Carrots, Eggs, & Coffee!

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Ramesh Thiruchelvam

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  Carrots, Eggs, & Coffee!

  A carrot, an egg, and a cup of coffee...You will never look at a cup of
  coffee the same way again.

  A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how
  things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make
  it and wanted to give up, she was tired of fighting and struggling. It
  seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.

  Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and
  placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the first,
  she placed carrots, in the second, she placed eggs, and in the last, she
  placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil without saying a
  word.

  In about twenty minutes, she turned off the burners. She fished the
  carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and
  placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a
  bowl. Turning to her daughter, she asked, ' Tell me what you see.'

  'Carrots, eggs, and coffee,' she replied.

  Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did
  and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to
  take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the
  hard-boiled egg.

  Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter
  smiled as she tasted its rich aroma. The daughter then asked, 'What does
  it mean, mother?'

  Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same
  adversity: boiling water. Each reacted differently. The carrot went in
  strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the
  boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile.
  Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after
  sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The
  ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling
  water, they had changed the water.

  'Which are you?' she asked her daughter. 'When adversity knocks on your
  door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?

  Think of this: Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with
  pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

  Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the
  heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a
  financial hardship, or some other trial, have I become hardened and
  stiff?
  Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough
  with a stiff spirit and hardened heart?

  Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water,
  the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it
  releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things
  are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you.
  When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest do you
  elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle adversity?
  Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?

  May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make
  you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human and enough hope to make you
  happy.

  The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything;
  they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. The
  brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can't go
  forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

  When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling.

  Live your life so at the end, you're the one who is smiling and everyone
  around you is crying.

  You might want to send this message to those people who mean something
  to you (I JUST DID); to those who have touched your life in one way or
  another; to those who make you smile when you really need it; to those
  who make you see the brighter side of things when you are really down;
  to those whose friendship you appreciate; to those who are so meaningful
  in your life.

  If you don't send it, you will just miss out on the opportunity to
  brighten someone's day with this message!

  May we all be COFFEE!!!!!!!
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