Somali girls dating white men.... So what?
KYemaneab
In message-id: <7kmn95$4cg$1...@watserv3.uwaterloo.ca>
:he praised somali women dating white men to apparently insult every decent
:Somali in this newsgroup.
If Somali girls screw with white men why would this news group feel insulted?
I know Somali men do go out with white girls. Wara Somali men, grow up!
How can you be so racist and live in this country. This is year 2000, almost.
And you are crying here because a Somali girl did the wild thing with a white
man?
What is wrong with you?
Somali girls who want to have a decent relationship with an Ethiopian man may
contact me off line.
Cyber Bully aka Yimer Ali
Joseph Babylon
> Cyber Bully aka Yimer Ali
You are but a cyber bully after all. You know, all big talk on the internet, but
some chicken shit, five foot nothing, 98 pounds organism in reality!
Talk to me, I'm a real life bully. And no, this is not a threat. It's a matter of
fact!
JB
Joseph Babylon
> mom...@sciborg.uwaterloo.ca ( ) wrote:
> In message-id: <7kmn95$4cg$1...@watserv3.uwaterloo.ca>
>
> :he praised somali women dating white men to apparently insult every decent
> :Somali in this newsgroup.
>
> If Somali girls screw with white men why would this news group feel insulted?
I don't feel offended! Some other somalis might. In fact most will. So, unless
you're trying to get into a flame war which you probably have on your hands now,
try to put your question in a different form!
JB
Abdi Daud
>KYemaneab wrote:
>
>> mom...@sciborg.uwaterloo.ca ( ) wrote:
>> In message-id: <7kmn95$4cg$1...@watserv3.uwaterloo.ca>
>>
>> :he praised somali women dating white men to apparently insult every decent
>> :Somali in this newsgroup.
>>
>> If Somali girls screw with white men why would this news group feel
>insulted?
>I don't feel offended! Some other somalis might. In fact most will.
Joe, we expect you to behave this. After all you're Joe. Anything else!!.
Ina Da'ud
mad...@my-deja.com
No Somali girl, in her right mind, would ever think of going out
with Amhar Qandhicilay, let alone having a long term relationship, not
in a million years. So, keep dreaming, because, in a sense, this is what
it is all about, a sexually deprived Amhar, fantazising about our world
reknown beautiful girls.
So long,
Madaxey
In article <19990626145334...@ng-cj1.aol.com>,
kyem...@aol.com (KYemaneab) wrote:
> mom...@sciborg.uwaterloo.ca ( ) wrote:
> In message-id: <7kmn95$4cg$1...@watserv3.uwaterloo.ca>
>
> :he praised somali women dating white men to apparently insult every
decent
> :Somali in this newsgroup.
>
> If Somali girls screw with white men why would this news group feel
insulted?
> I know Somali men do go out with white girls. Wara Somali men, grow
up!
> How can you be so racist and live in this country. This is year 2000,
almost.
> And you are crying here because a Somali girl did the wild thing with
a white
> man?
> What is wrong with you?
>
> Somali girls who want to have a decent relationship with an Ethiopian
man may
> contact me off line.
>
> Cyber Bully aka Yimer Ali
>
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Share what you know. Learn what you don't.
Hagos Abraha
is there gay culture in Somalia? Just wondering.
Hagos the Eritrean, the friend of Somalis.
Chien--Ying Wang
In my knowledge, many male somalia friends of mine, they date with
Chinese, White, and any other race people.
Damn...
Bill Smith
In my knowledge, many male somalia friends of mine, they date with
Chinese, White, and any other race people. <<<
Unfortunately, there is a double standard in many African cultures. The men
can date and marry whomever they want. The women are restricted to the men of
their particular ethnic group.
I know Somali men who are married to Filipinos, African Americans, Whites, and
as soon as I (Black American) start dating a Somali girl, these same hypocrites
want to insult her behind my back.
Bill Smith - Oakland, CA
ĄEs el ritmo, solamente el ritmo lo que mueve mi corazón!
~ Susana Baca, Afro Peruvian singer ~
CIISE MIRE XIRSI
<19990713132626...@ng-cc1.aol.com>,
afri...@aol.com (Bill Smith) wrote:
> Unfortunately, there is a double standard
> in many African cultures. The men can date
> and marry whomever they want. The women are
> restricted to the men of their particular ethnic
> group. I know Somali men who are married to
> Filipinos, African Americans, Whites, and
> as soon as I (Black American) start dating
> a Somali girl, these same hypocrites
> want to insult her behind my back.
> Bill Smith - Oakland, CA
Mr. Smith, let me help you and tell
you about where the double standard
coming from. You think the reason the
Somali men are insulting your girlfriend
is because she married a foreigner which
is not the case always.
So, don't think the double standard
from the Somali men has to do your
Black American identity.
You see, when a Somali man see you
with your Somali girlfriend, the
first thing he sees is you *as a GAAL*
He assumes that you are a GAAL.
He does not see the color or your
nationality at first---that may come
after the GAALNIMO.
Why? Because in Somali culture,
men is allowed to marry a lady
who is a GAAL, but when it comes
to the Somali lady(forget about marriage),
she is even forbidden to be seen with
man who is a GAAL.
Now, what is GAAL, you asked.
I suggest that you ask your girlfriend
what is GAAL. She will be able to explain
it to you better than I can.
--
CIISE MIRE XIRSI
Ahmed Barre
Since when you turned to be sex columnist and since when you turn to the
cave to sex column?. i see you giving free sexual and relatioship advice
to many people. Last time you told us you cab at Harlem.
I wonder how much you enjoy talking to every Tom, Dick and Hurry passing
by.
Man you have such a good appetite that you can have good time even talking
to this guy and his girl friend.
i thought we have better things to do than talking about one afro-american
and his somali girl friend out there. don't you think so?
[In uriidu ila-al islah ma astada'atu.Wamaa tawfiiqii ilaa bilaah]
Ahmed Yassin
CIISE MIRE XIRSI <ci...@my-deja.com> wrote in article
<7mj3ek$ugc$1...@nnrp1.deja.com>...
CIISE MIRE XIRSI
> Aryaa ciise:
> Since when you turned to be
> sex columnist and since when
> you turn to the cave to sex column?.
> i see you giving free sexual and
> relatioship advice to many people.
I'm glad to be at service to the troubled
men and their mates who come here to tell
us what goes on in their bedrooms and in
their living rooms. Remember when you
once came here for free therapy when you
had marital problems with you wife?--when
you told us that you were in the dog house
and when you were not in the speaking
term with your wife. That time you got
free therapy and I didn't ask you to pay
me for my service, did I? So, why are you
now annoyed to see me giving free sexual
advice?
> Last time you told us you cab at Harlem.
Yes, I also told you it is my part-time job.
But if you ever come to New York and need a
ride, let me know. I'll do the same service
for you. I will give you free taxi ride.
> I wonder how much you enjoy talking to every Tom,
> Dick and Hurry passing by.
I enjoy talking with people. I'm a
people's person. I don't discriminate.
> Man you have such a good appetite
> that you can have good time even
> talking to this guy and his girl friend.
I'm helping him to undertand why most
of us don't like to see a Somali girl
going out with a GAAL. He wondered the
the reason we use what he thinks is a
double standard.
> i thought we have better things to
> do than talking about one afro-american
> and his somali girl friend out there.
> don't you think so?
As I said, I don't discriminate. I will
talk with any person who comes here and
I don't think it wrong thing to do.
I think it is okay to talk with any one,
especially those who ask us about our culture.
This place is called soc.culture.somalia.
Different people come here to understand us.
We are not anti-social people and we have
our distinct culture. But this place does
not belong to us.
Ahmed Barre
>Remember when you
> once came here for free therapy when you
> had marital problems with you wife?--when
> you told us that you were in the dog house
> and when you were not in the speaking
> term with your wife. That time you got
> free therapy and I didn't ask you to pay
> me for my service, did I? So, why are you
> now annoyed to see me giving free sexual
> advice?
Aryaa Ciise:
ahahahah you made me laugh . You are crazy cabie.
i didn't know that you can make up all those kind of lies. But look Ciise
when was last time that your head was checked? :-)))
--
CIISE MIRE XIRSI
"Ahmed Barre" <aya...@intergate.bc.ca> wrote:
> >>Aryaa ciise:
> >>Since when you turned to be
> >>sex columnist and since when
> >>you turn to the cave to sex column?.
> >>i see you giving free sexual and
> >>relatioship advice to many people.
> Ciise wrote:
> > Remember when you once came here for free
> > therapy--when you had marital problems with
> > you wife--when you told us that you were in
> > the dog house--when you were not in the speaking
> > terms with your wife. That time you got free therapy
> > and I didn't ask you to pay me for my service, did I?
> > So, why are you now annoyed to see me giving free
> > sexual advice?
> Aryaa Ciise:
> ahahahah you made me laugh . You are crazy cabie.
People say the New York cabbies are crazy,
but they always ride on their cabs, anyway.
So, who is more crazeir?
> i didn't know that you can make up all those
> kind of lies.
I didn't lie. You said I turned the cave
into sex column where I give free relationship
advice to others who come here for their problems
and questions.
> But look Ciise when was last time that your head
> was checked? :-)))
People are always checking up my head, but
it depends on who is doing the checking up.
Poeple can call me crazy or lair, but all
they need to do is look at who is in the
window miror that they are looking at.
Some of them find out that I'm as sane as them,
but others(those whose heads need some screws)
always found out that I'm as insane as them.
Ahmed Barre
--
CIISE MIRE XIRSI <ci...@my-deja.com> wrote in article
<7mm6o0$2ui$1...@nnrp1.deja.com>...
> People say the New York cabbies are crazy,
> but they always ride on their cabs, anyway.
> So, who is more crazeir?
Aryaa Ciise;
Once i was told that we, human beings, are all mad but we only differ the
style of madness and degree of madness. I was assured that it just depends
on what you are mad at as style and to what extent you are mad at that
thing as a degree. According this theory, some of us are mad at money. Some
are mad at fame.
But there are some of us that are mad at madness. they really like madness,
insanity and craziness. And they are the ones that their style of madness
took them all the way to cab at Harlem.
By the way, how come you are always on line. Are you using laptop? or you
are logged on from nuthouse where time doesn't matter? ahahah. take it
easy.
CIISE MIRE XIRSI
"Ahmed Barre" <aya...@intergate.bc.ca> wrote:
CIISE MIRE XIRSI <ci...@my-deja.com> wrote in article
> > Poeple can call me crazy or lair, but all
> > they need to do is look at who is in the
> > window miror that they are looking at.
> And they are the ones that their style of madness
> took them all the way to cab at Harlem.
> By the way, how come you are always on line.
> Are you using laptop? or you are logged on from
> nuthouse where time doesn't matter? ahahah.
I think those who throw stones
while inside of a class house
are senseless(nutty themselves).
When they see or read someone
else's post online, they think
he is always online. They don't
know that they are senseless or
unconscious of their time spent
online. When they are looking at
their mirror, they don't see themselves.
They instead see someone else.
mad...@my-deja.com
Gentlemen,
Forgive me for jumping in to your somwhat childish bickering you
get going on, here, but I have got a question or two for you, guys:
What the heck does your argument, here,(if one can call it that, at all)
have to do with the subject at hand, which as I understand it, is
titled: Somali girls dating white men...? And don't you think, it is
high time, you should stop wasting what little precious time you have,
on things like constant personal attacks on each other and instead
start behaving like the grown-ups you, supposedly, are?
So long,
madaxey
In article <7mok9c$vlu$1...@nnrp1.deja.com>,
CIISE MIRE XIRSI
mad...@my-deja.com wrote:
mad...@my-deja.com wrote:
>
> Gentlemen,
>
> Forgive me for jumping in to your somwhat
> childish bickering you get going on, here,
> but I have got a question or two for you, guys:
> What the heck does your argument, here,(if one
> can call it that, at all) have to do with the
> subject at hand, which as I understand it, is
> titled: Somali girls dating white men...? And
> don't you think, it is high time, you should stop
> wasting what little precious time you have, on things
> like constant personal attacks on each other and instead
> start behaving like the grown-ups you, supposedly, are?
Madaxey, I don't know know how long you have
been on this NG. If you had been here as long
as I have, you would have found out what we have
on here. In short, what we have on here, in most
of the time, is called cynicism.
We had on this thread the subject
"Somali girls dating white men..",
but a cynic man named Mr. Barre jumped
into the topic at hand and criticized me
for no reason.
He said to me that I "enjoy talking to
every Tom, Dick and Hurry passing by".
He accused me of being a "sex columnist"
and said I turned the cave (this newsgroup)
into sex column.
Then, he changed the topic and
interjected it into this thread
the usual cynicsim----me driving
a cab at Harlem.
So, we Somalis, in general, criticize
and arque with each other for no reason
and we don't know what we are cynical
about in most of the times.
Someone once said:
"watch what people are cynical about,
and one can often discover what they lack"
Madaxey, I say welcome to you to the cave
and don't let the cynicism bother you that
much.
But we can always use supposedly grown-ups
coming here if they have something better
to contribute on this cave. So, let's see
you on here from now on, okay? Maybe we will
benifit from your maturity.
Ahmed Barre
> I think those who throw stones
> while inside of a class house
> are senseless(nutty themselves).
>
> When they see or read someone
> else's post online, they think
> he is always online. They don't
> know that they are senseless or
> unconscious of their time spent
> online. When they are looking at
> their mirror, they don't see themselves.
> They instead see someone else.
Aryaa Ciise:
Ee waa ku dhirifkaas! ee xay tahay eeboow dhiriftayaa.Ee ninyow baashaal
aabaheed ayaad iila ekeyde maxaa ku daaray?. aryaa xaal qaado. aryaa
sabeenaa kugu xiran. it is all my fault to get your nerve. but remember i
told you to take it easy. And thanks for remind me i am inside of galss
house. i was unconcious, i guess. again take it easy. and i promise i won't
touch make you angery again.
CIISE MIRE XIRSI
"Ahmed Barre" <aya...@intergate.bc.ca> wrote:
> CIISE MIRE XIRSI <ci...@my-deja.com> wrote in article
> <7mok9c$vlu$1...@nnrp1.deja.com>...
> > I think those who throw stones
> > while inside of a class house
> > are senseless(nutty themselves).
> > When they see or read someone
> > else's post online, they think
> > he is always online. They don't
> > know that they are senseless or
> > unconscious of their time spent
> > online. When they are looking at
> > their mirror, they don't see themselves.
> > They instead see someone else.
Ahmed Barre wrote:
>
> CIISE MIRE XIRSI <ci...@my-deja.com> wrote in article
> <7mok9c$vlu$1...@nnrp1.deja.com>...
> > I think those who throw stones
> > while inside of a class house
> > are senseless(nutty themselves).
> >
> > When they see or read someone
> > else's post online, they think
> > he is always online. They don't
> > know that they are senseless or
> > unconscious of their time spent
> > online. When they are looking at
> > their mirror, they don't see themselves.
> > They instead see someone else.
> Aryaa Ciise:
> Ee waa ku dhirifkaas! ee xay
> tahay eeboow dhiriftayaa.
> Ee ninyow baashaal aabaheed ayaad iila
> ekeyde maxaa ku daaray?.
Areey, mineey fatuuro fiiq tiraa,
ninkuu fadhaayo maa fiyoow?
Qabtii Soomaaliya aa wali madaxayga ka yeeree
and coming to harlem didn't help me. Since I
came to harlem, I feel I'm still in a war-zone.
Tooreeydii xamar oo kalaa ii xiran and I have a
toy gun under my car seat in order to scare the
would be robbers. In harlem, you have to always
watch your guard. Sometimes baashaalka ma arko.
Minaan taxadarin, yaa i kaalmeehaa?
> aryaa xaal qaado. aryaa sabeenaa kugu xiran.
eri xaan ku falaa. geel ma ii qalee, akhiyaarkeey?
> it is all my fault to get your nerve.
Don't worry...we are killing our spare time.
> but remember i told you to take it easy.
Sorry that I overlooked it.
Ahmed Barre
> Gentlemen,
>
> Forgive me for jumping in to your somwhat childish bickering you
> get going on, here, but I have got a question or two for you, guys:
> What the heck does your argument, here,(if one can call it that, at all)
> have to do with the subject at hand, which as I understand it, is
> titled: Somali girls dating white men...? And don't you think, it is
> high time, you should stop wasting what little precious time you have,
> on things like constant personal attacks on each other and instead
> start behaving like the grown-ups you, supposedly, are?
> madaxey
Hey Madaxey:
why showing all those anger?. tell me what is bothering you here. Look
madaxey if you are saying our argument here has nothing to do with this
thread, i tell you, you are damn right. it got nothing to do it. but do
you ask yourself what yours has to with it?.
if you think that we shouldn't write any unconcerned articles under this
thread, this is what you would have done. You would have began another
thread and address us there. you could have asked us anything you wanted
under that thread while you are referring to our argument here. And that is
how the people who want to change the threads do. but you didn't did that.
So tell me if new person shows up tommorow what he/she thinks about
yours. He/she will be asking him/herself same question that you are asking
now. Then don't you think that you didn't help anyone And we are on the
same baot for that matter?.
About our argument, i think there are enough bullshit around if you wanted
to have look at them.
However, if you really think our childish beckering is XXX rated and out
scored all of other nonsenses around, then i, for one, apologize anyone
whom my childish argument bothered. I didn't mean to make Madaxey's small
head to spin around. Nor do i want to make your blood pressure hit such
that high. i swear . All i meant was to have kind of cynical joke with my
cousin CIISE JINOOL, the crazy cabie.
again i say MY DAMN APOLOGY to you and your grown up CREW out there.
--
CIISE MIRE XIRSI
"Ahmed Barre" <aya...@intergate.bc.ca> wrote:
> All i meant was to have kind of cynical joke
> with my cousin CIISE JINOOL, the crazy cabie.
LOL. Jini ninkiisaa bixiya.
> again i say MY DAMN APOLOGY to you and your grown
> up CREW out there.
I give my apology to him too. I hope he
is now satisfied and I hope he starts to
show us how grownups behave.
We don't just want him at us throwing
criticism(like he is the authority in
this cave). We want to see examples and
we would not mind learning from him.
mad...@my-deja.com
Mr. Yasin,
I am not angry, my brother, nor do I have any reason to be angry
with you, or anybody else for that matter. How can I be angry with you
when we don't even know each other? That is, simply, beyond me. The
point I have been trying to make, however, Mr. Yasin, (which, by the
way, I think, you have totally missed) was that there are always other
ways to get one's point of view across with out personalizing or
attacking the fellow you are engaged the discussion with or writing such
a profanity-punctuated sentences like the ones you have written, bellow.
It serves, absolutely, no purpose to argue for the sake of, simply,
pissing someone off, which is, apparently, what you are trying to do,
even with me, here. Yes, you are, absolutely right, in the sense, that
I could have, probably, changed the title of the thread as you have
suggested, but I did not. So what? Are you going to suit me for that or
something? I mean, what difference would that have made? I would still
be making the same point I made: stop the personal attacks on each
other, period.
So long,
Madaxey
In article <01becba1$cbe1d220$5bb622cf@user>,
"Ahmed Barre" <aya...@intergate.bc.ca> wrote:
> that high. i swear . All i meant was to have kind of cynical joke
with my
> cousin CIISE JINOOL, the crazy cabie.
>
> again i say MY DAMN APOLOGY to you and your grown up CREW out there.
> --
> [In uriidu ila-al islah ma astada'atu.Wamaa tawfiiqii ilaa bilaah]
> Ahmed Yassin
>
>
mad...@my-deja.com
Mr. Xirsi,
As you have, probably, already guessed, I am new to this forum.
And even though I have been occassional visitor for quite a while, now,
I have never contributed anything myself. I did, however, on occassion,
responded to some of the articles already under discusion, like the one
we have here, right now. And you are right, this kind of heated and
somewhat personal exchange war of words between you and brother Yasin is
far more common, in this cave, than we, as cavers, old and new, would
like to admit. However, brother, that does not change the fact that it
is wrong. Nor does it mean, I, as Somali, should stand by idly and let
my fellow brothers and sisters air their dirty laundry, on the net, in
front of millions of world wide public audience. All I am suggesting,
brother, is, if we have things to discuss, please, let us dicuss it in a
civilized manner and show each other a whole lot more respect, and while
we are at it, how about showing a bit of class, too.
By the way, Mr. Xirsi, thank you for welcoming me in to the cave.
So long,
Madaxey
In article <7mqc8l$f2n$1...@nnrp1.deja.com>,
CIISE MIRE XIRSI <ci...@my-deja.com> wrote:
> In article <7mq3id$cih$1...@nnrp1.deja.com>,
> mad...@my-deja.com wrote:
> mad...@my-deja.com wrote:
> >
> > Gentlemen,
> >
> > Forgive me for jumping in to your somwhat
> > childish bickering you get going on, here,
> > but I have got a question or two for you, guys:
> > What the heck does your argument, here,(if one
> > can call it that, at all) have to do with the
> > subject at hand, which as I understand it, is
> > titled: Somali girls dating white men...? And
> > don't you think, it is high time, you should stop
> > wasting what little precious time you have, on things
> > like constant personal attacks on each other and instead
> > start behaving like the grown-ups you, supposedly, are?
>
> > CIISE MIRE XIRSI <ci...@my-deja.com> wrote:
> > > In article <01becb20$d9526400$d7adc2cf@user>,
> > > "Ahmed Barre" <aya...@intergate.bc.ca> wrote:
> > >
> > > CIISE MIRE XIRSI <ci...@my-deja.com> wrote in article
> > > > > Poeple can call me crazy or lair, but all
> > > > > they need to do is look at who is in the
> > > > > window miror that they are looking at.
> > >
> > > > And they are the ones that their style of madness
> > > > took them all the way to cab at Harlem.
> > > > By the way, how come you are always on line.
> > > > Are you using laptop? or you are logged on from
> > > > nuthouse where time doesn't matter? ahahah.
> > >
> > > I think those who throw stones
> > > while inside of a class house
> > > are senseless(nutty themselves).
> > >
> > > When they see or read someone
> > > else's post online, they think
> > > he is always online. They don't
> > > know that they are senseless or
> > > unconscious of their time spent
> > > online. When they are looking at
> > > their mirror, they don't see themselves.
> > > They instead see someone else.
> > >
> > > --
> > > CIISE MIRE XIRSI
> > >
> > > Sent via Deja.com http://www.deja.com/
> > > Share what you know. Learn what you don't.
> > >
> >
> > Sent via Deja.com http://www.deja.com/
> > Share what you know. Learn what you don't.
> >
>
> --
> CIISE MIRE XIRSI
CIISE MIRE XIRSI
mad...@my-deja.com wrote:
>Mr. Xirsi,
>As you have, probably, already guessed,
> I am new to this forum. And even though
> I have been occassional visitor for quite
> a while, now, I have never contributed
> anything myself. I did, however,
> on occassion, responded to some of the
> articles already under discusion, like
> the one we have here, right now. And you
> are right, this kind of heated and somewhat
> personal exchange war of words between you
> and brother Yasin is far more common, in
> this cave, than we, as cavers, old and new,
> would like to admit. However, brother, that
> does not change the fact that it is wrong.
> Nor does it mean, I, as Somali, should stand
> by idly and let my fellow brothers and sisters
> air their dirty laundry, on the net, in front
> of millions of world wide public audience.
> things to discuss, please, let us dicuss it in a
> civilized manner and show each other a whole lot
> more respect, and while we are at it, how about
> showing a bit of class, too.
I used to be a visitor to this place myself
before I joined it. I used to only read what
others had written. But once I started to
comment the articles people wrote, I felt
at home. I noticed that most people here don't
like someone disagreeing them. If you ask them
questions, they think you are attacking them.
If you disagree with what someone has written,
you are looked at as if you are attacking him
or her and it then becomes personal.
Yes, it is wrong to engage personal insults
and yes it is good to point out that we don't
need to insult each other, but the better way
to change the things in this place other than
moderating and feeling bad about the personal
insults in here is by participating and contributing
to more positive things to this place. That is how you
sort out the good from the bad. I'm sure that there are
more people who are silent readers. They only come
here to read what others write. People don't like
to be told that they are wrong. They like to see
mature people coming here and posting their ideas
> By the way, Mr. Xirsi, thank you for welcoming
> me in to the cave.
Any time, my brother.