Dear Leo,
Thank you so much for your response.
As of right now, I don’t know his parents names. I do believe he is from the Cork area and maybe Skibbereen (which I would love). I have been searching the Irish Civil Birth and the Parish records but so far, still can’t determine which one might be him, because none match the birth month given.
I think we found him in the Castle Garden ship records coming in 1887, which coincides with some of the family ancestry suggestions. I found his date of birth to be September, we think of 1868, but the only thing we can find of birth in the type of records you mention (so far) is that his parents and he were born in Ireland. No city or parish location is mentioned. I am in the process of getting a DNA check and waiting for the results. I can’t find any evidence of siblings for him yet, but can’t imagine there weren’t any.
Again, I appreciate your response and suggestions and if nothing else, to know that I am doing all the right things and looking in all the right places to find him. I even have been going through all newspapers from any location he is known to have been in the USA and going through the ’newspapers’ of Ireland for around the mid to late 1800s hoping to find something that will be a connection.
Thank you for your email support and at this point the emotional support of how long this will take! Have a blessed 2021!! - Belinda