The first obstacle that you need to over come is Who wants to live in California? So, you need to move to a "Southern Normal State". Take the time to get out now. I live in a Normal State - Louisiana. What I know for sure, a "Radical Lib" and their terror groups never show up here. The reason, is this simple, EVERYBODY has a gun and concealed carry, we support police (law enforcement), we see through the DEM smoke, we cherish family, GOD, Country. Louisiana is a red state but, we elected John Bel a democrat. I never see racism here and it's the same across America - however, corrupt news propaganda REPEATS racism to convert the village idiot to believe what they want - Control. Never believe a Politician, the news, or ppl like me. ALWAYS verify. Don't be led down a path because of what they say. Hell, look at the words used; CNN - Insurrection, Fox - Riot. We've reached a point in America today that we need to divide and become a "Patriot" group and the others. America today is fighting to save our Independence, Constitutional Rights and the greatest country in the world.
If you are going to get married, what kind of country do you and your spouse want to live in? America is headed for destruction. You better understand what that means and if you think you'll not be infected, you already have. I judge a man based on what he says, actions taken, and the phrase, "leave the world a better place". At the end of the day, skin color doesn't mean a thing. What you do on this earth, while here, is more important than DEM or GOP. Family, God, Country, Patriotism, is at stake now. It's easy to take something a part. The hardship comes when trying to fix something you didn't take a part and no directions.