CARLA K. JOHNSON. Testing for HIV together, hearing results together.

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By CARLA K. JOHNSON
Testing for HIV together, hearing results together
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CARLA K. JOHNSON | January 18, 2012 03:41 PM EST |

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CHICAGO — Newly dating and slightly anxious, two men bared their arms
for blood tests and pondered the possibility that one of them, or
both, could be infected with HIV. An innovative program – called
Testing Together – would allow them to hear their test results minutes
later, while sitting side by side.

Eric Zemanovic, a dental hygienist, and Dominic Poteste, a restaurant
server, had been dating two months after a yearlong friendship. In the
past, they'd both practiced safe sex and got regular HIV tests. Both
are in their early 30s. They'd grown up when AIDS meant an early,
horrible death. So, whenever they heard about friends testing
positive, they felt pangs of fear.

Poteste explained: "There's always an anxiety that comes with getting
tested, even though 99 percent of the time I've been safe and been
careful, there still is always ..." His voice trailed off.

"A slight possibility," Zemanovic completed the sentence.

"A slight possibility," Poteste agreed.

___

Testing Together, now under way in Chicago and Atlanta, takes an
unusual approach: It encourages gay male couples to get tested
together and hear their results together. After delivering the
results, a counselor talks with the couple about what to do next,
including agreements they may want to make with each other about sex
and health.


Are we agreeing to be monogamous? Is any sexual activity outside the
relationship OK? How are we going to protect each other from
infection? Couples address these questions and more.

The idea is to bring honesty to sexual relationships, said one of the
researchers behind the program, Rob Stephenson of the Rollins School
of Public Health at Emory University in Atlanta.

Relationships offer only "mythical protection" from HIV, Stephenson
said. Some couples may have avoided talking about each other's HIV
status, thinking, "If he were HIV positive he would have told me," or
"If he wanted to know, he would have asked."

Poteste and Zemanovic, the newly dating Chicago couple, differed in
their past approaches. Zemanovic was in the habit of asking his sex
partners about their HIV status; he was "neurotic" about it, he said.
Poteste hadn't been as sexually active as his new boyfriend, but he
hadn't always asked the questions: Have you been tested? What's your
status?

"You have an assumption that if there's something this person could do
to potentially hurt me, they would tell me," he said.

Zemanovic hoped getting tested together and discussing results with a
counselor would build trust between them.

Poteste hoped the counselor could help them start a conversation so
they could ask and answer difficult questions.

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It started in Africa more than 20 years ago. Researchers believe
couples testing has successfully reduced the spread of AIDS among
married, heterosexual couples in some African regions. One study that
looked at couples where one spouse is HIV positive and the other is
HIV negative estimated that couples testing was cutting the rate of
transmission by more than half.

In Washington, D.C., where the rate of HIV infection rivals some
African nations, some community agencies allow couples to test
together. Family and Medical Counseling Service Inc. has been testing
about 145 couples together annually since 2008. Most are heterosexual
couples.

In Chicago and Atlanta, Testing Together, funded by the MAC AIDS Fund,
hopes to test 400 couples by the end of the year.

___

Each participant in Testing Together signs a consent form that
addresses receiving counseling, testing and results with a partner in
the same room at the same time with a trained counselor: "I hereby
consent to allow my partner to know the results of my HIV test," it
begins.

The program challenges conventional practices in the United States,
where HIV testing is usually private and for individuals only. At most
other clinics, a man who asks if his partner can be there when he
hears his test result is denied because of patient confidentiality
concerns.

There are two trends fueling Testing Together. One, the number of gay
Americans telling the U.S. Census they're living with same-sex
partners nearly doubled in the past decade, to about 650,000 couples.
About half those same-sex partnerships are gay men.

What's more, a new line of research suggests that up to 68 percent of
new HIV infections in gay men come from a main sex partner, not from
casual sex, in part because main sex partners are more likely to forgo
condoms.

Counselors are trained on how to deliver test results, with particular
emphasis on how to tell partners the most difficult news: one partner
has the virus and the other doesn't. With these so-called "HIV
discordant" couples, counselors have a great opportunity to reduce the
spread of the virus by helping the couple learn ways to protect the
uninfected partner, primarily through correct and consistent condom
use.

Counselors are trained to dispel myths. If the couple thinks the test
result means one partner has been unfaithful, the counselor might
point out that the infected partner could have acquired HIV before the
partner became a couple. If the couple believes the virus is
"sleeping" and can't be transmitted, the counselor might explain that
HIV can be transmitted even if there are no signs or symptoms. If the
couple believes their status is proof that precautions aren't needed,
the counselor might explain that HIV could be transmitted in the
future as the infected partner's virus levels rise.

Sam Hoehnle is a counselor in the Chicago program. "It never becomes
easier emotionally" to deliver the news to an HIV discordant couple,
Hoehnle said. He tells the HIV negative partner his results first,
then spends more time and attention on the HIV positive partner. He's
seen partners support each other, but he acknowledges he can't read
minds. A show of compassion could mask anger or fear.

"You don't know what's happening internally, in their heads, about how
they're feeling about each other," he said.

___

Poteste and Zemanovic got the best news possible: They were both HIV
negative.

They both laughed with the sheer relief of it. The counselor had been
nonjudgmental and hadn't wanted to talk about the past, only the
future, pressing them to talk specifically and directly about their
agreement on sex outside the relationship.

Zemanovic: "We both agreed on monogamy. And if we do need to go
outside the relationship (we agreed) to talk to each other and find
out, `OK, what do we need to do here?'"

Poteste: "This was a full exploration of (monogamy), whereas before,
it was a casual statement or a passing joke that was maybe passive-
aggressive.... We need to be much more direct in communications than
we have been."

As a thank-you gift for participating in the program, they received
two movie passes and a gift certificate for drinks and popcorn.

After the other decisions they'd made that day, deciding on which
movie to see would be a snap.

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