Two points here.
1. I made a mistake about the index file. TASSEL uses .lix index files not .tbi. So, it does not recognize the .md5 or the .tbi files. When you attempt to load the gz file, TASSEL attempts to load the entire file into memory. If you wait long enough either the file will load or you will get an out of memory error, probably the latter unless you have more than 20 GB or more of RAM. I am not sure exactly how much memory is required.
2. When reporting problems with TASSEL, it really helps to follow the instructions in the file that I linked which describes how to report TASSEL issues and post the entire log file. That way we can tell what steps were followed and exactly where problems occur to help with trouble shooting.
Peter