Need help finding secret/private emails/profiles of cheating spouse

[Jolene Ann Ehrhardt]

First, I wouldn’t normally do this type of thing but I’m at a complete loss here.

My husband is wrecking havoc in my children’s life’s and my life due to significant and extreme sudden changes. Infidelity and deception are within his character makeup but I’d truly hoped it was all in the past by now.

The issue is, while he’s at work - which is all that seems to mean anything to him - he can be doing anything and I have no way of knowing what’s going on behind my back and causing him to be so destructive in terms of the negative ways he’s behaving and thus the toll it’s takkng on my children and I.

Due to his past poor and selfish choices which caused us to almost lose our family and all we had/have going for us, when I see this extreme unexplainable change, I admit, I’m instantly suspicious because of similarities from his past.

That said, I’m also aware that maybe I’m just bring paranoid of it happening again and there could be something else going on with him that he’s just not ready/interested in opening up about that’s totally innocent.

The only way I can get peace of mind is to do my own due diligence by ensuring he doesn’t have a private/secret email account or online profiles I’m unaware of, etc.

Going through his phone is pointless because he can delete whatever he wants, same with his laptop, plus it’s his work equipment so I’m legally not allowed to install any spyware (and I’m on the fence about taking that drastic of measures).

It was suggested that I could add this post here in hopes of someone helping me try to locate any of these hidden emails/profiles by me providing his basic information (or whatever information I do happen to have for him..) so that’s what I’m going to list below and cross my fingers as I’d hate to make an allegation as well as continue living with this intense anxiety and fear and potentially lose everything I love and live for over nothing, however and to the contrary, if there is something going on behind my back that isn’t fair to my children and I, I NEED to know so that I can move on with our life’s and have the peace of mind to know I did what needed to be done and I can only do that if I have some degree of proof to justify in my heart leaving him and this marriage and therefore changing the course of life for my innocent children forever. I cannot just divorce him over my intuition or instincts or fears and worries based on our past.

So here’s ALL I have on him (including a couple female coworkers whom he’s been rather odd about):

Real Name:
John Michael Ehrhardt

Some Aliases I’ve randomly found:

E Ehrhardt John
John E Ehrhardt
John M Ehrhard
John Erhrard
John Erhrardt

Associated/Known Phone Numbers:

720/369-4511
303/955-8851
720/598-3512

Associated/Known Email Addresses:

- John.E...@adaes.com
- John.Ehr...@gmail.com
- John_E...@msn.com
- John_Ehr...@gmail.com
- Jeh...@yahoo.com

Birthdate:

September 29, 1978

Associated/Known Online Profiles:

LinkedIn (this is the ONLY one I’m aware of)

Associated Companies:

ADA-ES / Advanced Emissions Solutions, Inc.
Great Southwestern Constructions
Renewable Energy
Insituform (Agieon is what I believe it’s called now)

Associated Female Coworkers (I do not want them to be contacted obviously, that would be the end of my marriage and my innocent children’s life’s as they know it):

Kimberly Hansen
Alyssa Fuller
Elizabeth Morley

I pray that I’m not setting myself up for failure and Ann even bigger nightmare by posting this. I feel the resource who referred me to this option is very credible but you never know who’s online or what they’re capable of or willing to do to hurt others, especially people they do not know (like me). I’m a good person, a wonderful loving wife and mother and I’m just simply trying to protect our future privately (and YES for anyone out there who’s going to criticize this - I’ve “just talked/asked my husband” already... but due to his past, as well as the continued aggressive and just angry behaviors he’s exhibiting, it’s hard to ever again be 100% certain after someone has betrayed you in the past. I had been very close to fully trusting him again after many years and I’m not much of a snooper into his things - but no matter how amazing things returned to, I still wasn’t ever able to get quite all the way back to 100% trust, but I accepted that - however currently - nowhere near that good place I was able to get myself back to after the fact - I feel much closer to the way I felt when I learned of his past betrayals all those years ago currently and I just need to know if there’s any basis for these feelings.

I appreciate anyone who’s able and willing to help me in anyway possible and of course it should go without saying that discretion is of the utmost importance and if not for me - please for my innocent children who have a wonderful life and don’t deserve to have it torn apart because of this post...

Thank you and I appreciate it very much. Sincerely, Jolene.

[r00b...@gmail.com]

Hey, I'm sorry for bumping this old thread but I see nobody has bothered to mention this. I had some major suspicions spouce was cheating and sure enough, I was right. I used used this to find out: http://www.lookin.icu

I wish I had know sooner about this. Wouldn't have wasted so many years. Hope this helps!