use "template transclusion", like this:
{{||FamilyDropdown}}
This will transclude the content from FamilyDropdown, but use the current tiddler for the data context. Thus, field references in FamilyDropdown will modify values in the current tiddler. Q.E.D.
Note: the full transclusion syntax is: {{ContextTiddler||TemplateTiddler}}, where ContextTiddler is the source of the data, and TemplateTiddler is the source for the output format. In the above example, {{||FamilyDropdown}}, omitting the ContextTiddler implies the current tiddler by default.
enjoy,
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Eric Shulman
TiddlyTools / ELS Design Studios
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