You should just be straight with Greig. I've never kept track, but you
might have thousands of harassing posts that were just senseless
harassment. What ever came out of any of them except you having to run
away once you had reached your limit for lying? You likely had hundreds
of harassing posts in those first 4 years and what did you end up with.
The entire email request:
David Greig
I apologize for having to get you involved in the current mess, but due
to factors that currently exist on TO something needs to be done about a
poster that just can’t help himself. Peter Nyikos has essentially
requested that he be banned from TO. A couple months ago Nyikos was
enjoying his usual harassment fix, and as usual the harassment turned
out to be nothing worth harassing anyone about, and Nyikos had to start
lying about what he was doing. This was all what normally occurs, but
what was upsetting was that he had resorted to lying about something
new. You have to understand that when Nyikos is wrong about something
and has to start lying about it, those lies turns into junk that he has
to come back and harass you about for years. Resorting to new lies has
happened in the last two Nyikosian harassment episodes. For over a
decade Nyikos has been using a batch of old lies, but he has been
starting to accumulate a batch of new lies for the last few months.
This is something that I could not allow to happen. I had been able to
shut down a series of lies that Nyikos had been telling for over a
decade with what I call a holy water repost due to their effect on
Nyikos. Holy water reposts contain counters to the series of lies that
Nyikos usually strings together in order to harass me. They cut the
amount of harassment from months to just a week or two.
Nyikos engages in this type of senseless harassment to feed his sadistic
nature. There is no other reason to do what he does. I know that
Nyikos understands that he is lying in order to harass someone because
Nyikos counts the lies, and will try not to exceed some stupid limit for
lying that he has. I know this because Nyikos has been harassing me
with the same series of lies for so long, that what he does becomes
evident. Nyikos literally keeps a count of how many times he tells the
same lie or does the same dishonest deed in a series of posts. If he
wants to continue using the same lie he can jump to another thread, but
he usually just switches to another lie and uses it up before moving on
to another. For some insane reason Nyikos has some limit for lying, and
he adheres to it. If he violates that limit it is a terrible thing.
Nyikos will try to undo what he has done. So Nyikos is aware of what he
is doing when he does it. Once he reaches his limit Nyikos has to leave
me alone for a month or two before his lying meter gets recharged, and
he can start lying about the same things again.
I do not want to try to get you to understand what Nyikos does by
posting multiple examples that you have to wade through. Instead, it is
much easier to understand what Nyikos does not do. You should be able
to determine if Nyikos should be banned or not by simply asking Nyikos
for examples of any productive discourse that he has initiated with me.
Nyikos will not be able to provide any posts. If his harassment had
been legitimate and sensible he should have hundreds of productive
examples, but he likely has none. Try to get him to estimate how many
senseless harassing posts that he has made to me to produce that record.
I really do not recall any instances that resulted in productive
discussion. Nyikos even claimed that he could produce such posts at one
time, but lied about the effort for over 3 years before giving up on
trying to produce anything that had resulted in anything positive for
him. This is mainly due to the fact that probably over 90% of what
Nyikos has harassed me about has been the same lies over and over. Just
like Kleinmann, Nyikos has had to lie about stupid things that he was
wrong about, and he acquired quite a list to lie about in the first year
after his return to TO. All those recycled lies are a dead loss for
Nyikos. He understands, when he uses them, that they were a dead loss
for him, but that is how he gets his sadistic jollies. Nyikos has only
survived on TO for this long because he is sane enough to have some
weird limit for lying. That isn’t a good thing, it means that Nyikos
understands that what he is doing is wrong, but he does it anyway. So
if you can get Nyikos to provide you with an honest answer you should
have what you need to make your decision.
I assume that after getting Nyikos’ side of the issue that if you agree
that Nyikos is a candidate to be banned that you will offer him a second
chance as you did for Kleinmann. I am not trying to be funny or make
light of the situation, but if you give Nyikos a second chance you
should give him multiple second chances. Nyikos is just like Kleinmann
and you can expect him to blow his second chance. Nyikos has already
demonstrated that he can’t help himself. He can moderate his sadistic
tendencies for a short time, but he doesn’t have the self control to
keep doing the right thing. The need to feed his sadistic nature seems
to be too much for him to deal with at this time. In order to trigger
this request Nyikos did exactly what he needed to do. He did not try to
skirt the issue by trying some civil discourse, he just started lying
about my religious beliefs that he has been lying about for over a
decade. If Nyikos is going to have any chance at all of reforming he is
going to need at least 3 second chances. Nyikos can self limit for a
month or two before he is able to start lying about the same things, so
3 second chances might get him through around half a year, and if he
hasn’t established enough self control after that, there may not be any
hope for him.
I apologize for getting you involved in this situation, but it is time
to end what Nyikos has been doing for far too long.
Ron Okimoto