Well cuddling is something many people have missed during the pandemic, but
I know not to criticise any kink as nobody really yet knows what wires our
brains to be turned on by anything.
I mean certain smells like Leather can be very sexually stimulating but
there is no actual reason one might be that way.
I guess fast cars, guns and all sorts have become entangled with sexual
arousal over the years. Also why is being hurt by a member of the sex
consensually, different from when you accidentally hurt yourself. its all
about context obviously.
I did ones try to make sense of all this, but just like any feeling or like
or dislike the bottom line is, that is how we have become wired and nobody
really knows anything only perhaps the neurological based reason not the
actual way it happened.
I remember before I even knew sex existed that I enjoyed walking in bad
footwear or liked some kind of restraint. It was never connected to pain and
sex until I got to around the age of 11.
Then I of course found girls and found I enjoyed watching them restrained
or restraining me.
I guess that is just how the world is.
I'm now officially an old get so I can be more eccentric.
Brian G
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