At the sql level setting 'delta=1' wouldn't do much, since what you
really want is to have Sphinx rebuild its indexes (not mysql having a
flag set). Likewise you probably don't just want to call
ThinkingSphinx's delta index method because it will avoid the
mechanism for tracking these changes (e.g. delta = 1)
The best bet is to simply call AR:B.save on your record, this will
update the database with 'delta = 1' and also trigger the after_save
callback to manage your delta indexing. It also will be the most
robust for any future changes to ThinkingSphinx.