Takin' a Break-PLEASE READ
Yuroba Brady
I don't know what happened exactly, but I'm becoming something I don't
like as a poster.
'Is she a good bitch or a bad bitch?"
"I'm not a bitch at all..."
But i'm becoming one awful damn fast. So i'm
going away. No, this isn't one of those 'you'll be sorry when they find
my skull in the dumpster' posts, no one is driving me away. NO ONE-I'll
come back when I can be the type of Assville resident I admire and
respect.
I love you guys, you know who you are. >'-)
If tin whistles are made of tin, how do they make fog horns?
huny
return...i may be talking to myself, i do that sometimes...but say hey when
You return!
huny, wondering about tin whistles and fog horns.
RPGsJoni
>respect.
And we'll be delighted to see you when you return, sweetie :) Meanwhile - keep
in touch by email - ok?
Hugs -
Joni
wailer
says...
>
>Friends,
>
>I don't know what happened exactly, but I'm becoming something I don't
>like as a poster.
>
>'Is she a good bitch or a bad bitch?"
>
>"I'm not a bitch at all..."
>
>But i'm becoming one awful damn fast. So i'm
>going away. No, this isn't one of those 'you'll be sorry when they find
>come back when I can be the type of Assville resident I admire and
>respect.
>
>
>If tin whistles are made of tin, how do they make fog horns?
You know what, I don't normally get involved in flame wars and the like, they're
boring and irrelevant to hot red bums and loving people and sexy stories that
make us hard or wet, but LadiKath, you're a *real* pain in the butt.
I haven't talked to Yuroba at all as far as I can remember, I haven't
participated much in the group lately at all due to RL commitments, but she's
sassy and sexy and funny and did not deserve the bloody irritating,
sanctimonious and gratuitous lectures that LadiKath delivered.
Sure, Yuroba fired back, but then she thought there was agreement to leave well
enough alone. But, no, LadiKath can't let sleeping dogs lie. Like some others on
this group, she has to have the last, absolutely final word to justify her
self-righteous blatherings.
People might think that I shouldn't say anything, and maybe I shouldn't, but I'm
sick of legitimate queries and thoughtful responses degrading into the sort of
crap that LadiKath goes on about. I *don't* care about her problems, her e-mail
Doms that don't respond, her on-going child raising experiences... I just don't
care.
What I do care about is that she manages to wear people down by her incessant
witterings until they find it necessary to leave (even if only temporarily).
It's worse than that idiot rabbi or sock-puppets or Zodiac, they can be plonked
in the kill file.
LadiKath, piss off and grow up and learn how to play with others nicely. And
this is the important bit, don't think that the rest of the world *needs* the
benefit of your wisdom.
Frustrated,
Wailer
(p&e)
IrishWinks
When you come back, there will be tens of thousands of posts to get through,
and who has time for that? (OK, weak point.)
The ng sometimes brings out the negative side in people (me, for instance), and
you have had an especially good (bad) antagonizer. There is a lot of
admiration and respect for you here. Your frustration with the situation is
completely understandable, and your humor more than makes up for any posts made
in frustration.
When you're gone you have taken the best of yourself from us too :(
IrishWinks, hoping to induce a "guilt of denying the masses" complex and
enticing 'Roba to stay
Quester
>
>
>
>Yuroba Brady <Bra...@webtv.net> said:
>> I'll come back when I can be the type of Assville resident I admire and
>> respect.
>Hugs, Jule
Hey 'Roba,
You listen to Jule. She knows what she's talking about.
Besides, Claude hasn't eaten a thing since you posted about leaving and he's all
aflutter.
Don't deprive us of your humor.
If you must take a break, make it a very brief one....
Quester
"Old wizards never die, they just forget how to spell." -Claude
SpnkAlly
irish...@aol.com (IrishWinks) wrote:
>When you're gone you have taken the best of yourself from us too :(
Truer words have never been spoken.
If you think you have gone over the top, if you think you are being mena
and nasty, bitchy even, you don't have to step away for a long while to
stop that. Just before you hit that post button, especially in reply to a
certain someone, step back, re-read it. Then continue reading the
newsgroup. Then maybe walk away from the computer for a bit.
Come back, re-read the posts you have not sent yet. If you still like what
you wrote, if you still want to send it, then do. But I'll bet you'll
re-edit or just not send it.
Sam<hoping you won't go>
--
spnkallyATaolDOTcom
D Landhill
>Friends,
>
>I don't know what happened exactly, but I'm becoming something I don't
>like as a poster.
>
>'Is she a good bitch or a bad bitch?"
>
>"I'm not a bitch at all..."
>
>But i'm becoming one awful damn fast. So i'm
>going away. No, this isn't one of those 'you'll be sorry when they find
>come back when I can be the type of Assville resident I admire and
>respect.
>
>
>If tin whistles are made of tin, how do they make fog horns?
>
your reast break will be brief, and you will return shortly, refreshed and
ready to continue posting things like "Sub in the Dark".
Don A. Landhill
DALan...@AOL.COM
Laserlynx
Say it ain't so, girl??? Don't leave now!
...But hey, if you're having any second thoughts about your style, then I
understand. I hope you do come back soon. Your wit and humor will be greatly
missed. I will look forward to another Pizza extravaganza at a later date...
Please take care, hon.
Bestest,
Courtney
Swen
>Friends,
>
>I don't know what happened exactly, but I'm becoming something I don't
>like as a poster.
Yuroba, I understand the need to get away. I hope you come back, or
I'm gonna have to take away what I said about you a couple days ago
and make you number one on the next groove strapping list.
Say, why doesn't someone else leave, too, for a while?
Swen
LadiKath
Just realize that when people disagree with you or say things you don't want to
hear, they are <<<not>>> insulting, just bringing up the other side of the coin
for thought and contemplation.
Realize too that if you start something, like calling someone cold, and it
happens to be some like me who had big mood swings, you are probably going to
get back a great deal more than you gave. Hey, I'm not as bad as some of the
people you could have pissed off.
You have a perfectly good mind and can certainly handle it. You may be
childlike in play, but you are certainly not a child.
Katharine
IrishWinks
>. . . I'm gonna have to take away what I said about you a couple days ago and
make you number one on the next groove strapping list.
>
>Say, why doesn't someone else leave, too, for a while?
>
>Swen
OK. I have to run to the store now and will be back in about 20 minutes :)
IrishWinks, wondering if she bumped 'Roba out the #1 spot
Swen55alo
>
>IrishWinks, wondering if she bumped 'Roba out the #1 spot
Good try, Irishwinks, but I don't think so. Not for the groove spanking list,
anyway. This little remark just landed you on the ENEMA list, my latest thing.
So bend over, you're next.
Is it time for another list? Yeah, I think so. So here are the top ten
recipients of a groove strappin' for Swen
1. Debbie Ann. Why? No reason is needed, really, but I have one anyway.
It's that name. Debbie Ann. So, ummmm, innocent sounding. That name just
begs for a good workout with the groove strap.
2. Mija. For actually speaking to me in #overlap last night. No one ever
speaks to me there, it's like I have leprosy.
3. Gillian82. This goes back a ways. Your gonna get it for all that sissy
stuff about keeping it quiet on your cruise. "Ohhhh, it's too loud." Well,
the groove strap will produce PLENTY of noise to make up for the cruise.
4. RPG's Joni. Congratulations, I didn't forget you this time. I TOLD you'd
make it sooner or later.
5. Domino, for being British and for posting those pics to ABPES.
6. Casey, for saying I look like a Perv. You don't know me well enough to be
giving me a compliment like that, but thanks anyway.
7. huny. For those great posts to ABPES and because you spell your name lower
case. That alone is usually enough to make the list.
8. Di (discrete1) For totally blowing me off when I wanted to take the test.
Now NO ONE will ever know what kind of personality I have because I aint going
NEAR that web page now.
9. Greg. This one is theoretical only. for having your first RL session
while I am stuck with Mrs. V.
10. Mrs Mish, 'cause this is what I would have had you do had our (or mine,
anyway) Superbowl dreams come true.
If you did not make this list try checking the enema list soon to be released.
huny
and giggling a lil nervous giggle~ um.....is this a good thing, Sir?
Swen55alo wrote:
> So here are the top ten recipients of a groove strappin' for Swen
>
Swen55alo
Well, let's put it this way. I don't know about you, but *I* am sure gonna
enjoy it. I have a feeling you will, too.
Kessily
kessily
PamiMac
strap list. I begged and groveled last time to get ON the list and now I'm not
on it. I don't WANT to be on the enema list. <pout, stomp, snort, arms
crossed, beligerent look on my face>.
Pam <p&e)
Life IS Good.
barb...@ix.netcom.com
I think this particular forum requires some new ways to take care of
ourselves that are a bit different than other forums. Many of my very
favorite people around here "disappear" for days or weeks all of the
time. (And my very favorite virtually only lurks) I know they are
busy, happy and priorities preclude hanging out on a newsgroup for
awhile.
Come back refreshed and renewed.
PamMa'am
Petulant2U
heroines.
Roba, you have passion. If sometimes you feel like you're being a bitch, so be
it. Lord knows most everyone in here has shown hir bitchy side at one time or
another.
We accept each other for who we are as a whole. Sometimes nice, sometimes
bitchy.
Or as my sister likes to say, "good hair days and bad hair days"
No reason to leave Roba. Just ride through it. If a particular thread is
having a negative affect on you, turn your attentions to other threads.
I wish you wouldn't leave. I enjoy reading your posts.
Best
Pet
Quester
says...
Hey Pam,
I'm with you. I hate it when I make the "B" list. Blackwell always manages to
exclude me off "The Best Dressed" and even "The Worst Dressed". Missed all the
lists of Fat Boy Rush and even Drudge missed me on all his lists. Now here
comes Swen with his A and B lists and if there's one I don't need right now is
Swen's B list. I live in a little fishing village amongst seagulls that fly in
swams. Talk about not needing anything close to enemas it is new car owners
with glistening car bodies that always and I do mean always gets plastered. We
never worry about UFO's around here. It is always identified and to be blunt,
it is a shity proposition.
Swen..... don't you dare. If anyone around here doesn't need an enema it is
people around feathered friends!
Quester
"Confucius say: 'Bird in hand makes hard to blow nose.'" -Claude
Mija
Yuroba Brady wrote:
>
> Friends,
>
> I don't know what happened exactly, but I'm becoming something I don't
> like as a poster.
>
> 'Is she a good bitch or a bad bitch?"
>
> "I'm not a bitch at all..."
>
<snip>
> I'll
> come back when I can be the type of Assville resident I admire and
> respect.
>
> I love you guys, you know who you are. >'-)
This is a really lovely post. I know there are people whose
feeling make them beg someone to stay when their heart is asking
for a little space, but as someone who has had to leave (despite
begging others to stay) for my own mental balence I have to say
I do understand.
People come to SSS for a lot of reasons. Some just post story after
wonderful story and don't enter into discussions, others play and
discuss only rarely. Some post advice and debate. Most do a
combination of the above. And a few (gladly) post only to cause
discord. What has worked for me when I've found myself feeling
more unhappy then happy about the group is to step back and remember
why I'm here. When that stops working, I go away for a while and
just read stories that authors are kind enough to send me. I always
come back and always will.
I'm not sure if webtv offers you a filter, but that can work. So
can just walking away and ignoring whoever is bothering you.
Anyway, I just wanted to tell you I have nothing but respect for
your choice here. And you've avoided the first mistake of people
leaving the group...
... never ever say "I'm never coming back" or "I'm leaving forever."
<grin> Though people who say that *always* come back faster... if they
leave at all.
Peace,
Mija - offering to come by and eat any chocolates you might have
left that could go bad while you're gone.
P&e
Afonyname
>From: Bra...@webtv.net (Yuroba Brady)
'Roba,
I just read 24 requests that you rethink your leaving designs. I'd like to
add mine. I enjoy your humor. Your "pizza nite" story should go down as one
of the classics.
If you gotta go, then you gotta go. Just don't make it long, OK?
kathy
Beginnings are scary, endings are sometimes sad,
but it's the middle that counts the most.
You need to remember that when you are at the beginning.
Hope Floats
domino
>5. Domino, for being British and for posting those pics to ABPES.
*goddamit* I AM *NOT* BRITISH!!!!!!!!!!
and yanno what Swen my lad - if you persist in perpetuating this
myth I might very well need to impress upon you the error of your
ways.
and although I may be a sub, you *(rilly* don't wanna see what I can
do as a top.
love
domino :-)))
kerrsut...@hotmail.com
I bet you make a rilly impressive and intimidating Disciplinarian.
Helen
who couldn't resist :O>
domino
>> you *(rilly* don't wanna see what I can do as a top.
>
>I bet you make a rilly impressive and intimidating Disciplinarian.
Naw - that's my *RL* personality :-)))
love
domino
SilkDreamr
>6. Casey, for saying I look like a Perv. You don't know me well enough to
>be
>giving me a compliment like that, but thanks anyway.
That's what I get for being sick for so long....I fall even further down the
list of GS ladies. Aw well....I've never been one for waiting in line.
Casey, wandering off to be head of the Gorgeous Gimps for Groove Strapping
Perv's line
SilkDreamr
I didn't know Domino was British!
Casey, wondering if wonders will ever cease
Greg T
>Friends,
>
>I don't know what happened exactly, but I'm becoming something I don't
>like as a poster.
>
>'Is she a good bitch or a bad bitch?"
>
>"I'm not a bitch at all..."
>
>But i'm becoming one awful damn fast.
That is not my impression, but in this one your opinion is the one
that counts.
>So i'm
>going away. No, this isn't one of those 'you'll be sorry when they find
>my skull in the dumpster' posts, no one is driving me away. NO ONE-I'll
>come back when I can be the type of Assville resident I admire and
>respect.
Fair enough, just realize that you retain the admiration and respect
of others as things stand.
>I love you guys, you know who you are. >'-)
I hope your absence will be brief.
Enjoy
Greg T
posted & e-mailed
FrenchAmie
>Yuroba, for heavan's sake, don't go away.
>Just realize that when people disagree with you or say things you don't want
>to
>hear, they are <<<not>>> insulting
<snip, snip, snip>
Roba announced her temp departure with << *no names mentioned*>>, <<*
no blame attributed*>>, and <<* with an assumption of responsibility for
her own actions*>>. In other words, a *CLASS ACT*.
On the other hand, in sharp contrast, is this self-serving, nagging posting
from Ladikath, pawing up the ground to retrieve her ancient grievances to mark
what she thinks is a victory. *Not* a class act, not even close.
>Just realize that when people disagree with you or say things you don't want
>to
>hear, they are <<<not>>> insulting
Ladikath, my tormenting cactus, your comments to 'Roba were insulting and IMO
were intended to be insulting. If you genuinely believe they were not
insulting you have a very, very grave, perhaps clinical, problem in
self-perception.
>Realize too that if you start something, like calling someone cold, and it
>happens to be some like me who had big mood swings
Mood swings, little scorpion of the southland, are clinical features which can
be treated with meds, or sometimes even with a nice shower. They are not,
however, an excuse for insulting someone or chasing that person all over town
with barbs and verbal venom.
You do recall, little black widow spider, that she asked you *several* times to
leave her alone. Couldn't you muster the decency to honor that request?
>, you are probably going to
>get back a great deal more than you gave.
Meaning: I will keep obsessively, implacably, witlessly, churning out long
tirades of trash put-downs. Some people, my little departed cream puff, think
this makes me strong and powerful. But there are a few unenlightened people
who perceive some of my postings as the logarhea of an obsessive hysteric.
> Hey, I'm not as bad as some of the
>people you could have pissed off.
You will note, my wee fire ant, that Roba didn't piss off anyone else; instead,
she in a very short time gathered about her a large number of fans and
well-wishers. So, because no one posted an ultra-nasty message about Roba,
your plain ole garden variety weedy obsessive nastiness was ok?
>You have a perfectly good mind and can certainly handle it.
Meaning: Goody, goody, now I've cleared the way for more nastiness when the
poor child (see below) returns to posting 'cause I've declared her fair game
for myself.
>You may be
>childlike in play, but you are certainly not a child.
Ah, my blunt little nettle, you tried to finish up with one more disparaging
comment to a person gone.
Ladikath, why don't you try to take on someone with more experience with Usenet
bullies? And who can see the rather weak personality motivating the bully?
Gawd, Ladikath, have a cuppa Stash and try to emulate Roba's classy behavior.
Amie
Greg T
>>OK. I have to run to the store now and will be back in about 20 minutes :)
>>
>>IrishWinks, wondering if she bumped 'Roba out the #1 spot
>
>Good try, Irishwinks, but I don't think so. Not for the groove spanking list,
>anyway. This little remark just landed you on the ENEMA list, my latest thing.
> So bend over, you're next.
>Is it time for another list? Yeah, I think so. So here are the top ten
>recipients of a groove strappin' for Swen
>
>9. Greg. This one is theoretical only. for having your first RL session
>while I am stuck with Mrs. V.
I'm impressed that I managed to generate this degree of envy, though I
must say that *I* envy the folks who from here who get to do scenes
like this on a regular basis. I am also very glad you added the
theroetical part <resheaths katana> ;-)
Enjoy
Greg T
wailer
says...
>
>Ladikath's sanctimony has cracked the decency barrier
>Ladikath, my tormenting cactus, your comments to 'Roba were insulting and IMO
>Mood swings, little scorpion of the southland, are clinical features which can
>You do recall, little black widow spider, that she asked you *several* times to
>Meaning: I will keep obsessively, implacably, witlessly, churning out long
>tirades of trash put-downs. Some people, my little departed cream puff, think
>this makes me strong and powerful. But there are a few unenlightened people
>who perceive some of my postings as the logarhea of an obsessive hysteric.
>You will note, my wee fire ant, that Roba didn't piss off anyone else; instead,
>Ah, my blunt little nettle, you tried to finish up with one more disparaging
>comment to a person gone.
>
>Ladikath, why don't you try to take on someone with more experience with Usenet
>bullies? And who can see the rather weak personality motivating the bully?
>Gawd, Ladikath, have a cuppa Stash and try to emulate Roba's classy behavior.
>
>Amie
Amie, I'm retiring! I stand and applaud, bravo!
Wailer
(p&e)
Ajeannnie
:>>So i'm
>>going away. No, this isn't one of those 'you'll be sorry when they find
>>my skull in the dumpster' posts, no one is driving me away. NO ONE-I'll
>>come back when I can be the type of Assville resident I admire and
I am sorry you are leaving but understand your need. I just hope you return
soon. I have always enjoyed your spunk, sense of humor and your wit.
Jeannie
Why don't you tell your dreams to me....fantasy will set you free.
~~Steppenwolf~~
barb...@ix.netcom.com
> Doms that don't respond, her on-going child raising experiences... I just don't
> care......
Be that as it may, others do.
PamMa'am
MollyOhMy
Wailer posted about being frustrated and that frustration spurring him to
involve himself in a flame war. This most recent iteration of someone posting
very sad personal information while at the same time -- or very shortly
thereafter -- attacking another poster has got me thinking about justice and
fair play here in the newsgroup.
Every single person who reads or posts to this newsgroup has sad and painful
aspects of his or her life. None of us can ever know what these may be, but
it's a pretty safe assumption that human existence involves a measure of
complexity and pain. Some people want to share their illness and griefs
publicly with the newsgroup. Others choose to draw strength and comfort only
from friends and family. Clearly, both paths are legitimate and which one any
of us chooses to follow is a personal matter. In my judgment, though, it's a
mistake to assume that people who choose not to post their sorrows don't have
them.
For this reason and others, it deeply offends my sense of fair play when
someone posts publicly about illness, disappointments in spanking or love,
recovery, etc. while at the same time attacking or harrassing another person.
It's only human to want to "lay off" someone who is very visibly in pain, but
when this combination of "I'm so sad/ You're so bad" repeats itself over and
over, it begins to feel like a very tacky form of manipulation.
And it leaves the person being attacked in an incredibly difficult position.
Molly Oh
(posted)
domino
*SHRIEKKKKKKKKK* I am *NOT* British!!!!!!! I only live
here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
domino :-)))))
Mija
MollyOhMy wrote:
>
> About personal problems and the newsgroup:
<snip of section on posting of personal problems and flaming>
> For this reason and others, it deeply offends my sense of fair play when
> someone posts publicly about illness, disappointments in spanking or love,
> recovery, etc. while at the same time attacking or harrassing another person.
> It's only human to want to "lay off" someone who is very visibly in pain, but
> when this combination of "I'm so sad/ You're so bad" repeats itself over and
> over, it begins to feel like a very tacky form of manipulation.
>
> And it leaves the person being attacked in an incredibly difficult position.
MollyO,
I agree with you to a point. Yet on the other hand, when a poster
steps out of character so far (as was the case with the person you
chose to make an example of in your post) as to post a flame when
they *never* have in years of posting (at least to my memory),
an explaination given after the fact of why seems to me entirely
appropriate. Not to mention that the person they were flaming
uses the same tactic and has repeatedly.
I like consistancy in people (my own hang-ups etc.) and so when
someone does something they haven't done before, I want to know
why. But your point of it being very unfair for people to attack
others on this group because of their own personal hurt is legitimate.
I'm just not sure what to do about it. There are people on this
group, as you say, suffering from a great deal of personal pain.
I don't want them to go away and deal with their hurt in private
(though oddly that's my own pattern). I dearly love some of them --
they've helped me grow in ways they may never fully understand.
I want to be able to send some tiny smile of comfort or cheap offer
to help if I can.
There have also been times when other members of the group seem
to over-react to one person being criticized on the group because
they know information not available to others. Remembering that
we all have a lot going on that's unseen (deaths, illnesses,
violence, recovery, broken relationships, you name it) is never
a bad idea. The under-currents here can sometimez make me feel
swept away.
That said,
I don't like people using victim status to justify hurting others.
I don't like emotional blackmail. And I don't forgive people who
hurt others over and over. I'm not capable of doing so, and
honestly I don't want to be. So what's my point?
I dunno. <g> I guess that I *can* understand how these outbursts
happen sometimes. And, frequently they aren't without justice.
Being hurt doesn't give someone the right to be hurtful. But
once in a while it makes it understandable. Maybe criticism
should be reserved for those who make this a pattern.
Peace,
Mija - who would never tell someone she's arguing with where
she hurts for fear of being kicked there. <wry smile>
P&e
Rosy B. Goode
Anon-Post-To: soc.sexuality.spanking
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Yuroba, my feeling is that if you need a break for your own peace of mind
you should take one (though I also agree with Pet that we all get bitchy
from time to time and that's ok). I hope you will come back when you can.
In article <3734586a....@news.demon.co.uk>, dom...@cocoon.demon.co.uk
(domino) wrote:
> On 3 Feb 1999 14:44:41 -0800, swen...@aol.com (Swen55alo) wrote:
>
>
> >5. Domino, for being British and for posting those pics to ABPES.
> *goddamit* I AM *NOT* BRITISH!!!!!!!!!!
No, dear, you are definitely not British.<Rosy fondly remembers Domino's
upturned smiling beautiful subtly exotic ancient-mother face and wonderful
accent>
> and yanno what Swen my lad - if you persist in perpetuating this
> myth I might very well need to impress upon you the error of your
> ways.
You go girl!;-)
> and although I may be a sub, you *(rilly* don't wanna see what I can
> do as a top.
Well, maybe _he_ doesn't, but I do I do _I_ do!<g> Anytime, sweetheart,
anytime.
Big hugs,
Rosy... wistfully remembering what Domino looks like wearing a purple satin
chemise and wielding a cane on my beloved Liz.<sigh><<--this '<sigh>'
represents wistfullness and should not be construed as any kind of vicious
or caustic flame.;-)
Uncle_Peter
good on ya
Uncle Peter pete...@yahoo.com
...... *what if......what if everyone, reached out with one heart*
.........Reba Macentire
--
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Surf Usenet at home, on the road, and by email -- always at Talkway.
wailer
says...
>
>About personal problems and the newsgroup:
>
>involve himself in a flame war. This most recent iteration of someone posting
>very sad personal information while at the same time -- or very shortly
>thereafter -- attacking another poster has got me thinking about justice and
>fair play here in the newsgroup.
>
Just to clarify, my frustration was at LadiKath's seeming inability, despite
many previous occurences of a similar situation, to comprehend the irritation
she causes with pompous sanctimonious lectures.
Any frustrations in my personal life are a *whole* other story... and it's in
reasonably good shape at the moment.
Wailer
(p&e)
wailer
>
>
>
>MollyOhMy wrote:
>>
>> About personal problems and the newsgroup:
>
>
>> For this reason and others, it deeply offends my sense of fair play when
>> someone posts publicly about illness, disappointments in spanking or love,
>> recovery, etc. while at the same time attacking or harrassing another person.
>> It's only human to want to "lay off" someone who is very visibly in pain, but
>> when this combination of "I'm so sad/ You're so bad" repeats itself over and
>> over, it begins to feel like a very tacky form of manipulation.
>>
>> And it leaves the person being attacked in an incredibly difficult position.
>
>MollyO,
>
>I agree with you to a point. Yet on the other hand, when a poster
>steps out of character so far (as was the case with the person you
>chose to make an example of in your post) as to post a flame when
>they *never* have in years of posting (at least to my memory),
>an explaination given after the fact of why seems to me entirely
>appropriate.
Ah, you forget the arguments I had with Pet. I must admit I've forgotten what
they were about as well, which is probably just as well... <waves at Pet>. In
fact, from memory, that flame war involved LadiKath as well, hmm, while one
shouldn't extrapolate from a limited data set...
Also, just to make it clear, the frustration I expressed was at LadiKath's
behaviour, not any particular aspect of my RL...
>[snipped nice things about helping people... Mija, were you a girl scout? <g>]
>So what's my point?
>
>I dunno. <g> I guess that I *can* understand how these outbursts
>happen sometimes. And, frequently they aren't without justice.
>Being hurt doesn't give someone the right to be hurtful. But
>once in a while it makes it understandable. Maybe criticism
>should be reserved for those who make this a pattern.
>
I agree, and will probably live to regret the outburst, though not yet <bratty
grin>.
Wailer
(p&e)
SilkDreamr
>
>>>>5. Domino, for being British and for posting those pics to ABPES.
>>
>> Casey, wondering if wonders will ever cease
>>
>*SHRIEKKKKKKKKK* I am *NOT* British!!!!!!! I only live
>here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Dom,
LOLOL! I KNOW you aren't British....it was a joke! I'm sorry if you really
were shrieking. I just couldn't resist...it was a great set up!
Want me to post a retraction on the NG?
Casey
Rosy B. Goode
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silkd...@aol.com (SilkDreamr) wrote:
Are you _sure_ you wouldn't rather go over her lap?;-) It's a _lot_ more
fun than any sort of retracting that I've ever tried, and personally I'd
jump at the chance if it was offered.<g>
Hugs,
Rosy... getting a little punch-drunk from the lateness of the hour (even
for her) but she's already had her ice cream and is rilly rilly going to
bed now... sheesh, and I am gonna really see Peg next month... maybe she
won't notice this one.. I'm outta here.<Rosy zips away, faster than the
speed of the sound of one hand.. or hairbrush.. clapping>;-)
SilkDreamr
>Are you _sure_ you wouldn't rather go over her lap?;-) It's a _lot_ more
>fun than any sort of retracting that I've ever tried, and personally I'd
>jump at the chance if it was offered.<g>
I don't remember it being offered but if it were I'd have to ask Rick first.
It's his bottom we're talking about here. I know, I know...it's actually my
bottom but I gave it to him, just as he gave me his.....well, suffice to say
it's my favorite toy in the whole wide world!
Casey, so happy I have a weekend of toy time fun!
RPGsJoni
>after she'd asked this person publicly many times to leave her alone.
To say nothing of repeated comments by the other that she would forever
*ignore* what Yuroba was writing on the ng. A position this person has taken
before, and never honored.
Joni - P&E
domino
> Want me to post a retraction on the NG?
<giggle> no :-) that won't be necessary :-)))))
ROFL
love
domino
domino
wrote:
>No, dear, you are definitely not British.<Rosy fondly remembers Domino's
>upturned smiling beautiful subtly exotic ancient-mother face and wonderful
>accent>
<blush> I have some fond memories myself.... in fact I was just
watching some video an hour ago :-)))
>> and although I may be a sub, you *(rilly* don't wanna see what I can
>> do as a top.
>
>Well, maybe _he_ doesn't, but I do I do _I_ do!<g> Anytime, sweetheart,
>anytime.
Sweetie - you haven't seen me in RL making grown men cower :-)))
>Rosy... wistfully remembering what Domino looks like wearing a purple satin
>chemise and wielding a cane on my beloved Liz.<sigh>
*sigh* that *was* fun - Liz is a pleasure to spank.... well as are
you and everyone else I met :-)
><<--this '<sigh>'
>represents wistfullness and should not be construed as any kind of vicious
>or caustic flame.;-)
>
ROFLROFLROFL!!!!!! Rosy you have a wicked sense of humour that should
earn you a *long* spanking :-)))))
love
domino
domino
I'm always happy to spank friends who wanna be spanked :-)
domino
Rosy B. Goode
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Yuroba, I hope you don't mind us playin' in your thread. One of the things
I mostly love about this group is the way 'heavy' threads often work their
way around to fun and/or silliness. It doesn't mean we don't care about
you or don't sympathise with your frustration. It just means (IMO, of
course) that there is an irrepressible thread of fun and caring here that
manages to keep going and finds a way to wind to and through almost
everything, even a lot of the hard stuff. I think this is mostly a Good
Thing but, of course, YMMV. Anyway, I mean no disrespect to you or your
feelings.
In article <37697ebb....@news.demon.co.uk>, dom...@cocoon.demon.co.uk
(domino) wrote:
> On 5 Feb 1999 01:52:01 -0800, RosyB...@newsguy.com (Rosy B. Goode)
> wrote:
>
> >No, dear, you are definitely not British.<Rosy fondly remembers Domino's
> >upturned smiling beautiful subtly exotic ancient-mother face and wonderful
> >accent>
> <blush> I have some fond memories myself.... in fact I was just
> watching some video an hour ago :-)))
It's no effing _FAIR_. Why the hell does the English video format havta be
different than the one over here!!!! I wanna copy of my owwwwnnn!<Rosy
sticks out her bottom lip and sulks while trying to look as cute and
appealling as possible, even though she isn't really a brat and doesn't get
much practice at it>
Domino, talkin' to Swen, 'cause he said she was British:
> >> and although I may be a sub, you *(rilly* don't wanna see what I can
> >> do as a top.
> >Well, maybe _he_ doesn't, but I do I do _I_ do!<g> Anytime, sweetheart,
> >anytime.
> Sweetie - you haven't seen me in RL making grown men cower :-)))
Oh my!<Rosy fans brow vigorously, trying to remember to breathe> Now I
rilly _RILLY_ wanna see!;-)
> >Rosy... wistfully remembering what Domino looks like wearing a purple satin
> >chemise and wielding a cane on my beloved Liz.<sigh>
> *sigh* that *was* fun - Liz is a pleasure to spank.... well as are
> you and everyone else I met :-)
I am always happy to pleasure you, my dear.<g> (But do please hasten to
reassure me that your *sigh* didn't have any deep hidden meanings or I may
begin to suffer from some sort of anxiety complex, since the term seems
somehow to have now gotten classed in with such gems as dipshit and asswipe
and clueless fuck.;-)
> ><<--this '<sigh>'
> >represents wistfullness and should not be construed as any kind of vicious
> >or caustic flame.;-)
> ROFLROFLROFL!!!!!! Rosy you have a wicked sense of humour that should
> earn you a *long* spanking :-)))))
Ooooooooo!<squeallysquirm> Would that be a *long* spanking starting with a
wonderful warm up, getting progressively harder and harder while working
gradually down through layers of lovely fabric to my plump bare squirming
stinging red behind and then spanking and spanking and spanking my
beautiful butt with hands and paddles and brushes and kitchen utensils and
crops and straps and canes while I wiggle and writhe and moan and
squeal?<shiversquirmmeltgeezwhere'smyvibrator?>
Hugs,
Rosy... who loves makin' Domino laugh... she has the most _delicious_ and
sexy laugh....<g>
P.S. Ahem.<squirmagain> I am gonna log off now and disappear into my
boudoir for a few minutes... I'll be thinkin' of ya!<very naughty g>
Rosy B. Goode
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In article <19990205203719...@ng156.aol.com>, moll...@aol.com
(MollyOhMy) wrote:
> Responding to my post, which was apparently as clear as mud ;>, Wailer writes:
Well, I didn't think it was _that_ bad.;-) Wailer is just such a sensitive
guy when he's not bein' all firm and manly (and sometimes even while he
is<g>).
> Molly Oh (clearly needing to brush up on my writing skills)
Hmmmmmm... I've got a nice sturdy bathbrush (had a nice hairbrush, but
Laura cracked it over Jessie's butt<giggle>). Want some help?<eg>
Hugs,
Rosy... desperate enough to <perk> a little just from the words 'brush up'.;-)
IrishWinks
anything covered with or excreting blood. So, Domino sweety, it is possible
that you have been assimilated :)
Love,
IrishWinks
domino
Nothing of the kind!!!! I was raised in a good catholic country, and
everyone knows 'bloody' is a corrupiton or 'By Our Lady' (reverring of
course to the BVM, so I maintain that my use of the word does *not*
mean I'm a borg (*or* a brit :-)
love
domino
wailer
>[snipped clearing of mud :-)]
>
>Molly Oh (clearly needing to brush up on my writing skills)
Well, certainly a (hair)brush should be involved one way or the other. <neg>
Wailer
(p&e)
wailer
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>>Responding to my post, which was apparently as clear as mud ;>, Wailer writes:
>
>Well, I didn't think it was _that_ bad.;-) Wailer is just such a sensitive
>guy when he's not bein' all firm and manly (and sometimes even while he
>is<g>).
Oh great, now I'm the Assville resident SNAG, just when I was about to let my
toppy side step out and play.
<grumblejusttryingtobecivicandniceandallIgetare*compliments*dammit>
Where's the fear, the cowering, the eyes widening with awe as I order "knickers
down"?
Wailer
RPGsJoni
>Where's the fear, the cowering, the eyes widening with awe as I order
>"knickers
>down"?
>
>Wailer
I dunno - will ya settle for eyes softening, knees going weak with desire, and
a softly drawn breath, followed by *Yes, Sir*?
Joni - hopin' someone answers ya that way <ggg> an' btw - what's a SNAG?
Petulant2U
>h, you forget the arguments I had with Pet. I must admit I've forgotten what
>they were about as well, which is probably just as well...
Probably, since I don't remember it either!
Pet
<waving back at wailer>
Rosy B. Goode
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In article <19990206142816...@ng-fi1.aol.com>, rpgs...@aol.com
(RPGsJoni) wrote:
Wailer wrote:
> >Where's the fear, the cowering, the eyes widening with awe as I order
> >"knickers
> >down"?
Ummmmm... have you tried DLynn's house (I think she likes that fear stuff)?;-)
> I dunno - will ya settle for eyes softening, knees going weak with desire, and
> a softly drawn breath, followed by *Yes, Sir*?
That would be closer to my sort of response (the warm squiggly clenchy
feeling in my middle would be less apparent;-), except I often prefer
'dear' to 'sir', though for some reason I do like 'ma'am' sometimes, when
appropriate, but 'sir' feels so militaristic.<g>
Hugs,
Rosy... who did not, in her earlier staement, in _any_ way mean to imply
that Wailer would not be a very firm and powerful top... only very strong
and self assured men can afford the special kind of sensitivity he's got,
IMO.<g>
John S. Gray
Who else has felt the sting of the FULLER heavy plastic bath brush?
RPGsJoni
>
>Who else has felt the sting of the FULLER heavy plastic bath brush?
>
Off topic, H E double toothpicks!
Joni - muttering something about the FPBB Papa has - for the unitiated it
stands for F******Plastic Bath Brush....and it's earned it's reputation...
Rosy B. Goode
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Wailer:
> >> >Where's the fear, the cowering, the eyes widening with awe as I order
> >> >"knickers
> >> >down"?
Rosy:
> >Ummmmm... have you tried DLynn's house (I think she likes that fear
> stuff)?;-)
> >
Wailer:
> Must remember that <makes note in little black book>
Rosy (responding to Joni's proposed nice alternative to the cowering stuff):
> >That would be closer to my sort of response (the warm squiggly clenchy
> >feeling in my middle would be less apparent;-), except I often prefer
> >'dear' to 'sir', though for some reason I do like 'ma'am' sometimes, when
> >appropriate, but 'sir' feels so militaristic.<g>
Wailer:
> For you, Rosy, "Yes dear" would be perfectly acceptable. <g>
I will remember that, dear.;-)<makes note in little purple book>
> >Rosy... who did not, in her earlier staement, in _any_ way mean to imply
> >that Wailer would not be a very firm and powerful top... only very strong
> >and self assured men can afford the special kind of sensitivity he's got,
> >IMO.<g>
Wailer:
> That's enough, there's so much syrup now that I can't *find* the
chocolate. <g>
It's under that pile of garlic.<g>
> Wailer - self assured, ha!
Ya just proved my point!;-)
Hugs,
Rosy... running away quickly.<g>
kerrsut...@hotmail.com
says...
Domino,
It's not nice to make people ROFL in a computer lab that has other people in it.
:->
Helen