I do think having a large family will be a plus for him overall. He
certainly has plenty of people with whom to talk and interact, and that can
help Marie and me enjoy a bit of a break.
It does have some downsides, too, though. All of the older ones want to
help him all the time. That can be frustrating when we are trying to help
him learn to do things on his own, or to communicate with us. Once we knew
he could sign "cup", "drink", and "milk", we wanted him to sign at least one
of those signs to tell us what he wanted. The kids would just pour him a
cup if he was grunting near the dishwasher. On the playground, we've had to
tell the others to let him try things on his own. At church on Sundays, our
pastor does a children's song with the kids, and we need to continually
remind the older kids that they don't need to keep holding on to him, but
that they should set him down and let him mimic what others are doing.
It's definitely an interesting journey.