Big vs Small bun spankings
AnnieFanny13
only for adults
Even though ALL we women think about the dimensions of our nether
cheeks....do these jeans make my butt loot fat?.....
You all know I'm a spanko, and was corporally punished growing up, so it's no
surprise that my bottom-size had always been a BIG issue with me.
Worrying about our backsides in jeans is one thing, but picturing how my buns
looked totally bare, pointing to the ceiling over the lap, was only half my
consternation during spankings.
My point is that big-bottomed gals get worse spankings than tiny tushie
females. I may be wrong, on an individual basis, but hear me out.
Like millions of young teens, at that age my body felt like a balloon,
blossoming in hair, hips and humps on my chest. Looking at old photos, my
fanny was round and plump but not nearly as gigantic as it felt when my panties
were pulled down for a spanking.
Here's the rub. My family believed in strict pants down spankings for
learning experiences. So, we girls, my sister, myself and my cousin got taken
over the lap for serious discipline often.
Sadly, I felt "fat" cuz my hips and breasts and buttocks were a bit larger
than my kid sister Cathy or my same-aged cousin Sue's were. But the worst part
was how spankings were decided.
In our family, it was "fair," we were all spanked with hand, hairbrush or
belt until our WHOLE backsides were red hot. But because MY vulnerable behind
was a bit larger than the other girls' butts...I seemed to get MORE spanks!
I recall being spanked, for fighting, along with my sister and cousin when I
was 14. One after the other, with me last, we were taken over my mom's or
aunt's lap, panties down, for a hairbrushing from hell.
Because sister Cathy and cousin Sue's bare bottoms presented a smaller target,
it took only about 30 hard spanks to redden their entire backsides.....
On the other hand, or hairbrush, or belt.....my own backside was chubby
enough, and my thighs wider enough, to need at least 10 or 15 MORE spanks to
complete the red color..and lead me to louder bawling and more humiliating
kicking......
I never found this fair because I had done nothing more or less to be spanked
but had to take a good deal MORE whaps in punishment JUST because my fanny was
a bit bigger!
I don't mean to whine, but come on! What to you all think? Is spanking a big
bottom more a fair thing?
Annie
RITHS
Elsps
How about a 240-stroke caning for talking and goofing off online for four hours
(one stroke for each minute)? Hey, if they run out of surface to redden, they
just go over the same spots again!
Erica S.
--If you want to be called Master, play with Barbara Eden--
Haron
<<How about a 240-stroke caning for talking and goofing off online for four
hours (one stroke for each minute)? Hey, if they run out of surface to
redden, they just go over the same spots again!>>
240? What do you mean - 240! Isn't it a little bit more than any backside,
big or small, is able to TAKE, let alone contain on its surface?
Erica, please, let me out of this misery and say you took it in instalments!
Best,
Haron [whose record with the cane is 8 cuts a time, and who could
undoubtedly take a bit more, but 240?]
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"I have heard of a paddle steamer, but not of a steam paddler" -
Monty(BillB)
ssp...@webtv.net
<<I never found this fair because I had done nothing more or less to be
spanked but had to take a good deal MORE whaps in punishment JUST
because my fanny was a bit bigger!
I don't mean to whine,
but come on! What to you all think? Is spanking a big bottom more a fair
thing?>>
Apparently, you've never met any of the Tops I know because I have a
small bottom that has taken extended punishment by hand, cane, paddle,
loopy johnny and assorted implements [reminiscing about an encounter
with coaxial cable and an electrical cord :-) ].
I attended a public party a few months ago and I, a small-bottomed
woman, had just as many opportunities for spankings by enthusiastic
males as larger-bottomed attendees. I think most men are just happy to
have a bare female bottom over their lap, regardless of the size of the
target area.
Men that have spanked me have certainly not held back because my bottom
might have been smaller. It has been my experience that Tops who enjoy
intense play choose spankees for their feistiness, enthusiasm and
endurance--not the size of their ass.
Spark
P&E
ssp...@webtv.net
<<Hey, if they run out of surface to redden, they just go over the same
spots again!>>
Exactly! And we've all sported the spectacular bruises and welts as
'souvenirs' of our encounters.
Spark
remembering that a few of Erica's spankings can be viewed and re-viewed
by all :-) !
P&E
SG
I don't find your post as being a debate of big vs small buns and the
red/pain factor, you were just abused more than your sister and cousin.
You basically answered your own post when you wrote that you bawled
louder and kicked harder with the extra whacks.
No, it isn't fair.
Pain is pain no matter how fat or small your ass is.
SG
jkl...@webtv.net
Haron,
I probably got close to 240 strokes with the SINGAPORE last year during
my first real caning. I know that a shorter caning a couple weeks later
was 175 strokes, so the longer one HAD to be at least close to 200. I
could've taken more possibly, but my friend who was spotting for me
figured that was enough! I haven't had a caning of that magnitude since
then, but I think the last one I had was more than fifty. I can't count
when I'm in subspace. <BG>
Jen
Sherry
all at once. I just hit that subspace and don't want it to stop <g>
painslut that I am.
~~~~~
Sherry
Bast...@webtv.net
240 cane strokes!!! 240!!!!! This I have to see. Jen, I have to hand it
to you. I don't think that I could go through that. <sh, bg!>
Dwayne
" Always see everything my brother."
From 'Ghost Dog The Way Of The Samurai'
Haron
I'm not convinced that a punishment caning could last for so long without
being converted to necrophilia at some point.
But in play, well... I guess things happen!
Best,
Haron
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"You become responsible, forever, for what you have tamed" - Antoine de
Saint-Exupery
jkl...@webtv.net
Haron,
Who said anything about punishment canings?? <BG> Canings CAN'T be used
as punishment for me, because I like 'em way too much! The Singapore
cane is pure pleasure for me.
Now the HAIRBRUSH, that's SERIOUS punishment!!
Jen
Renee
They come in all sizes and probably can't stand any pain.
I've been told that some women just like a pattycake spanking and that
is what trips their trigger. For me <G> I like a lot, or so I have been
told. I cannot compare what anyone is feeling to what I am feeling. I
will just never really know.
I can't imagine 200 strokes with a cane. . . or even counting that much.
When I have been caned, it is a series of small taps followed by a good
hard smack and then back to small ones, etc...
As one poster said, he spanks people, not just their bottoms. It is
very much a head trip as well as a physical one.
I take different spankings with different people. Different tops give
different spankings. ((I have to say, that I really admire tops. They
work hard to please us bottoms.):-) It's the individual, it's the
chemistry between the top and the bottom, so many factors...
Big or small, makes no difference at all!
Renee
kathi
el...@aol.com (Elsps) wrote:
> I'm a small-bunned female and I don't notice anyone cuts me any slack! lol
> How about a 240-stroke caning for talking and goofing off online for four hours
> (one stroke for each minute)? Hey, if they run out of surface to redden, they
> just go over the same spots again!
>
> Erica S.
If my Top is cutting me slack because of my small butt then it is news to
me. He doesn't spank to redden surface area so much as he spanks to stop my
sarcastic mouth from flapping. That does not happen until long after my
bottom is a deep dark red. I just love to get the last word in a little too
much.
Kathi
Sent via Deja.com http://www.deja.com/
Before you buy.
Elsps
>big or small, is able to TAKE, let alone contain on its surface?
>Erica, please, let me out of this misery and say you took it in instalments!
>
Not to worry, Haron, I was in VERY good hands. And yes, all 240 were delivered
in the same scene, and I had to count every one! However, they weren't full
force -- I mean, don't think along the lines of those full-arm swings like they
do in Singapore! Plus, you need to remember that I've been playing for a while,
and I've toughened up a bit back there. There are others in SSS (like the
famous painslut Jen :-) who can take way more than that!
Again, not to worry, I was not brutalized. The gentleman in question is an
expert with the cane, reads his partners well and knew exactly what I could
take.
Erica
P&E
Jack63863
Maybe your disciplinarians just like a darker shade of RED!!!
VBG
Jack
phil...@my-deja.com
of corporal punishment. In one of them, victims proudly displayed
their beaten buttocks for the examination and comments of
others. "Fairnes" in our world was an expectation that persons
punished for the same offense would get the same # of strokes delivered
with similar force. It is more than fifty years ago, but I can
remember thinking that this was not entirely fair. A skilful caner
could land strokes close together or in the same place, but the
likelihood of this happening was greater when the target was small.
For others who may be interested, the maximum we would normally receive
at one time was six strokes. That is very painful; believe me!
Still Lurking
Haron
<<Now the HAIRBRUSH, that's SERIOUS punishment!!>>
Uh, uh! Don't even talk to me about brushes, they ought to die, all of them.
You don't even have to have a particularly big bum to suffer from them,
cause one whack is quite enough, thank you very much.
Best,
Haron
Haron
<<I was in VERY good hands. And yes, all 240 were delivered in the same
scene, and I had to count every one! However, they weren't full
force -- I mean, don't think along the lines of those full-arm swings like
they do in Singapore!>>
Now that's a consolation, I guess <g>
See, I wasn't implying that your top would give you more than you could
take... but what amazes me is that you could actually take it!
You know what you've done now?
I won't find rest until I try the same, see how infectious these ideas are?
Best,
Haron [p&e]
Hadd Enuff
jkl...@webtv.net
Hey Muffy,
You either REALLY REALLY hate hairbrushes as much as I do, or you have a
really good thesaurus. <VBG>
Jen
Hadd Enuff
Sherry
horrid, terrifying, vicious, wicked, cruel, miserable hairbrushes! But
first remember to pluck them all bald. : Ş
Muffy>
But I like the brush! You can not burn any of my brushes...no, no, no!!!
~~~~~
Sherry
nadia A salem
Bratt...@webtv.net
Sherry
hand its the best >
Oh, I and my behind agree with you wholeheartedly. Nothing like being
bare bottomed across a lap and feeling the hand hit your skin, getting
it hot, then next feeling the wonderful hairbrush for a long, long
spanking.
~~~~~
Sherry
Greg T
Sherry,
One thing I have seen, in the time I have been here is how variable
tastes are. Jen, for example, who blisses out when getting caned,
fears the hairbrush. As a Top, I don't particularly care what the
Dread Instrument (note the caps) is, so long as there *is* one for the
particular woman I happen to be spanking.
Enjoy
Greg T
jkl...@webtv.net
Greg,
I know there has to be a Dread Instrument, but can't it be something
BESIDES the hairbrush?? PLEASE? You know what that thing does to me!
Actually, I kinda like the idea of "blissing out" instead of calling it
subspace. Bliss describes it a lot better. : )
Jen
jkl...@webtv.net
Greg,
You know WHY I fear the hairbrush? It freakin' HURTS!!!!! It hurts in
a way that no cane ever could, not in a million years. I can't process
that kind of pain very well. So yeah, I fear it. It's kinda like I
don't want to be in control at all, but being THAT far out of control is
a little bit scary because it's so much all at once, like those really
scary rollercoasters that I refuse to go on.
Jen-hoping that makes sense, but I'm willing to clarify if needed.
Sir James
too stickly they will even disturb muscle tissue or fragment bones.
The hand is the best implement for discipline in my opinion. But my
favorite is my whispy bamboo switches, they leave such nice thin welts
and do not leave the B&Bs that heavier objects do.
Respectfully,
Sir James
Greg T
>
>
>Greg,
>
>I know there has to be a Dread Instrument, but can't it be something
>BESIDES the hairbrush?? PLEASE? You know what that thing does to me!
Ah, but Jen, without the above reaction, it couldn't possibly be the
Dread Instrument, QED
Enjoy
Greg T
Greg T
Hence the Dread in Dread Instrument. something that can actully make
you sit up (mainly cause you can't sit *down*) and take notice. For
threat value _alone_ there has to be a Dread Instrument of some sort.
Enjoy
Greg T- <VBVEG>
jkl...@webtv.net
Greg,
It's the Dread Instrument, but it doesn't HAVE to be. There has to be
another instrument that I don't like. Paddles are up there, almost with
the hairbrush. I don't FEAR them, but the pain is close to the
hairbrush. That could work. Yeah, that's the ticket. <BG>
Jen
jkl...@webtv.net
Greg,
Threats work with almost any implement, except the cane of course. <BG>
Belts, paddles, lots of stuff. Hey, the quirt is serious pain too, that
could work!
Um, speaking of Dread Instruments, the hairbrush isn't included in the
Queue from Hell, is it???!!
I can just see that very big very evil grin as you sit there typing
these posts!
Jen
kathi
Hi Jen, Serious punishment is a perfect description. I got my first
punishment spanking today and it was of course with a hairbrush. I have to
agree with you on this. I'll take a caning anyday over a hairbrush! My ass is
on fire. Of course it would have taken a lot longer to get an "I,m sorry sir"
out of me with a cane.
Kathi
Greg T
Your very reaction indicates that (for you) there can be but one Dread
Instrument, the hairbrush.
Enjoy
Greg T
Greg T
>
>
>Greg,
>
>Threats work with almost any implement, except the cane of course. <BG>
>Belts, paddles, lots of stuff. Hey, the quirt is serious pain too, that
>could work!
>
>Um, speaking of Dread Instruments, the hairbrush isn't included in the
>Queue from Hell, is it???!!
Except for some side improvising that I might decide to do, the Dread
Instrument (i.e. the hairbrush) is THE method of spanking for the
Queue from Hell.
>I can just see that very big very evil grin as you sit there typing
>these posts!
Got that one dead solid perfect <VBVEG>
Enjoy
Greg T
jkl...@webtv.net
Greg wrote,
<<Your very reaction indicates that (for you) there can be but one Dread
Instrument, the hairbrush.
Enjoy
Greg T>>
Greg,
I say we take a vote. <BG>
Jen
jkl...@webtv.net
Greg,
I was hoping you'd say you were planning on getting inventive with the
Queue from Hell and were going to use something other than the
hairbrush. Of course, since I'm planning on being perfect between now
and March <VBG>, you won't have to put the Queue from Hell into action
anyway!
Jen
Starship
Okay. I'll vote for the hairbrush as the Dread Instrument for you.
(That's HAIRBRUSH. No butterfly ballot involved, and it's not changing
no matter how many times you recount it.) ;)
--
Starship
Note: The author of this post wishes to express his appreciation and
thanks to the SSS moderators for their hard work on behalf of the
newsgroup.
kathi
Starship <stars...@yahoo.com> wrote:
> (p&e)
>
> jkl...@webtv.net wrote:
> >
> > Greg wrote,
> >
> > <<Your very reaction indicates that (for you) there can be but one Dread
> > Instrument, the hairbrush.
> >
> > Enjoy
> >
> > Greg T>>
> >
> > Greg,
> >
> > I say we take a vote. <BG>
> >
> > Jen
>
> Okay. I'll vote for the hairbrush as the Dread Instrument for you.
>
> (That's HAIRBRUSH. No butterfly ballot involved, and it's not changing
> no matter how many times you recount it.) ;)
>
> --
>
> Starship
Jen,
I vote for the cane (since it's your favorite) and no hairbrush. I also
think that unfortunatley in this case (much like in the Presidential
election) the peoples vote won't make a difference.
jkl...@webtv.net
Ya know Starship, it's times like this when I wish I could still brat.
My first inclination when I read your hairbrush comment was to stick my
tongue out at you, but I'm not allowed. I think I should ask Greg if
bratting would invoke the EEP and the Queue from Hell. If it won't,
then just check out this thread sometime tomorrow. <BG>
Jen
p & e
jkl...@webtv.net
Kathi,
Nobody could get an "I'm sorry Sir" out of me with a cane. Maybe a
"Thank you very much, Sir" along with a goofy grin, LOL, but no
apologies! <BG>
If you think a regular hairbrush is bad, you REALLY don't want to have
anything to do with the evil awful WEIGHTED hairbrush! I haven't had it
used on me as punishment YET, but I know it will reduce me to tears VERY
fast.
Jen