It is an inevitable in one’s life in different forms at
various stages of life. It is very painful and emotional too. Many wounds
arising in parting gets healed over period of time. Of course few will not get
healed in life time too!! It is all easy to say and one will feel how difficult
when one go through such pinching ones. Anyway it is better to get over quickly in the larger interest. Venting feeling are done many ways, generally
ladies become emotional and shed tears. Gents many become overwhelmed and
become tearful. One should try to come out of it quickly as one will lead of
something else and it will have multiplying effect. This may end up in health
issues as well.
Best way is to divert your attention to chant whatever
you like or listen to music etc as per your taste. Most important is to divert
your mind set from the main event.
These instances occur frequently on different context as
one grows older and older. Further as one grows older, there are other factors
come into play and make things from bad to worst. This could be due to one’s
dependence, retired life, losing life partner and many others. These are
natural events that can’t be stopped by us.
One need to be aware of this fact and should overcome as
quickly as possible.
I am sharing this as a well-wisher and one have gone
through multiple times in my life so far and not by any context on anyone.
