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I had a hard time with romantic relationships for most of my life.
I either got way too attached, or I couldn’t seem to find common ground with the person and ended up just going through the motions.
If I did make a true love connection, it seemed like my thin boundaries got even thinner. I could pick up on what they were thinking and feeling, even if we were miles apart.
This drove me crazy when I got into romantic relationships with people who were hot-and-cold with me.
Because they would say one thing, but I intuitively picked up on something behind that, or beyond that, and so I suffered constant cognitive dissonance.
When I tried to look for more information about my “problems” in romantic relationships, all I got back was a bunch of advice on limerence and codependency.
Some of it was helpful, to a point, but there was nothing out there that spoke to my whole experience.
There was nothing that framed my intensity in romantic relationships as a natural part of who I was, everything just led me to believe it was a trauma response.
There was nothing that validated my need for deep DEEP connection with romantic partners, everything just led me to believe I had insecure attachment.
I spent many years feeling like I was crazy.
Like I was too much in relationships, or not enough.
It wasn’t until I started working with INF people in my coaching practice, and through my classes, that I realized my behaviors were not abnormal, and they weren’t a trauma response either.
They were actually VERY normal, for an INF.
That was why I decided to create my Love and Sexuality for INFJs and INFPs video course.
Because someone needed to be talking about this.
The fact is, it’s essential for INF people to have resources that are designed for INF people.
Because our minds don’t work like everyone else’s.
Our whole approach to life is different, and so our needs are different.
The Love and Sexuality for INFJs and INFPs video course is on sale for the next two days.
Today and tomorrow, you can get it for only $99. After tomorrow, the price goes up to $149.
You can get the course at the discount here:
LOVE AND SEXUALITY FOR INFJS AND INFPS
The key to getting clarity is to understand that you really are different, and that your difference isn’t a defect or something you need to work on. It’s who you are, and it’s actually your strength.
Lauren
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