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dratner

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Dec 31, 1997, 3:00:00 AM12/31/97
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I am flying into Nashville where I will meet my gf. I would love to find a
hotel room that has a bed with posts so that I can tie her down. Also she is
very LOUD .

Does anyone have a recommendation on a good hotel downtown where the walls
aren't too thin (so they don't call the cops again because they think someone
is getting killed in the next room). I don't want to gag her since she has
asthma. Besides the her screaming is half the fun.

If I can tie her up to the head board well, that would be most unfortuanate
for her.

Maybe people have some good hotel, motel stories too.

thanks for your help.


Blues34957

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Jan 2, 1998, 3:00:00 AM1/2/98
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>I don't want to gag her since she has
>asthma.

try a nerf ball....she'll be able to breathe fine, won't swallow it, and still
make enough noise to get your rocks jumping.

Daniel

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Jan 3, 1998, 3:00:00 AM1/3/98
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On Wed, 31 Dec 1997 09:45:19 GMT, dan_r...@msn.com (dratner) wrote:

>I am flying into Nashville where I will meet my gf. I would love to find a
>hotel room that has a bed with posts so that I can tie her down. Also she is
>very LOUD .
>
>Does anyone have a recommendation on a good hotel downtown where the walls
>aren't too thin (so they don't call the cops again because they think someone
>is getting killed in the next room). I don't want to gag her since she has
>asthma. Besides the her screaming is half the fun.

Forget downtown.

Think Bed & Breakfast places outside of town. It's winter, no-one uses
them in the middle of winter, especially during the middle of the
week.

Most of them in that area are old farm houses. (for a few dollars
more, maybe they'd let you use the old barn too.) <BEG>

How much more privacy could one want?

Mistress Judi

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Jan 5, 1998, 3:00:00 AM1/5/98
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ld...@iquest.net (Liz Day) wrote:

>Is there any place one can go to freely make ungagged
>noise that won't have to be explained?

Look for a professional dungeon in your area. They often rent out the
dungeon rooms, though the cost can be a bit high. Unfortunately,
because of some of the laws in different cities, they sometimes have
to advertise themselves as "tanning parlors" or "modeling parlors".
If you contact one of these businesses and they don't have what you
need, don't be shy: inquire with them as to where you might find one.

Many of these places also offer the option of a paid submissive or
dominant, but if it is mandatory, and you're not interested in that,
move on to somewhere better suited to your needs.

Something else to not be shy about: ask to SEE the facility before
agreeing to pay any money. If they are a reputable business they will
be quite happy (and proud) to show you around! If they refuse, walk
out.

My husband and I stumbled onto a wonderful little place near where we
live, by asking a waitress, in a bar, where we might find a "bdsm
club". We were talking about a bdsm-oriented bar, where we could go
and have a few drinks, but the waitress we asked didn't understand,
and sent us to one of these "modeling parlors". Imagine our shock and
delight when we went and discovered that it was a very kink-friendly
dungeon-for-hire!

We can't afford to go there often (60$/30 minutes), but it makes for a
special- and private- birthday or anniversary evening! :)

Good luck and have fun!

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Bill Majors

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Jan 5, 1998, 3:00:00 AM1/5/98
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> I am flying into Nashville where I will meet my gf. I would love to find
a
> hotel room that has a bed with posts so that I can tie her down. Also she
is
> very LOUD .
>
> Does anyone have a recommendation on a good hotel downtown where the
walls
> aren't too thin (so they don't call the cops again because they think
someone
> is getting killed in the next room). I don't want to gag her since she
has
> asthma. Besides the her screaming is half the fun.
>

> If I can tie her up to the head board well, that would be most
unfortuanate
> for her.
>
> Maybe people have some good hotel, motel stories too

One technique that I have used upon occasion with very good results is to at
check in act embarrassed, shift from foot to foot, and inquire about the
occupancy rate of the hotel. Often this elicits a "why" from the clerk. Or
if it does not I then volunteer (of course this will depend on your age)
that I was traumatized in Vietnam, that sometimes I have very violent
nightmares in which I scream, thrashing, produce dialogue that might scare
other guests. So, I continue "if you have a wing or place where other guests
won't be disturbed ti would be best. OTOH, if you don't have such a place
I'll see to it that the TV is left on. Oh yes, if security hears screams of
torturous sounds it probably is just me having a flash back. <smile> Thanks
for being so understanding." It usually works!

kelfay

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Jan 5, 1998, 3:00:00 AM1/5/98
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On 5 Jan 1998, Liz Day wrote:

>Hello.....
>
>If you and your partner want to be noisy, and neither of you owns
>a dungeon or a house in the country - rather, all you have are apartments
>that share walls with aging, conservative, not-to-be-disturbed neighbors...
>
>What can be done? Is there any place one can go to freely make ungagged


>noise that won't have to be explained?

>I am bereft of creative ideas.

I don't know what area you're from or what resources you have there.
Most of the venues for play I can think of are public to some extent.
There are private clubs, commercial clubs open to the general public,
events with play space (conferences, etc.), and parties. In my
experience, many of these kinds of spaces allow screaming and such. If
you're looking for something more private or intimate, look for rentable
dungeon space. I've heard of at least one bed and breakfast place with a
dungeon, and some club spaces are available for private rentals.

- Kelly

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Kirk Job Sluder

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Jan 5, 1998, 3:00:00 AM1/5/98
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ld...@iquest.net (Liz Day) writes:

>
> Hello.....
>
> If you and your partner want to be noisy, and neither of you owns
> a dungeon or a house in the country - rather, all you have are apartments
> that share walls with aging, conservative, not-to-be-disturbed neighbors...
>
> What can be done? Is there any place one can go to freely make ungagged
> noise that won't have to be explained?
> I am bereft of creative ideas.

Ok, some suggestions that have worked for us:

Take a one-night mini-vacation at a local hotel. If you go during
the week the rates will be lower. It is a bit expensive on a regular
basis but on the other hand, it may be cheaper than a night out in
some urban areas. It also opens up lots of roleplaying oportunities
such as John/Jane and prostitute or forbidden lovers having an affair
in an exotic city.

Another option I've found is good for privacy is a good hot tub place
in the town where I live. Take an afternoon off so that you might have
the only appointment for your time. Give the folks there a CD to cover
up the noise and have fun.

>
> Thanks,
> LD
> Une souris dans les murs

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Joe Zeff

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Jan 5, 1998, 3:00:00 AM1/5/98
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"Bill Majors" <bmaj...@gte.net> wrote:

>One technique that I have used upon occasion with very good results is to at
>check in act embarrassed, shift from foot to foot, and inquire about the
>occupancy rate of the hotel. Often this elicits a "why" from the clerk. Or
>if it does not I then volunteer (of course this will depend on your age)
>that I was traumatized in Vietnam,

Not a bad idea, for those of old enough to have been there. I can
just imagine some 20-something wannabe trying it, though...


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Arrow Blue

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Jan 5, 1998, 3:00:00 AM1/5/98
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Joe Zeff wrote:
>
> "Bill Majors" <bmaj...@gte.net> wrote:
>
> >One technique that I have used upon occasion with very good results is to at
> >check in act embarrassed, shift from foot to foot, and inquire about the
> >occupancy rate of the hotel. Often this elicits a "why" from the clerk. Or
> >if it does not I then volunteer (of course this will depend on your age)
> >that I was traumatized in Vietnam,
>
> Not a bad idea, for those of old enough to have been there. I can
> just imagine some 20-something wannabe trying it, though...
>

(grin) Mebbe high school gym flashbacks?


Arrow

Tekell

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Jan 6, 1998, 3:00:00 AM1/6/98
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: Not a bad idea, for those of old enough to have been there. I can


: just imagine some 20-something wannabe trying it, though...

Well- the Cola Wars were pretty rough! i still am all messed up by the Pepsi
Challange and the New coke thing -Sometimes at night I wake up SCREAMING!!!

anyways---
I remember well the SAM DAVIS hotel -they tore it down -mainly because it was
so damn sleazy ;) In 1984 I went to Hume Fogg H.S. in Nashville - we would cut
classes and go hang out Sam Davis as much as possible!!! It was sort of what I
evision "andy warhol" era Chelsea Hotel must have been like! used to see these
gay "leather Daddy" types going there -

I'm sure there is some wacky fun sort of place off West End Ave. Nashville is
such a "shopping mall" culture kinda town- but scrub as they will -you just
can't remove sleasyness!!!! THANK GOD!!!!!

Have fun in Nashville and see as many "Death Cars" as possible
singing " i want to ride in the car Hank died in"
" I like to listen to Hank while I'm gettin' spanked - country beats
the hell outa me!!!"

THADDAEUS/CARNY

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