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Karl Jacob

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Apr 30, 2001, 7:21:32 PM4/30/01
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Some people here might remember my postings about my wife,
as I know many don´t like it, I tried not to bother anybody here
and didn´t post much for quite some time. That´s no problem,
I can and do talk enough about it in RL.
Now it happened again : Robert Hauger asked me in a private
e-mail about my remark about a shooting in another posting,
I wanted to answer a short reply and couldn´t start writing.
And decided then also to post it here.
It´s not the full story and maybe confusing and repelling for
many, but maybe especially some people who know me
want to hear it. For the ones who don´t like reading stories
of falangs whining how bad they got treated in thailand :
You don´t have to read it.


Twice I had to call police in germany, when she freaked out completly
and tried to attack me with a knife from the kitchen.
Winter 98/99 I bought a ricefarm for her mother, 99/00 I bought a house
and a motorbike for them, 15 min. after I paid the last bill of the house
she attacked me with a really big knife, I could run faster than she,
all her family and friends were around, nobody helped me, she disappeared
with the bike, 2 days later she came back and immedeately attacked me
again, again I was faster and nobody helped me, I closed myself up in her
mothers old house, she came back with one of their old shotpistols,
sorry, I´m not much into guns, a pistol with one very big cartrige full of
small lead-balls, she searched around and under the house and tried to
target at me through the many holes in the old wooden floor, it was night
and I closed all lights and tried to hide as good as possible and so she
couldn´t see me. I left, some weeks later just before I left thiland she
came to me and begged for pardon, I took her back with me to germany,
only to find out that she had stolen all the money I had left in her
mother´s accout for furniture and so for the house in order to marry one
of her former thai-boyfriends. That was where I seriously threw her out the
first time. I couldn´t get a quick divorce, In germany you have to live 1
year separated before you can start with it. 3 month later she came back
broken and crying, I was stupid as always to believe her, january 2001
she did run away, told me because she was to afraid to do our usual 7
weeks thailand because of the mess she had made there the year before,
when I was in thailand and after that for work in russia, she even managed
to convinced my parents that she was making everything good now for me,
4 days after I came back from russia, I got a hint that she had managed to
bring one of her former thai-husbands (another one than the one she
married in her village a year before) to germany and was hiding him in our
neighbours (a thai-lady) flat, where she obviously spent too much time at
that moment for *bible reading*, I went in that flat and dicovered him,
but left immideately not to get into a fight, last year I paid with a broken
foot and 3 month ill for a fight in thailand. I´ve thrown her out now, it´s
really more than enough, but I still won´t get a quick or easy divorce,
I tried to get her thrown out of germany, they can´t do anything about that,
the husband who´s papers I found isn´t registered somewhere, maybe still
in thailand and I saw another guy or he has only a touristvisum and that
doesn´t get registered.
But they found a report about her, that she and her worst thai girlfriend
have stolen about 5000 US$ from somebody and they have to show up
at court, in case she get´s convicted, they might throw her out of germany,
but probably only after several severe delicts like that one.
Anyway, I waited much to long, maybe I´m lucky to have to pay *only*
about 3000 US$ for my divorce and no support to her, but you never
know how german divorce-laws turn out for you.
She lied everyday to me for 4 and half years now, with big things and small
things, about her age, about her kids, about the number of her kids, about
what she is doing when she didn´t come home at night and I fuckin´still miss
her. One sad thing is, that you start to hate thais in a certain way, you
don´t believe much what thais say to you, but somehow you still can´s stop
thinking the usual thoughts : when will you be able to visit thailand again,
is there any way to make a living in thailand, you know that it wouldn´t
turn out for you when even a crazy small girl can treat you like that, when
will you be old and retired enough to live in thailand ? Just the usual
thoughts of an thailand-adict.
Another sad thing is : what I miss most especially when I´m in thailand are
the times upcountry, I see no way to have that and stay there without of a
close relationship to a thai family, so I am *tourist* again.

Don´t get me wrong, as I said in other postings, she wasn´t from the bar
scene, shure she isn´t very educated and got much problems, but she has
a lot of good typical thai parts too.

When I told my parents more than 4 years ago, that I will bring a thai-girl
to germany, they were fuckin´ shocked and angry. After they had met her
several times, they were rather happy about my choice. For nearly 2 years.
Since 2 years they don´t want to see her and my wife is to scared to visit
them.

I hope it´s over soon and I get my time to calm down my often bad thoughts
about thais and thailand, as I know that I never will be able to finish with
that country.

Due to a job it will probably take 1 week before I´ll have internet again.
I´ll comeback next monday and look for that thread.

Karl


chris_...@hotmail.com

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Apr 30, 2001, 7:29:18 PM4/30/01
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You`re a good man Karl.........I enjoyed meeting you and miss the text
messages.........
Chris.
--
"Only bad persons can think bad thing from the good thing."
Ajarn Supat
16/10/00

Tim

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Apr 30, 2001, 7:49:10 PM4/30/01
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Try to remember every group will have people with mental problems,
Thais are no exception. Chalk it up to bad luck, not Thais in general.
I know that is easy to say and intellectually obvious, I hope you can
get past the deep emotional feelings of resentment towards Thais that
this has caused. That is the hard part.

Good Luck.


Tim


I wish I didn't know now
what I didn't know then.

Ron & Ree

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Apr 30, 2001, 11:55:29 PM4/30/01
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Geez Karl,
I think the knife and gun incidents would have been warning enough.
I hope things work out better for you in the future.

Ron Williams

Osama

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May 1, 2001, 1:20:22 AM5/1/01
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Why is it that Mr Nice Guy always gets the bad'n?

Osama

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tester

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May 1, 2001, 1:49:48 AM5/1/01
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Karl

Like they say "good people can make bad choices". You're a good guy and
certainly deserved a better outcome. That stuff can happen to anybody,
anywhere. Hope to see you back here soon.

tester

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Roscoe

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May 1, 2001, 2:01:09 AM5/1/01
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Hey Karl,

hope to see you again next time in Bangkok, sorry I didn't have that much
time when you were here. Seems you do have some interesting and frightening
stories to tell... maybe I should introduce you to some more mentally stable
Thai girls ;-)

You should write a book about all this!

Cheers,

Roscoe


Law

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May 1, 2001, 7:56:18 AM5/1/01
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I wish you the very best of luck Karl. Hope things improve for you, just
remember, one step at a time.

Regards

George


Joris

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May 1, 2001, 8:35:10 AM5/1/01
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" Roscoe" <sct...@rosee.net> wrote:
> hope to see you again next time in Bangkok, sorry I didn't have that
> much time when you were here.

Same for me Karl. I was too busy chatting up the girls I guess :-)
Just like Roscoe, 555! But had I known what horror stories you had to
tell, I would have preferred to listen to you and be warned... Next
time then, OK? Because as you admit yourself, you're too much of an
addict to let this whole story stop you from returning...

Alles Gute,
Joris

Arnie Gallus

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May 1, 2001, 12:24:10 PM5/1/01
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Sorry Karl, you are a big "Dummkopf". But some Thais say: You have a good
heart. LOL

Arnie

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Vagabond

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May 1, 2001, 2:15:18 PM5/1/01
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On Tue, 1 May 2001 18:24:10 +0200, "Arnie Gallus"
<Der_Kaiser...@web.de> wrote:
>Sorry Karl, you are a big "Dummkopf".

I would not say that. But it sounds like he was married to a Teufel.

Vagabond

fizzer

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May 1, 2001, 2:50:23 PM5/1/01
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On Tue, 1 May 2001 13:01:09 +0700, " Roscoe" <sct...@rosee.net>
wrote:

too late there are 1000s of guys who have a similar story
and too many mauscripts all reading the same


Robert Hauger

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May 1, 2001, 3:48:18 PM5/1/01
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OSAMA
I don't know why do the good girls end up with some bastard?

ROBERT B.HAUGER

Roscoe

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May 2, 2001, 8:28:20 AM5/2/01
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Robert,

"opposites attract"?

Roscoe

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fizzer

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May 2, 2001, 1:50:04 PM5/2/01
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On Tue, 1 May 2001 01:21:32 +0200, "Karl Jacob" <karl-...@gmx.net>
wrote:

>Some people here might remember my postings about my wife,
>as I know many don´t like it, I tried not to bother anybody here
>and didn´t post much for quite some time. That´s no problem,
>I can and do talk enough about it in RL.
>Now it happened again : Robert Hauger asked me in a private
>e-mail about my remark about a shooting in another posting,
>I wanted to answer a short reply and couldn´t start writing.
>And decided then also to post it here.
>It´s not the full story and maybe confusing and repelling for
>many, but maybe especially some people who know me
>want to hear it. For the ones who don´t like reading stories
>of falangs whining how bad they got treated in thailand :
>You don´t have to read it.
>
>
>Twice I had to call police in germany, when she freaked out completly
>and tried to attack me with a knife from the kitchen.

this reminds me of my pal and his thai wife problems, she was married
previously to a scotsman who committed suicide after their hotel
business in scotland went bust. he(my pal) met her on a plane going
back to UK

he (my pal)also rented out a few rooms in his house.
While he was out at work she was accusing his male lodgers of having
homosexual relationships with her husband !!
When he came home from work after a hard days work he walked thru the
front door and all hell would break loose.
Heated arguments and fights would ensue.
Finally she had to go ,it was terrible her craziness .
The police were called on a number of occasions.

The Flying Snowman

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May 2, 2001, 3:45:28 PM5/2/01
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Jezus Karl,

This is indeed a bad story. I wish you all the best, and courage to get over
this. Sincerely,

Eric
www.flyingsnowman.com

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Kinnear

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May 3, 2001, 8:29:38 AM5/3/01
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karl
i feel bad for you. im surprised you didnt do something stupid. the knife and
gun thing would have done it for me. you will be much better off without her.
she sounds like she needs some professional help or needs to be locked up.
Jim

Osama

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May 4, 2001, 7:40:53 AM5/4/01
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Exactly. Opposites attract? Can it be that simple?

Osama

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WrdMizr

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On Fri, 4 May 2001 18:40:53 +0700, "Osama"
<osamabin...@hotmail.com> wrote:

>Exactly. Opposites attract? Can it be that simple?

Only if you are a magnet. If you are electricity, when opposites
connect, KAPOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Guenter Bellach

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May 13, 2001, 4:21:29 AM5/13/01
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On Tue, 1 May 2001 01:21:32 +0200, "Karl Jacob" <karl-...@gmx.net>
wrote:

>Some people here might remember my postings about my wife,


>as I know many don´t like it, I tried not to bother anybody here
>and didn´t post much for quite some time.

Karl, I remember your earlier posting and your private e-mail to me at
the time. If I remember correctly, was the cause of all this her being
adicted to drink? I have similar problems, not nearly to the same
extent, but it only happens when she is drunk.

Why don't you come by and visit me next time you come to Thailand. I
live in Phuket. You know my e-mail address.

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