fourthwire said,
"Wow, there are certainly a lot of men on here who have been hurt by the
women they love(d). "
sstratford, you are undoubtedly correct. But your thinking is amusing
fallacious if you believe that only men who have been BURNED by a woman are
turning their backs on marriage.
Get it through that skull of yours - marriage to American women is
DECREASING... as greater numbers of young men learn from older men about the
snakepit mentality of "family court", the greed and self-centeredness of
American women, and those legal, financial, and emotional risks that
characterize marriage in America.
"No offense, but there are always two sides to every story."
Undoubtedly, but if you look at the incentives that women in America have
been provided with to plunder their ex-husbands financially, the story ought
to be fairly clear even to other women, such as yourself.
"As the husband, did you do EVERYTHING you could to love and take care of
your wife?"
LOL.. clearly you are having some cognitive issues, sstratford. American
women divorce because it's easy, it rewards them financially, and because so
many of those women are greedy entitlement princesses.
"But I personally know of several men who have nothing good to say about
their ex-wives, and yet I saw how these women were treated while they were
married and I don't blame them at all for wanting a divorce."
Well thanks for the newsflash from your neck of the prairie... but the
general issues that make marriage such risky business for men has little to
do with your several friends' experiences.
"Now, I do admit that a lot of women go for the jugular when going through
a divorce and even for a long time afterwards, and if I could do something
about that, I would."
There is nothing that you can do now.. except write to your
representatives and senators and tell them in no uncertain words that you're
tired of seeing men raped financially by their ex-wives.
It would probably also help if you add a few scathing words about
feminists' efforts to devalue and destroy marriage in America.
"But I also know for a fact that there are many, many men out there too
who would do the same if the positions were reversed."
While there are greedy, self-centered men, you would be hard-pressed to
find numbers of men equal to the numbers of entitlement princesses in
America.
Besides, by-and-large men are taught that they must WORK for their money.
American women are taught that all that they have to do is get some sucker
to sign on the bottom line for THEIR money. Or hadn't you noticed?
"So don't get on my case because you had a nightmare
marriage/divorce/life/whatever."
No.. but you're so clearly out of touch with the fundamental FACTS
regarding marriage in America that your perspective is irrelevant,
sstratford.
--
"First they ignore you, then they ridicule you, then they fight you, then
you win." - Mahatma Gandhi
"MCP" <gf010...@blueyonder.co.uk> wrote in message
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> I would only add one thing. This applies to marriage in general and worldwide not just in the US. There really is no reason for a man to marry.
[Men who don't want families NEED NOT MARRY. It's just that
simple. ]
> What does a man really get out of marriage? Men have got to begin thinking> like females and weigh what is in their self interest and what they're getting out of something. Throughout human history which is at least the
> last 200k years marriage was unknown and it wasn't even known for 95% of that time that having sex caused pregnancy. The kids produced were the females' problem to care for and they did it by being prostitutes, which is
> why selling themselves for money or goods comes so natural to them.
If men risk having children, they also risk paying for any children
they have regardless of marriage and regardless of wanting those
children, AND regardless of the silly names they try to attach to
women. Women don't care what little bitter twitters call them, just
so men pay their share.
Back in> the cave woman days if a female wanted something she couldn't
provide for> herself (99% of things) she would "be nice" aka have sex
with a man to get
> him to share his hard won property and food.
It's not your father's cave, these days. :-) Women today can get
their own food, clothing and shelter. And the more money women make
the more choices they have. So, your mother never promised you a rose
(see sex) garden, and women don't owe you sex.
Now tell me. What has changed in the last 200k years? Even in cave
woman days females managed to provide
> some things for themselves by scavenging just as "career females" today scavenge on what the mind and work of MAN has created and produced.All> females have a false sense of competency and are not smart enough to> understand the effort and intelligence MAN has put into developing
> technologies over thousands of years which make it possible and easy for them to survive in the world.
The real problem causing the blind spot in your bitter twitter
thinking is that women have participated in society all along. Today,
there is no technology that doesn't involve women. So stop trying to
live on your forefathers achievement. That's over.
The average female reminds me of like the 10th
> generation of a wealthy family that produces an idiot heir who thinks she is> great and doesn't understand the blood, sweat and tears that went before
> that put her into that position.
Did you _really_ believe that ideas contributed by men of yesteryear
were brought about to give you brownie points now? And let's not
forget our foremothers who bore 13 kids in a short lifetime. You
bitter boys didn't get anywhere alone; you never have; you never
will. All you bitter boys are good at is stealing other people's
rights.
And now that even the bitterest boys have been exposed lately (Bush
and cronies) it's really all over.
Well here I will give the old girls credit. At least they has the decency to
DIE after they became useless to the species, unlike today's sponges living
on SS to 90.
You
> bitter boys didn't get anywhere alone; you never have; you never
> will. All you bitter boys are good at is stealing other people's
> rights.
> And now that even the bitterest boys have been exposed lately (Bush
> and cronies) it's really all over.
He's still in charge for all your whining haha
>
>
Just as you are trying to cash in on your foremothers so called
discrimination, eh Parg!
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> > Did you _really_ believe that ideas contributed by men of yesteryear were brought about to give you brownie points now? And let's not forget our foremothers who bore 13 kids in a short lifetime.
>
> Well here I will give the old girls credit.
Indeed. The "old girls" were pretty busy giving life to each next
generation, and some young women are still doing that job, PLUS
everything men are doing too. Women hold up more than half the sky.
At least they has the decency to> DIE after they became useless to
the species, unlike today's sponges living> on SS to 90.
Same thing with wrikled old dried up men with a cock sack sagging down
to their ankles. What good are they?
>
> You> > bitter boys didn't get anywhere alone; you never have; you never > will. All you bitter boys are good at is stealing other people's > rights. And now that even the bitterest boys have been exposed lately (Bush
> and cronies) it's really all over.
>
> He's still in charge for all your whining haha
>
Nah...patrarichy is dead.>