[Thomas Close] Opinion on Michael Brown's Death

[Thomas]

The killing of Michael Brown in Missouri has been on my mind a lot lately. Although it does look as if he robbed a store prior to his death, he did not deserve to die for that crime. The protests are absolutely necessary, but the reckless looting and criminal rioting is completely destroying everything Brown's family and supporters are working for. We still don't know the full details of how Darren Wilson ended up killing Michael Brown. We do know the police in Ferguson dramatically mishandled this situation. In general, police across this country are not the enemy, but do need to be held more accountable. Abuse of power occurs too often. I am no expert when it comes to racism; I am empathetic and have witnessed racism toward my black friends firsthand. Seeing it was repulsive, experiencing it must be beyond horrible. It's disgusting to know I've somehow benefitted solely based on the color of my skin. I can't make excuses, but also can't apologize for the wrongs of others. I can, and do, speak out when I see racism and try to be a good example. It is important to embrace diversity and acknowledge the differences that make us all unique. There are still many hurdles and barriers to overcome.

Today, I felt let down when someone from the black community verbally reprimands me  for wanting to be an ally, a supporter, and a friend. I know this person doesn't speak for the entirety of such a diverse community, but I feel shut down when you tell me I'll never understand because I am white. Sadly, I've heard this message echoed far too frequently toward people, like me, who want to understand and be supportive. Instead of widening the divide, teach me and bring us closer together. Instead of issuing blanket statements against all people of a particular skin color and saying no progress has been made, I ask you to direct your well-deserved anger and frustration toward finding resolution and calm in a peaceful and inclusive way. Exclusivity got us into this situation; please don't depend on it to get us out.

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Posted By Thomas to Thomas Close at 8/18/2014 04:46:00 PM