Ok, so first things first. The top player is not playing anything because it cannot find the mp3 at:
Eithet the file just isn't there, or if you arte hosted on a unix server, maybe the case is wrong (windows servers are not case sensitive)
2) Remove one of the swfobject.js includes, you only ever need one (it is a library which can be called from multiple places if required)
3) You have a bunch of extra params hanging around in your code. Have a read of the docs to see which params are relevant to what section in the static markup (or use the code generator (found in the wiki) to see what your code should look like)
Aran