Hi, Chris,
I'm 66 now, but in the last two years, I re-took all the advanced math classes that I aced in High School; but the college-level classes (not the intro classes): Algebra, Trigonometry, Calculus 1, Calculus 2, and Probability/Statistics.
BEFORE I took these classes, I was all for telling students to get the better calculator when they were allowed ... but after being a student for these five classes, I now always recommend getting the calculator that will be used for classroom demonstrations.
All the classes I took (so far) recommended any of the various TI-84 calculators, but in each case, I could have used a non-CAS nSpire. When my professors wanted to demonstrate how to do things, they always used the 84, and anyone with different calculators had to (usually) figure out how to do it on one of the other allowed calculators. I do own a CAS model of the nSpire, and an HP Prime, and on occasion, I did try to use it to get an answer, and found that there are significant differences between the two (three) calculators, so much that I very rarely bothered to use the nSpire. You might say that it was frustrating to try to do the same thing on the nSpire or the Prime, but each of them have their benefits, like more memory, etc.
Needless to say, I recommend that you get your daughter an 84. She could, of course, learn the nSpire as extra credit, but class demonstrations will make more sense when she uses the 84.
Let me also recommend that you not only get her an 84, but specifically, I recommend you get her the newest model, the CE, because last year, they issued an OS upgrade that adds new features and keywords to the CE that are not available in any of the previous 84's, not even in the Silver Edition. For example, piecewise functions and "cut and paste".
I wrote up a few of the differences on this web page:
www.mazes.com/ti-84-ce