Hi all, oooppppsss I have just apologised to Julie for missing the blog, I've just had a bit of a weekend with my mother, I can't remember if I mentioned her before.
Basically she's totally infatuated with one of her lodgers, she's 84 and rents rooms out in salisbury and a 40 yr old italian chap lives there who she adores. She lets him live rent free, paid off his baliff's debt bought him an almost new car, everywhere we go we have to buy claudio expensive things like jumpers from crew clothing.
Anyway, on saturday he went to a barbecue and didn't take her. I think she thinks she's been buying his friendship & loyalty & because the barbecue was held by a former tenant she felt obliged to be invited, and she wasn't and she was sooooo upset. She is a very rude and difficult woman, she hates any kids, even her own grandhildren, and just doesn't bother with them and never has. She
hates men and says so loudly and frequently with the exception of claudio and others who are useful to her (like her son in laws) and I suspect that's why she wasn't invited.
I've been telling her for years to get her own social life but she doesn't like going out unless she's driven there & back. So I suggest any number of clubs, she's really good at french & there's a french club, or she could be a warden in a national trust house & she can afford a tax but anything I suggest she always has a reason why it wouldn't work.
GGggrrrhhh!!! I am taking her to a vintage fabric sale tomorrow in Dorchester which is a perfect day out I reckon, hopefully she's talk about something else except claudio & loneliness for a change.
It does feel better to tell you, hope you don't mind! I've also had an upset tum, but it's on the way out
now.
Jo I read your email the other day about being in the NWS possibly only another year. I'm the same, I'm not sure whether to join next year or not. What I'm writing now is a book about a social worker in child care but as well as the clients it's how her own history affects her work, sort of Jodi Picoult/Cathy Glass, she says hoping it's even a gazillionth like either!