Tim LeBon'S Newsletter November 2012: Live Like a Stopic

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                    Live like a Stoic (for a week)

Stoic week starts on Monday.
Anyone can take part, and there is a free booklet available which contains lots of Stoic exercises and readings. To take part you do not need to go anywhere in particular - but you will need to do some reading and some Stoic "meditations". The intention is that you will learn more about Stoicism and adopt more of a Stoic attitude to life.  And it may surprise you to find out that being more Stoic doesn't mean having a stiff upper lip or becoming Mr Spock ...
 
The week is part of a project being developed by the University of Exeter Classics department. Their team and a number of experts on Stoicism, psychotherapy and classics got together in October to discuss how best to enable Stoicism to be a help to modern life. I was honoured to be invited to be part of the group and am looking forward to trying the experiment myself.



Here is one exercise that I contributed to the booklet - you might like to try it and comment, if you like, on the effect it has on you. The idea would be to do this and other meditations every day during the Stoic week.
A Meditation to help Appreciation and Gratitude
 
Epictetus tells us that is a wise man who does not grieve for the things he has not got,  but rejoices for those which he has.
The following meditation may help you adopt this attitude.
 
Quieten your mind for a few moments by taking a few deep breaths and closing you eyes. Parade in front of your mind a procession of some of the good things that have happened in your life, the good fortune that has befallen you.  You might notice  personal qualities that you possess, such as good health or a fine intellect.  You may recall accidents of history,such as being born in a prosperous age or a democratic country. You might remember some of the  positive events in your life, like meeting your partner or best friend.  Spend a few moments feeling happy that you have been blessed with these pieces of  good fortune. Now choose just one of these good things. Imagine that it had not happenedReflect for several moments on the ways in which your life would be worse. Take a few more deep breaths and open your eyes, more able to rejoice in the things that you have.
 
 
There are lots more in the booklet!
If you take part you are also encouraged to do the questionnaires which will help us assess what effects Stoicism has on your well-being.
 
Free Stoic Booklet link
 



If you do join us in living like a Stoic, here are some things to help you

Please fill in the questionnaires before you start as this will help us build an evidence base for Stoicism.

You can do this by visiting these 3 pages.


1)  http://eSurv.org?u=Flourishing.

2)  http://eSurv.org?u=SatisfactionWithLife

3) http://eSurv.org?u=SPANE
 



 

If you are on Twitter, tweet your thoughts on the Stoic Experiment in the week using the hashtag #stoicweek

You can follow me on @timlebon
You can follow the University of Exeter tweets on @stoicweek

Free Resources on Stoicism

There are a number of free resources to help you like like a Stoic.

Academic and author John Sellars recommends these resources
The Handbook of Epictetus and Seneca’s On the Shortness of Life

 

In addition you can get these free in Kindle format

Meditations by Marcus Aurelius (Kindle Edition -12 May 2012) - Kindle eBook

The Golden Sayings of Epictetus by Epictetus (Kindle Edition -12 May 2012) - Kindle eBook


 
Counselling, Life Coaching and Psychotherapy Availability Update
I currently have two slots available for  life coaching, counselling  or psychotherapy including CBT  in Central London  on Thursdays and Fridays or from the comfort of your own living room via Skype. E-mail me at t...@timlebon.com if you are interested.

Feel free to forward this Newsletter to anyone else who may benefit from it.

Live Happily and Wisely

Tim

 

Copyright © Tim LeBon 2012
UKCP registered psychotherapist
Web: http://www.timlebon.com
tel: 07931 896857
Book: Wise Therapy
Blog: http://blog.timlebon.com




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