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Malo ongo tangata e fakalavelave mai he kaveinga ko eni.
Hangee ko e fokotu'u fakakaukau kimu'aa, oku vaofiange feohi e kau kavaTonga he oku fakalato ai e fiema'u vivili e taha kotoa pee kau ai koe mo au, 'aia ko e fiema'u ke feohi pe connect mo hoto kaungaa fononga he mamanii he levolo oku ki'i lolotoange.
Kapau e ngata pee etu feohi fakalotu he oo fanongo malanga pea fai mo e ki'i polokalama akolotu, fai mo e akohiva etc he'ikai fe'unga ia ke fai ai ha feohi pe fellowship oku lolotoange. He ko e ngaahi polokalama ko ia oku tau tui ai hotau puloa fakalaumalie o tau lea fakalaumalie, le'o fakalaumalie etc.
Ko e kita (self) ia oku ilo 'e he kakai, pea oku te ilo mo kita ki ai ka oku ikai ko e kotoa ia hoto kitaa he ko e kita koee oku i falelotu oku tau tui e mask fakalaumalie tahaa. Pea oku iai e assumption everything is fine pea oku ikai ke tau huhua ai hotau kita totonuu.
Manatu'i ko e taha negative effects o internet, ko e lava ke more lonely e kakai. Ko e lahiange etau nofo o facebook ko e statistics ki he adult peseti 38 oku nau ongo'i depressed after spending hours on facebook.
'I he faikavaa, oku toe ki'i tau'ataina ange, he ko e kita ia oku ilo pe ki ai e kau faikava pea mo kita ka oku ikai ke ilo mai e kakai ki ai. Oku nau fakakata, talanoa tau'ataina, pea oku connect emotionally in a deeper level.
Oku toe 'i ai 'a e kita ko kita pee oku te ilo ki aii kae ikai ke ilo ki ai e kau faikavaa pea mo e Siasii. Pea ko e kita ko ia ko kita pee mo e Otuaa oku te ilo ki aii. Pea mo e kita oku ikai ke te ilo ki ai ka ko e Otua mo e kakai he tafa'aki oku nau ilo mai ki ai.
Fiema'u leva hena ke iai e kalasi aho(gender based) oku develop ai relationship oku iai e fefalala'aki, fe'ofa'aki, felotu'aki, fetokanga'aki etc. 'oku lava ai ke te tatala a e kita ko ia ki hoto kaungafononga ke "mou fevete'aki mo felotu'aki ka mou mou'i." I he relationship e kalasi aho e lava ai ke valoki kita mo fakailo mai kia kita e hoto kaungaa kalasi ahoo hoto vaivai pea te tali fiemalie ko ete ilo oku ne ofa'i kita.
Ko e fakafamili a e Mamonga oku ne meet e need a e taha kotoa pee he famili ko e fiema'u ke fefakafanongo'aki mo fekolefakamolemole'aki mo felotu'aki etc.
Hangee ko e lave kimu'aa, fele kakai nau ha'u pee ki he lotu ka oku ikai ke meet e need ko enaa, oua na'ake ofo, he fai e polokalama fakafamili e Mamonga pe fakaSosiale, oku nau connect ai kinautolu.
Fokotu'u atu:
1) Fakalele Kalasi Aho Fakafamili--lelei ia ke connect e kau memipa e Siasi
2) Fakalele Kalasi Aho Tangata-taganta, fefine-fefine---lelei ia ki he fakaloloto e fononga mo e 'Eiki,
Ko e taha ho fatongia faifekau ko e pau ke ke fakalele ha polokalama training ta'etuku he ta'u kakato, ka tu'otaha he mahina ko e tooatu ia ko hono train ho kau taki kalasi ahoo he ngaahi me'a fakatokateline eg Trinity. pea mo ha founga ke nau fakalele lelei e kalasi ahoo.
Ka lelei ho'o fai e kalasi aho, oku ou tui e makehe e ma'ui'ui ho potungoue.