Find someone who is on the same page and wants the same no-strings-attached scenario. Be honest and clear with your partner, making sure both parties are satisfied with the casual relationship. Partners should agree on the terms of the encounter prior to meeting.
To flirt online, you should consider to whom you are talking to and what your goals are. Flirting online is just like flirting offline – except with offline you can use facial expressions and physical gestures, and even touch. To be effective in flirting online, you can use emojis to show affection, to tease or to convey your interest. Having and using a sense of humor is also important. Flirting is fun, so be playful. Try to build off of the last text you received. Keep it light and use compliments to make your recipient feel good.
If you enter into a hookup situation and later find you want a relationship, there are many ways to go about changing the hookup to a committed partnership. The most common way is to be direct and tell your partner that you are interested in a relationship. This approach can be risky, but the only way to find out for sure is to ask if they are looking for a relationship as well. There is a chance that they may be open to it, but just hadn’t thought about it because they assumed you were not interested in a relationship. If you are too scared to bring it up directly, you can drop hints along the way and see if your partner picks up on them. Once they take the bait a little, it could provide an opening for you to then have a discussion about the idea. Finally, you can just start doing “relationship-type” activities with your hookup partner without even really discussing it as a “change.” For example, if you are used to simply ordering in pizza after a hookup, or sending them home, you can invite them to a movie or out for a drink. If you have common interests outside of the bedroom, you can explore those together and allow the relationship to evolve.