GUURDOON
CIISE MIRE XIRSI
<abdi...@aol.com> wrote:
Ciise wrote:
>let me tell you what i did or do now:
>Sagaalbilood ka hor, waxaan kala tegney mid aan
>qudbo siro ku haystey. We had understand of each
>other. waxaan la kulmi jirey four days ama sadex
>mar isbuucii. she had her own place and i had mine.
>at first, she wanted to be boyfriend/girlfriend,
>laakiin waxaan u geeyey laba bakistaani ah oo aan
>ku iri ii mehriya qoftaan si aan xalaal uga dhigto.
>That time, she was 28 and I w 23. It was in 1997.
>Markii aan ninkaaxiyey qoftaas, she and I had perfect
>understanding, laakiin nine months ago, she started
>to change. Waxay rabtey in ay ilmo iga sameeyso, so
>I left her and gave her dalaaqa.
>After i left her, waxaan la kulmey mid iyada oo kale
>ah...taasna waxaan qudbo siro ahaan ku haystey mudo
>sadex bilood ah. after sadex bilood kadib, she wanted
>us to live together, but i didn't.
>Marka guurdoonoow, waxaad sameeysaa sidaas
>oo kale inta aad gabar soomaali ah ka helayso
>oo kuugu imaato alaska. markii aad la kulanto
>naag gaalo ah, waxay filaayaan in aad
>girlfriend/boyfriend noqotaan, laakiin waxaad
>ku tiraahdaa you'll feel guilt if you sleep
>with her without nikaax. explain to her that
>nikaax will make you guiltless and you will
>enjoy with her company more.
>For you, nikaax is a license to have
>sex(an engagment license/legal sex).
>You can call it QUDBO SIR.
>For her, nikaax will be like a
>girldfriend/boyfriend licence
>since she wanted to have sex
>anyway. or let her call it an engagement.
> ????????!!!!
Hi there. What is the problem?
>That is how it works. She will
>get what she wants(boyfriend/girlfriend)
>and you get what you want(ninkaax xaalal).
>Everyone is safe.
> ??!!!!!!!!!!
> Imminka waan degdegsanahay dib
> ayaan ka soo laaban doona.
Dee waa inoo mardabe, qowdanoow.
CIISE MIRE XIRSI
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CIISE MIRE XIRSI
> ????????!!!!
Dee waa inoo mardambe, qowdanoow.
Abdi Daud
>>let me tell you what i did or do now:
>>Sagaalbilood ka hor, waxaan kala tegney mid aan
>>qudbo siro ku haystey. We had understand of each
>>other. waxaan la kulmi jirey four days ama sadex
>>mar isbuucii. she had her own place and i had mine.
>>at first, she wanted to be boyfriend/girlfriend,
>>laakiin waxaan u geeyey laba bakistaani ah oo aan
>>ku iri ii mehriya qoftaan si aan xalaal uga dhigto.
Waar Ciisow, guurkan maxaa la yidhaa?. Qudbo sira mise Nikaaxul Mutca mise
Nikaaxul Shawa Mise .....?.
>>That time, she was 28 and I w 23. It was in 1997.
>>Markii aan ninkaaxiyey qoftaas, she and I had perfect
>>understanding, laakiin nine months ago, she started
>>to change. Waxay rabtey in ay ilmo iga sameeyso, so
>>I left her and gave her dalaaqa.
Marka waxaa leedahay waa guur ay iyadu u arkaysay boyfriend world!!!!.
>>After i left her, waxaan la kulmey mid iyada oo kale
>>ah...taasna waxaan qudbo siro ahaan ku haystey mudo
>>sadex bilood ah. after sadex bilood kadib, she wanted
>>us to live together, but i didn't.
?!!!!
>>Marka guurdoonoow, waxaad sameeysaa sidaas
>>oo kale inta aad gabar soomaali ah ka helayso
>>oo kuugu imaato alaska. markii aad la kulanto
>>naag gaalo ah, waxay filaayaan in aad
>>girlfriend/boyfriend noqotaan, laakiin waxaad
>>ku tiraahdaa you'll feel guilt if you sleep
>>with her without nikaax. explain to her that
>>nikaax will make you guiltless and you will
>>enjoy with her company more.
What a sham fatwa?!!.
>>For you, nikaax is a license to have
>>sex(an engagment license/legal sex).
>>You can call it QUDBO SIR.
Hmmmmmmmmmm.
>>For her, nikaax will be like a
>>girldfriend/boyfriend licence
>>since she wanted to have sex
>>anyway. or let her call it an engagement.
>
>> ????????!!!!
>
>Hi there. What is the problem?
Haddii aadan problem u arag facalaa dunyaa salaamu!!!.
>>That is how it works. She will
>>get what she wants(boyfriend/girlfriend)
>>and you get what you want(ninkaax xaalal).
>>Everyone is safe.
What a sham fatwa?!!!.
!
>> Imminka waan degdegsanahay dib
>> ayaan ka soo laaban doona.
>
>Dee waa inoo mardambe, qowdanoow.
?!!!!!!!.
Ina Da'ud
Abdidhoof
>>let me tell you what i did or do now:
>>Sagaalbilood ka hor, waxaan kala tegney mid aan
>>qudbo siro ku haystey.
>>I left her and gave her dalaaqa.
>>After i left her, waxaan la kulmey mid iyada oo kale
>>ah...taasna waxaan qudbo siro ahaan ku haystey mudo
>>sadex bilood ah
In the classical days of this cave, Somali ladies used to come here, but like
the above comments and others, lately the quality of the language has
deteriorated very considerably, don't know why, maybe its because the price of
computers and access to the net has become affordable or easier or something,
that a lot of un-refined creatures came to the cave with cheap paint cans, and
started spraying tasteless graffitis over the walls.
There you go Ciise, all the ladies are asking for is "SOME RESPECT".
Mid aan Qudbo siro KU HAYSTEY !! what kind of langage is that ?
CIISE MIRE XIRSI
Talk about respecting ladies.!!!
This is the same dude who DISREPECTED his own
wife in public and wrote some tasteless thing
about what goes on in their own bedroom.
While talking about his wife, he asked us if
he could have in a doggy stlyle WASMO on her.!!
he said:
"waxaan kaloo is weyiinney foorarsi in la
isu waso (doggy style-ku) horta ma xalaal
baa mise waa xaaraan"
I hope your wife does not log on to this place
and I hope didn't see what you painted on this
cave and said about her. Did you think this kind
of language was respectful to your own wife and
all to other ladies who come here when you wrote
these deteriorating remarks.
--
CIISE MIRE XIRSI
> ABDIDHOOF let me tell you there is
> nothing wrong MID AYAAN QUDBO SIRO
> KU HAYSTAY
Is there something wrong when a husband asks
everyone in this public forum if he can have
"wasmo foorarsi" ah with his Somali wife?
Karanle
SIRO KU HAYSTAY thats the name of the game so leave the young
boy alone otherways go and get one for yourself haddii kale
markaad xolahada ku dhameyso ayay kaa raceysaa BIDE AMA ADOON
OR JAMICAN WHAT EVER YOU CALL THOSE NIGGARS as far as i see
QUDBO SIRO is best till we all go back home and get merried
real girls
Joseph Babylon
Abdidhoof wrote:
>
> Mid aan Qudbo siro KU HAYSTEY !! what kind of langage is that ?
>
Indeed!
Abdidhoof
to discuss our (my wife and I) sexual life in this forum, my intension was to
have a candid intellectual discussion about the marriage and sex in Islam.
If I am not mistaken you yourself have contributed a great deal to that
thread.
But this is another story completely, and by using such demeaning words as
"MID" and "Ku Haystey" so liberaly, you strike me as a very primitive man who's
idea of enjoying the good times is having sex with a captive woman, like a
prisoner, a concubine or a sex slave.
And you wonder where have the ladies gone ?
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>From: CIISE MIRE XIRSI <ci...@my-deja.com>
>Date: Mon, 19 July 1999 03:37 PM EDT
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>
>> ABDIDHOOF let me tell you there is
>> nothing wrong MID AYAAN QUDBO SIRO
>> KU HAYSTAY
>
>Is there something wrong when a husband asks
>everyone in this public forum if he can have
>"wasmo foorarsi" ah with his Somali wife?
>
>
>--
>CIISE MIRE XIRSI
>
>
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CIISE MIRE XIRSI
abdi...@aol.com (Abdidhoof) wrote:
>> ABDIDHOOF let me tell you there is
>> nothing wrong MID AYAAN QUDBO SIRO
>> KU HAYSTAY
Ciise wrote:
> >Is there something wrong when a husband asks
> >everyone in this public forum if he can have
> >"wasmo foorarsi" ah with his Somali wife?
Abdidhoof wrote:
> Of course I now realize that it was a taboo
> to discuss our (my wife and I) sexual life
> in this forum, my intension was to have a
> candid intellectual discussion about the
> marriage and sex in Islam. If I am not mistaken
> you yourself have contributed a great deal to
> that thread. But this is another story completely,
> and by using such demeaning words as "MID"
> and "Ku Haystey" so liberaly, you strike me as a very
> primitive man who's idea of enjoying the good times
> is having sex with a captive woman, like a prisoner,
> a concubine or a sex slave. And you wonder where have
> the ladies gone ?
For you to come on this public forum and air
what goes on between you and your Somali wife
and saying "maka u wasi karaa naagateyda foorarsi"
was a straightforward stupidity on your part.
What is even more demeaning than that stupidity
is to think that Islam wants a man to talk about
what he will do with his wife in bed discussion.
You are disrespecting wife in public and that
is not an intellectual discussion.
There is no enslavement about Naag aan
xalaal lagu haysto(heysasho) ama naag
xalaal lagu qabo(qabsasho).
In my case, she wanted to HAVE me as her
boyfriend, but I wanted to HAVE her in
xalaal way. Neither of us was in captivity
nor did we force ourselves into this kind of
arrangement. But to humiliate your wife like
that in public forum such as this without your
wife's consent is even beyond the primitive
accepted wisdom.
CIISE MIRE XIRSI
> Indeed!
Is this Joseph boy good for only doing cheer-leading or what?!
CIISE MIRE XIRSI
Abdidhoof wrote:
> Ciise wrote:
> >But to humiliate your wife like that in
> >public forum such as this without your
> >wife's consent is even beyond the primitive
> >accepted wisdom.
> Ciise,
> Your arguments has gotten so weak to the point of
> using lies as a shield. ' without my wife's consent.. '
> Where did you get that one ? My wife was not humiliated
> when I wrote about mariage, sexual positions and
> Islam, quite the contrary actually, I did asked those
> questions because she did asked me to raise that issues,
> and in the end she bought me a nice dinner and
> took me to the movies after she lost for the first
> time in a long time (she is a lot smarter than me),
> by betting a dinner and a movie deal that in marriage
> Islam allows only the 'missionary position' and forbids
> doing doggy style sex or wives going on top of their husbands.
> Of course you agree with me that our religion is a lot liberal
> than many of us would like to make it look.
I have news for you. Islam doesn't allow
for a husband to air his wife's sexuality
in public forum and how he sleeps with her
even if she tells you to do it.
If your wife is not being humiliated by
this issue, there is something wrong in
your home. For one, your wife's supposedly
consent for you to raise her sexuality in
public forum is one remarkable fabricated
story and for you to allow her consent and
let us know what goes on between you and her
in your bedroom is another thing. We call it
DAYUUSNIMO.
Abdidhoof
>But to humiliate your wife like that in >public forum such as this without
your
>wife's consent is even beyond the primitive
>accepted wisdom.
Ciise,
Your arguments has gotten so weak to the point of using lies as a shield.
' without my wife's consent.. '
Where did you get that one ?
My wife was not humiliated when I wrote about mariage, sexual positions and
Islam, quite the contrary actually, I did asked those questions because she did
asked me to raise that issues, and in the end she bought me a nice dinner and
took me to the movies after she lost for the first time in a long time (she is
a lot smarter than me), by betting a dinner and a movie deal that in marriage
Islam allows only the 'missionary position' and forbids doing doggy style sex
or wives going on top of their husbands.
Of course you agree with me that our religion is a lot liberal than many of us
would like to make it look.
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