Let's get very clear on something - being able to talk graphically about sex and share your experiences doesn't mean you're a sexually liberated woman.
Being sexually liberated means that you truly like and own your own sexuality. It means you know how to ask for the kind of mood, behavior, touch etc. that will bring you sexual gratification just as much as you know how to perform sexually for someone else.
But a vast number of women confuse the two. They believe being sexually liberated means that guys find you hot, men love to engage in sexual flirting with you, and you've slept with a lot of men. They confuse the rush of a man's sexual interest in the initial stages of a relationship with true power.
All Men Want Is Sex? Maybe It's Your Sexual Bragging
Sex sells, there's no doubt about it. But using your sexuality in an overt and over the top manner to attract men means that's what men are going to focus on about you - sex. That goes for everything from your profile on a dating site, to how to speak and communicate with a man, and of course, how you behave on dates.