5 Things She Wants You To Do In Bed
You might think you’re bringing your A-game to bed, but chances are, there’s room for improvement. Getting there might be most of the work, but if you ever want to get there again, consider a few desires most women have which cannot be ignored. She might not tell you, but there are things you need to get good at. Really good at.
One of the most popular secret desires women have is a little roughhousing. The nature of the male-female dynamic is that a women was built to be dominated, however dangerous that might seem at first. Just don’t go too far, and you’ll do just fine. Pull her hair a little, put your hands gently around her throat, or push her face into a pillow once in a while to see how far you can go.
Bondage & Control
Tying her up and blindfolding a person can be risky, but if done right, a little light bondage can be very rewarding. She might instantly hate it and tell you to stop. If that’s the case, stop immediately until you’ve gained a little more of her trust. If you find yourself getting a green light, just make sure you’re not cutting off any circulation. She either wants you to take control or give her control. Try them both until you figure out which works best.
Talk Dirty & Make Some Noise
Never underestimate the power of telling a woman the filthy things you want to do to her. She will feel wanted and you’ll end up enjoying it as much as she does. Start with more benign statements and get slowly dirtier to figure out where her boundaries are. If you generally don’t make noise when you climax, start grunting a little and see how excited she gets.
You knew it was coming — pun intended. If you’re not giving her oral at least a little each time you get into it, you’re getting lazy. If she says she doesn’t want it, or doesn’t like it, it’s possible you’re just not very good at it. Tell her you want to practice, and when you do, try every conceivable direction and style you can imagine until you get it right.
You might be shuddering right now, but the vast majority of women want to be held after. Like giving oral, there isn’t really any way around this, so stop trying. In fact, not holding her after is a major deal-breaker for a lot of women, so unless you’re hoping not to hear from her again, learn to love the post-coital cuddle.