I'm having difficulty reconciling my knowledge of physics with what you
write.
1) Becoming infinite is not the same as disappearing. The better known
infinities in physics are classical (relativistic) - the Big Bang and
black holes as treated by General Relativity. Though in the absence of
renormalisation quantum theory also has singularities - such as the
infinite self-energy of a bare electron, arising from it being modelled
as a point particle.
But wavefunction collapse is involves neither disappearance nor
infinities. Wavefunction collapse (not that everyone likes the
Copenhagen interpretation) is that when a measurement is applied to a
state which is a mixture of eigenfunctions of the wave function, the
result is a state which is a single eigenfunction, and the future
evolution of the system is from that state. Wave function collapse
doesn't change the energy (including mass) of the system.
2) Therefore the law of conservation of mass/energy does not forbid wave
function collapse.
3) I don't even know where to start to interpret this.
4) The Lorentz transformation is classical (see Special Relativity) in
origin, but is also used in relativistic quantum mechanics. I don't
understand why you think that the Lorentz transformation is the only one
used in quantum mechanics.
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alias Ernest Major