Hi Joanna,
Do you have a MySQL config file in your home directory? The Stacks
programs will first look for this file and they use it if it is there.
It would be called, ~/.my.cnf
If you do have this file, does it have the correct credentials in it?
When you run
load_radtags.pl it complains that you are not supplying a
password, so does this file not have a password in it?
If you don't have a file in your home directory, the Stacks programs
fall back to the one you installed with Stacks, in
/usr/local/share/stacks/sql/mysql.cnf.
You can test the credentials in this file directly by running:
mysql --defaults-file=/usr/local/share/stacks/sql/mysql.cnf
julian