Chris,
For ustacks, I think that Blacklisting occurs from two separate filters (there could be more?):
-high depth
-too many alleles (but cannot be 'Deleveraged')
For pstacks, I'm not sure quite what blacklisted means, but perhaps it is reads that aren't uniquely aligned in your sam file?
When you say 3% of 'tags' are blacklisted (ustacks),do you mean 3% *loci* are blacklisted?
When you say 33% of 'tags' are blacklisted (pstacks), do you mean 33% *reads* are blacklisted.
If so, you may not be comparing apples to apples.
-Ryan