He came to mock, but ended up producing one of the best and balanced programmes on self-help books I've seen in a long time.
Whilst there are plenty of flakey self-help books out there, the very best personal development books contain wisdom delivered in language we can all understand. They can both be inspiring and insightful.
What
is needed is a way to sort the wheat from the chaff. I've been a fan of
the genre and been using them as part of my therapy and coaching work
for quite some time. So which books have I and my clients found most
helpful? Each year I update my personal top ten self-books - which
books have I found most helpful in the last year.
The best self-help/personal development classics
My annual personal top ten (in brackets is position last year)
1. The Seven Habits of Highly effective People Stephen Covey (1)
2. Man's Search for Meaning Viktor Frankl (2)
3. The Feeling Good Handbook David Burns (8)
4. Overcoming Low Self-Esteem Melanie Fennell (5)
Bertrand Russell's Conquest of Happiness
Bertrand Russell's books were described by Time magazine as a modern substitute for the Bible. If this is so, the The Conquest of Happiness must be at the very centre of his works.
Make no mistake, this is no abstract philosophical treatise – it is a recipe for good living, written for the likes of you and me. Russell's work is based on two assumptions. First, happiness needs to be conquered. You can't expect to waltz through life reaping happiness without putting in some thought and effort. But – and this is why The Conquest of Happiness is essentially an optimistic book– if you do make this effort, you can, given average fortune, attain happiness.
The conquest of happiness comes in three stages ....