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Hi Ladies,Apologies for my apparent absence recently. I have been dragged down by .... dare I say it ....despair, feelings of failure at not being able to write, fear of another rejection etc. I've just read Gemma's story (and bought her book!) and here I am admitting and owning my feelings to you wonderful ladies, congratulating anyone and everyone on their success, so I that I can maybe get back to my own writing.I will improve my commitment to the group as well as my work. Promise!So looking forward to meeting up at the conference.RachaelX
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http://booksbywomen.org/the-a303-a-storytellers-road-by-roz-morris/
I really liked this blog post and thought I'd send it on. Its where I'm at at the moment, I'm still dominated by a social workers need to be brief and succinct and ignoring the atmosphere of the story. But this post by comparing the M5 with the A303, both roads which I know well, has shown me, almost given me permission, to write in more detail and create a whole world not just a series of plot points.
I think there was a similar question on ROMNA recently and some folk said it helped to add non-verbal communication in with the dialogue.
Lynne
From: lynne...@hotmail.co.uk
To: jowal...@yahoo.com; deirdre...@aol.com; thewrite...@googlegroups.com; rdt...@gmail.com; helen...@hotmail.com
Subject: RE: Apologies
Date: Fri, 5 Jul 2013 10:17:51 +0100
Hi Rachel, I so feel for you!!! we've all been like that and probably will be from time to time, its part of what makes us good writers, if we didn't have that sensitivity we'd be arrogant twats whose work would be too pompous to read.
I've been specially concentrating on reading books that are highly emotional in content, Jodi Picoult, Diane Chaamberlain, Susan Lewis, Cathy Glass (glass is more memoirs of a foster carer but reads like fiction) searching for how to 'do' emotional stuff and I've concluded they all have a slightly different way of doing things, Glass language & imagery is very simple, Lewis tells you everything, even putting down cups or boring details, it's like watching a film, Picoult is like reading a letter to a close personal friend, Chamberlain is like whodunnit?
It made me see that there is no right way, I have to do it my way and that might include a few wrong turns here and there.
I think its a good idea to do what a friend, an excellent journlist (deborah dooley) told me years ago. 'I don't get writers block,' she explained, 'I'll just write rubbish when I'm not in the mood cos I can change rubbish & usually the mood does come into me when I start.'
I also think you get a boost of confidence even for just having written something.
I'm sure it's just a stage in your writing journey. Also, what is your blog address? I love your other life and it is much easier I guess to get positive feedback in practical things than writing. I'd love to read your blog but have so focused on emotional stuff at the moment I'm missing other good things, like Deidre's lovely book which I will buy ready to read when I feel I've read enough emotional stories or am totally fed up with them and need a rest!
I hope this gets to Helen R too, I did it the sneaky way & pressed reply all on Jo's note thus saving me the trouble of checking for myself. Lazy? Moi? Mais oui!! of course!!!
Love to all, Lynne
Subject: Re: Apologies
To: Deirdre...@aol.com; thewrite...@googlegroups.com; rdt...@gmail.com; helen...@hotmail.com
From: jowal...@yahoo.com
Date: Fri, 5 Jul 2013 08:45:54 +0000
Hi Rachael
Sending you a virtual (((hug))), trite probably, but I recognise someone who needs one. Who would be a writer? All that angst, all that misery, but we just can't help ourselves - can we?
I know you will have heard it all before, and it doesn't help me much when I tell myself this, but the best of the best have been rejected... many times. Katie Fforde tried HMB 8 times before cracking it with a different approach to a different publisher. I know you have worked really hard to be an HMB author, but can I just ask why only them? I understand that their guidelines are quite prescriptive, so maybe your writing has more individuality than can fit those limits?
Have you tried any of your other stuff with any of the small presses or e-publishers? I am probably teaching you to suck eggs here, but why not give it a go? Maybe not sucking eggs, but perhaps not putting them all in one basket? It might not be your dream, and there's no reason HMB can't stay that, but publication elsewhere might give you the boost you need to get back on that horse until you fulfil you ultimate writing dreams.
We all know how you feel and I have admired your tenacity thus far. Let the wine flow freely at the conference, we can moan about our rejections - but then we are all formulating a strategy to see as many of the Write Romantics graduate from the NWS as possible by this time next year.
I have copied Helen R in manually, as she has had some issues with googlemail access and I know she too can empathise with the fickle and frustrating road to publication. They don't know what they've taken on with the ten of us though and they better watch their backs!
Jo xxSent using BlackBerry® from Orange
From: Deirdre...@aol.comSender: thewrite...@googlegroups.comDate: Fri, 5 Jul 2013 04:07:59 -0400 (EDT)Subject: Re: Apologies
Hello Rachael, good to have you back. As you will see, the rest of us (well some of us, including me..) have been wittering on about how hard it is to get the attention of agents, publishers, anyone at all really! Shall I, shan't I, all that stuff... In other words having crises of confidence all over the place. Sometimes even sending a simple email out with a writing-related query is beyond me, and as for getting a reply back, well it takes a bucket-load of courage to even open the damn thing! What are we like?Hopefully having written your email Rachael you're feeling better already. At least the sun's shining!take careDeirdre xx
In a message dated 04/07/2013 19:30:44 GMT Daylight Time, rdt...@gmail.com writes:
Hi Ladies,Apologies for my apparent absence recently. I have been dragged down by .... dare I say it ....despair, feelings of failure at not being able to write, fear of another rejection etc. I've just read Gemma's story (and bought her book!) and here I am admitting and owning my feelings to you wonderful ladies, congratulating anyone and everyone on their success, so I that I can maybe get back to my own writing.I will improve my commitment to the group as well as my work. Promise!So looking forward to meeting up at the conference.RachaelX
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