Problems with other users downloading my files

[Waiting for Godot]

I have used Soulseek for over 20 years, these last few years mostly in order to share my files.  I have a new computer and, thus, a new problem. I can chat with a friend who has also downloaded from me, but other than him -who knows me personally and my username- no one seems to be downloading my files (though I am sharing over 44,000).  I suppose they must be "hidden" somehow.... Not sure what is happening, but I would love to be able to share my files again.  Final Note:   my modem has not changed and, as I have mentioned, I can chat with my friend and he can download my files.

Please help.