Hey Malik, I've seen you on other forums and YouTube. I know you're very passionate about music, and you have excellent taste, but you also seem to have some difficulty with social graces.
Please be aware that this forum is only for technical discussion of the SoulseekQt software, like bug reports. It is not a general forum for airing your personal grievances about specific Soulseek users. They won't ever see your protests here. Please stop with the complaints.
If you don't want to be frustrated by gatekeepers, just go into SoulseekQt and click on Options, then File Sharing. Near the bottom, uncheck these two boxes:
[ ] Show privately shared search results
[ ] Show privately shared files when browsing user shares
This will make it so that you don't see those locked files in the first place. This will greatly reduce your stress levels! Good luck.