Dennis,
I know you have an iPhone, but you really need to borrow a friend's Android phone that has the Photosphere function in the Camera app. See the link below for details:
Unfortunately, there is no equivalent in the iPhone world that I am aware of.
Once you get the photo created, you must use photo editing software like GIMP (free for Windows, MacOS, or Linux) to remove the sky from the photo. It was pretty easy for me to do in GIMP. I took the picture when the sky was gray but a clear day when the sun is down would work, too. In GIMP, you "select by color" (Shift-O), click on the sky, and then press Ctrl-X. Finally, you export the photo to PNG format with a name containing no spaces (I used Backyard.png). Then, you copy the end result to a folder named appropriately by you (like Backyard). You must also create a file called landscape.ini using a text editor like Notepad (Windows), TextEdit (MacOS), or vi (Linux) containing entries like those found below (I set them up for your presumed location):
[landscape]
name = Backyard
author = Dennis Spender
description = Backyard
type = spherical
maptex = Backyard.png
angle_rotatez = 90
[location]
planet = Earth
country = USA
state = MI
timezone = America/New_York
latitude = +43d31'58"
longitude = -84d9'7"
altitude = 200
light_pollution = 5
display_fog = 0
atmospheric_temperature = 10.0
atmospheric_pressure = -1
(the altitude value above is in meters...adjust accordingly)
Finally, copy the folder containing the Backyard.png and landscape.ini files into a folder called "landscapes" in Stellarium's directory contained within your home directory. That path will depend on whether you are using Windows, MacOS, or Linux.
Windows - C:\Users\<yourUserID>\AppData\Roaming\Stellarium\landscapes
MacOS - /home/<yourUserID>/Library/Application Support/Stellarium/landscapes
Linux - /home/<yourUserID>/.stellarium/landscapes
Then, open Stellarium, press F4, click on the Landscapes tab, and select "Backyard" in the left pane. In the box on the bottom, check the box to make it the default. Then, check the Transparency box, and set the value to your preference (I suggest starting at .70).
Good luck!
Tony