That Which Unites Has To Disperse....Likewise,That Which Culminates Has To Divide !

[SPHOORTHIOUM]

Sphoorthi Oum,

Reference : The Relations (Page 8) written by Guruji

A conversation involving a person consoling his brother who is
greiving on his wife's death

By performing the functions with purity in thought, word and deed, the
result relating to it should be left to the righteousness of the
creation... that means... for the decision by the destiny! That which
can ordain it is not the human mind. The entire creation is entity of
matter only! So also, that which decides the birth and death... that
which decides the intervening lifetime between them... is not human
being. That is merely passage of
time only!... That itself is the movement of matter..., its outcome!

Human bondages, relationships, and affinities are just the individual
and society concerned psycho instincts! They for that point of time
are certainties,realities only! However, they cannot be eternal truths
indeed! So also, all the matter related karma bound practices are
physical only! They are ephemeral logics only!

For example before marriage who were you, to your wife? One did not
know the other, did you! For sure were strangers only! In that state
was there anything relating to the bondage related to both of you?
With the name of marriage with the appearance of bondage, relationship
of wife – husband with love – fondness developed… shared…friendliness
one on the other. Even the kids who are born too are the same! So also
we in the bondage of wife – husband present for parents since I, you
were born a little earlier and a little later we are referring to as
older and younger brother! If that itself does not happen… what is the
relationship between us? Both of us, who is for whom? Simply in the
society we are human beings only! With the blood relationship of both
of us my wife
as your sister-in-law, and your wife as my sister-in-law kinship has
been established. For a moment if we think that it is not present...
all of us who is related how to each other?

This in the passage of time, only bondages of society but, not
permanent special relationships. That which unites has to disperse...
likewise, that which cumulates has to divide; this is not only for
human being – organism or nature, but entity of universe – property of
matter is also the same! The same can be considered as ‘fate’
and to certain extent truth!

The bondage, relationship of a married couple is a social domestic
duty! When for the children itself, who are born, to become distant to
their parents is natural, how can the bondage between a female-male,
who were born at different places, be permanent just because they have
lived together as husband and wife? To happen like that is completely
opposite to the law of ‘destiny’, and usualness of the nature!
Therefore, only to perform, that which has to be caused to happen, in
the name of ‘karma’, and to remain as a spectator to that which has to
happen is the
ordained duty of human being!... Whether it is you, or me, or anybody
else, wife,children, parents – in the matter of anyone who has the
blood relationships like this human being has to think this only! So
bring your dispersed mind to one place,understand thoroughly the
certainty of life, dharma of karma, and the destiny!

Relations, happiness and sorrow in life, and their experiences are
relating to the senses instigated mind only! Mind is not eternal. It
does not have any steady existence separately. Therefore, whatever
that appears and happens because of it,like it only, does not have
steady existence indeed!

For that very reason, through spiritualization of the karma related
mind and the senses instigated ‘intellect’, they can be reached to the
state of spirituality, the state that is beyond the understanding of
materiality. Thereby, physical mind, in natural way, from the senses
instigated control – in connection with intuitional conscience – with
understanding of object certainty – by transforming into ‘the mind of
moral sanctity’, gradually with ascendancy of practice of meditation,
that by reaching higher level as soul, and Divine Soul – as Universal
Soul goes in close proximity to the Supreme Soul, which is pervaded
all over.

In this way, the physical instinctive mind, which is an abode for
happiness and sorrow, love and hatred, likes and dislikes, by
acquiring a state that is beyond materiality, can experience eternal
ecstasy, which is devoid of sorrows, as feeling (experience).

In the mental state you are in at present, you may not understand
completely my words! Even so, you should try to control your mind! All
the organisms are from within the nature itself! All of them indeed
have the ‘unity’ of Bio matter! Even so,each one of it has its own
life! Although all including those that in water (aquatic) – land
(terrestrial), plant kingdom are the organisms of nature only, their
quantity and quality is indeed diverse.

For example, starting as a sprout from the seed and then growing into
plant, from the same – roots and trunk after being separated,roots
continue into the land and trunk towards the sky. Even so, both of
these once were indeed of the seed only! Trunk as branches… and
branches divide as subbranches(twigs). For the twigs, leaves in the
order of season by developing as bud – flower – tender unripe fruit –
green unripe fruit, ripens as fruit, and falls down, by hiding the
seed within it for the convenience of re-production. This is the
realty of life/organism. In this order, although everything is related
to itself, tree is only ‘one’!

Well, the living species are also the same indeed! The bindings and
relationships between all those, which are natural, are also the same!
No part in the tree grieves,either about the branches, twigs, leaves,
flower – bud, and unripe fruit that gradually go away from it having
born (began) from it …, or about the fruit that permanently falls down
from it. Even the human relations should be understood in the same way
only!

With Love & Regards,
Sphoorthi Family