Gymboree is near you, but it's kind of pricey. They have a free
introductory class, so you can go online, sign-up to go, and you have
nothing to lose by doing that. I think the pricing is around $70/month
here for 1 class a week and unlimited "open gyms", not sure about
there.
Your baby isn't really old enough to go to playgrounds or anything. I
mean, you can go to parks just for a different sensory experience and
put a mat down or something. There are story times at Leu Gardens,
Libraries and Barnes & Noble (all free, I think) ... I happen to think
that just hearing the words in the background is beneficial for
babies, but it probably wont seem like those activites are idea for
you. The library I went to in Ft Myers when Harrison was tiny had a
special class where you interacted with your infant and did some
rhymes and hand things.
When Harrison was little I took it upon myself to organize "stroller
dates" with some other moms I knew. We would walk about a mile or so
to a starbucks, grab coffee, walk to a park, have a picnic while the
babies rolled around, then walk back. Stacy, you live close enough to
a park to go on lots of really nice walks. Hope this helps!
If you have any questions that are more specific, I'd be happy to
help. Sorry this is a lot of info and kind of ... disorganized. Maybe
it will help Krysti, too... since she is new to Orlando, living near
the airport, and looking for fun activities for her baby & toddler as
well.
Also, Mine is not plastic and I can blend the foods in my glass
measuring cups pretty well. Many of the food processors and stuff on
the market are made from bpa-leaching plastic.
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On Friday, February 11, 2011, Sydney Lendian-MacDonald
<merlynt...@hotmail.com> wrote:
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> Ack- I forgot, I also highly reccommend the Dr Sears books. I read The Fussy Baby Book, and it became my daily go to. Avalon was very high need and Colicky and this book kept me sane.
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> Date: Fri, 11 Feb 2011 20:31:30 -0500
> Subject: Re: Babies
> From: krysti...@gmail.com
> To: thoughtful-moms-of-gr...@googlegroups.com
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> ooh where do I begin! Beleza is 2 and a half now, but I think she was the easiest child on the planet cause we had a great babyhood together :) she HATED tummy time so we did other things like propped with pillows.. exc. we read a TON of books, LOTS of time outside and on walks, went to playdates with our mothers group (even when she was 4 months old, she needed to see other children and watch them communicate, see new things, people..) I kept her away from TV entirely until she was around 22 months old. I read that it helps with verbal skills and communication skills. we also listened to music where ever we went. she is at a 4 year level with speech (so says her Dr) now so I dont know if its just her or it really did anything. Ely is 7months and not making much of the same speech patterns as Beleza and she does see/listen to the tv sometimes????? who knows! BUT NO BABY TALK, pronounce every word the correct way for them and practice saying sounds in front of them. she will think its funny anyway hahah.
> one thing that really supper helped us was routine, it helps them feel secure, and balanced and helps bed time to go much smoother. sing and read to and touch your baby often as it helps them feel and learn the world around them and helps them communicate with you and feel safe with you and where ever you are together. my children prefer to sleep in their own beds, much to my dismay and sad mommom heart. so things like this help me to feel closer to my baby, a special time with just them in the evening will calm you both down <3
> I make almost all our food at home (I like plum organics pouch foods when we are out, they are yummy and cheaper than most baby foods) she wont eat anything that she cant chew so puree is out... but I use my little blender allot. I started both on avocado first and than went to sweet potatoes. grains cause your body to react with an insoline spike and than its cranky town so we stay away from them as much as we can plus Beleza has Celiac so it makes it easy for us. she does get gluten free teething crackers and stuff now however. one food at a time though, look for reactions. rash, cranky, gassy.. than I move on in 3 days.
> hope this helps! what will really help you is to be around more mommoms :D we were never meant to raise our children with out a community of other mothers
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> On Fri, Feb 11, 2011 at 6:13 PM, Sarah Boye <sarah...@gmail.com> wrote:
> -We did story time at the library a lot and that gave me lots of songs and finger games to play with her.
> -I tried to talk to her constantly. Tell her all about what we were seeing/doing/ect. I think that helps with language skills and understanding.
> -I've done sign language with her since she was born, but she only signs a few things. It's really helpful now with communication since she's a bit of a shy talker.
> -She had reflux and REFUSED to do tummy time, but had no adverse issues physically from not doing it. I still made sure to hold her in ways that helped her use all her muscles.
> -I really enjoyed the book "Itsy Bitsy Yoga" for doing yoga with her. It really helped her colic and reflux.
> -Another great book is "Positive Discipline the First Three Years". It has some great ideas. The Dr. Sears baby book is great too.
> -We did baby led weaning after trying purees unsuccessfully at 6 months. She wound up being really interested by 8 months and we would give her small pieces of what we were eating (one thing at a time to be aware of allergies) and she fed herself. We also never force her to finish anything and just keep offering something if she doesn't seem to like it. A few things, she's changed her mind on. Generally, she's a great eater now and we have very little power struggles over food.
> -I also love this newsletter, Aha Parenting <http://www.ahaparenting.com/about>
SO.... my kid thinks TV is FOR football. I'll take it.
He also doesn't really have any electronic or light-up toys. He's very
creative and content to just occupy his time with his own mind.
Here is a good article on it--
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/11/071123204938.htm
As for stuff on the TV-- I encourage you to do your own research if
you are truly interested. Both Montessori & Waldorf methods of
schooling have lots of literature against watching TV, how it's
detrimental to development & not an educational tool.
The American Academy of Pediatrics also has info. Even they are
against it... so that's pretty much enough for me!
We live in vista lakes near semaran. About 10 from the airport. We would Love to have a play date! We only have one car so id have to plan in advance. Let me know
On Feb 11, 2011 9:13 PM, "Sydney Lendian-MacDonald" <merlynt...@hotmail.com> wrote:
I TOTALLY agree with no baby talk! We always speak clearly and openly with her. We do spell things like "ice cream" though! ;) We limited TV for a long time as well. Where do you live? Maybe we can all do play dates every now and then :)
Date: Fri, 11 Feb 2011 20:31:30 -0500
Subject: Re: Babies
From: krysti...@gmail.com
To: thoughtful-moms-of-gr...@googlegroups.com
ooh where do I begin! Beleza is 2 ...
Allison Vaughn
"I do not agree with what you have to say, but I'll defend to the death your right to say it."- Voltaire
Oh, totally agree with you Sarah. I truely hope no one feels bad or guilty about what I added. I only ment to inform on the studies done and my own experience. Beleza watches what I call "sanity TV" often now that she is older. Especially now that I have 2. I NEED that time so I can clean, cook, or sometimes I need to focus on the baby or even chill a minute and regain sanity (if its possible) . Please, every parenting choice is personal and should be respected as such. my choices aren't the only ones or even the best or right ones For Sure! That's the truth for everyone. You gota do what fits your family. Period. Thats what makes an awesome, loving parent. Don't let anyone make you feel less for any reason or oppinion or personal parenting choice you made between you and your baby.
On Feb 15, 2011 7:03 AM, "Sarah Boye" <sarah...@gmail.com> wrote:
I'm going to play devils advocate here so no one who lets their kid watch tv feels guilty or judged.
We watched tv around Vala when she was little. Most of the time she was sitting against my knees facing me so I could talk to her. She started being interested around 8 months. We didn't really start putting shows on for her until a year. For a while she only watched while I sat with her and could interact with her about the shows (dance with her, describe the scene, ect). Now, yes I do occasionally put on sesame street so I can clean but it's not on all day and I don't count it as a major babysitter. She only sits to watch for a 5 seconds and then runs around playing. She really only even pays attention when songs come on (but don't dare try to turn it off lest you summon the tantrum monster! (lol)
That being said, I've actually seen positive things come from her watching tv. She's learned dances from Yo Gabba Gabba that I had nothing to do with teaching her. She's learned new words from Sesame Street. Most of all, I have a way to find my sanity during a rough day when I just need to do the dishes without her trying to help by throwing knives across the room.
So, definitely do your research, but realize that not everyone is tv free and it doesn't make you a bad mom if you aren't.
Sarah
(Vala, 22 months)
On Sat, Feb 12, 2011 at 7:40 AM, Heather Thalwitzer <heathert...@gmail.com> wrote:
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Sarah
=^..^=
I'm glad you found something that works well for you, you are
comfortable with, and it sounds like it isn't even that big of a deal.
Your child is one of the happiest kids I have ever met. You're
obviously doing something right!
Your message was posted with a delay b/c google sent it to me as
"potential spam." I told google to always allow your posts. Sorry that
happened. I have no idea how to turn "auto-moderation" off. If you
make a post and it gets thrown into the "auto-moderator" then I am
sorry for the dely, but I will always let it through to post... unless
it's blatantly "buy viagra pharmacy discount" or some strange link
that tells me you were hacked.
I really look forward to when she's 4.. I'll know what to do, lol.
Allison