I certainly sympathize with you. The good news is - it only means
something if you are a Mormon. Your great grandparents are no more
Mormon (unless Brigham Young knew what he was doing) than you are. Your
cousin has the right to do as he or she pleases, but it has no standing
in any religion but hers. Having said that, you should know that the
church will not undo their sacraments in a case like this. But I come
back to the idea that you can't undo something that has no meaning. The
LDS church preaches that you have an obligation to baptize your
ancestors so they may await you in heaven. That teaching is the basis
for their efforts at establishing genealogy. It is important to them
that someone who joins the church have the ability to baptize those
ancestors. For that reason alone, they collect all sorts of metrical
records and family histories. They will not baptize anyone unless
requested by a family member, usually a direct descendant. This is a
recent change from a previous position that they would baptize anyone
whose records they acquired. I am in the same boat as you. A distant
cousin has also baptized my great grandparents. Sorry to be the bearer
of bad tidings.
Chuck Weinstein in San Mateo, CA
cm...@ix.netcom.com
A couple of the replies interested me (side note: As I type this response
I have requested ldsagree, but based on the replies I don't see what that
would do), in that if I can "convert" my cousin back to Jewish that this
may
help matters. I called my newly found cousin and my hopes were dashed
when I learned that her parents were baptized just last week. I think
this
approach is a lost cause. I guess ldsagree is what I was told about.
Well, at least I can be comforted to know that my ancestors are
remembered.
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