Strategies to help you cope


Is your reaction to Britain's decision to leave the EU anticipatory delight at the prospect of  a new era of British autonomy?  Do you find yourself  nodding approvingly at proposals to make June 23rd  Independence Day or "St.Nigel's Day"? If so, I suggest you read no further. You have no need for a Stoic response to Brexit.

But maybe  thoughts like these have been popping into your head since Friday morning:-
"I'm so disappointed in the attitude of my fellow citizens"
"At this moment I am ashamed to be British" 
"I am really worried about the future - what will the effect be on future generations?" 
"I am very concerned that this will unleash the forces of Little Englandism and bigotry" 
"Will this be the start of the break up of the UK?" 
"Will this be the end of the European dream?" 
"I am worried that I or my friends or loved ones won't be able to stay in the UK" 
"I am angry with David Cameron for a political gamble with all our futures" 
"I am hoping that I will wake up and the Brexit result will turn out to be  a nightmare"

Such thoughts bring with them emotions extending from disappointment to shame, feelings ranging  from mild anxiety to fear, and frustrations fluctuating from mild irritation  to anger. Some of you may be  worried where it will all end.  As one friend told me "It's not like when  David Bowie died and you were really upset  for a few days but  got over by listening to Ashes to Ashes and Life on Mars. The consequences of Brexit will be with us forever."

 Long ago, a group of ancient Greek and Roman philosophers devised an excellent life philosophy  - Stoicism - to help them deal with adversities worse than Brexit. In this post I will describe
 5 Stoic strategies to help you handle Brexit.


Read the full post here
 
 

The 2 steps to Achieving your Potential Through Positive Psychology

A few years ago a friend said to me "Tim, you've been working with clients and students for many years, you've been putting together  some great ideas from psychology and philosophy, why don't you put down what you've learnt in a way that we can all understand?"

This seemed such a nice  idea that I spent the next 18 months doing what he'd suggested, and the result was Achieve Your Potential with Positive Psychology.

A few weeks ago the same friend said to  me "Tim, I got your book, I like it, it's great". This was good, but to be honest  I didn't  write the book just to get compliments, I wrote it to help people. So I asked him "That's lovely to hear, how has it helped you?"  "Well", he ventured "I'm not sure exactly, I've done the 3 good things exercise a few times ... I'm sure some of it's helping me by osmosis!".

The thing is, I know from my experience as a coach and therapist that whilst osmosis works great for plants it's not really so effective  for humans .. 

I've learnt that there are two steps to achieving your potential through positive psychology 


To read the full article click here 

http://blog.timlebon.com/2016/05/the-2-steps-to-achieving-your-potential.html

CBT, Psychotherapy, Counselling & Coaching Availability Update
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Contact me  if you are interested.

Feel free to forward this Newsletter to anyone else who may benefit from it.

Live Happily and Wisely

Tim
 

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