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Luceafarul
By DAVID SCHOETZ
ABC News
(May 2) - A self-absorbed con artist who married for political gain
and would be running for president had a gay sex scandal not fouled
his career.
Estranged Wife Has Her Say
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That's the picture Dina Matos McGreevey painted of Jim McGreevey, her
estranged husband and former New Jersey governor, on the day her
memoir, "Silent Partner: A Memoir of My Marriage" hits bookstores. It
comes eight months after her husband published his own version of the
spectacle that unfolded in front of the nation, and as their divorce
proceedings come to a head.
Through their very public displays, both the former governor and his
wife seem intent on telling the public their version of the
relationship, no matter how personal or disconnected each account may
be from the other.
"I think it was all a charade for him," Matos McGreevey told Oprah
Winfrey during a taping of today's show.
Matos McGreevey said she still doesn't believe McGreevey is
homosexual, despite the sex scandal involving a male aide that forced
his from office in 2004.
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"I don't think he's just gay, I think he's bisexual," she said,
describing their sex life together as satisfying throughout their
marriage. "I never saw him checking out men, but I certainly saw him
checking out women."
When she did learn of the affair four years after their marriage, she
said she didn't leave him immediately to protect their daughter,
Jacqueline, who was 2 at the time.
"No one ever said to me, 'He's gay,'" Matos McGreevey said. "It's a
cliche, but the wife's always the last to know, and it's true."
Winfrey pressed the former New Jersey first lady about the press
conference when McGreevey announced his homosexuality and resignation,
asking why Matos McGreevey held a smile despite the bitter personal
reality the announcement had for her.
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NationwideShe smiled, she said, because her calculating husband
instructed her to.
"As his world was falling apart, he was still choreographing the
entire day," Matos McGreevey said, quoting her husband as telling her
to keep a strong face and play the role of "Jackie Kennedy."
She described secretive behavior that, in retrospect, should have made
her question what she called a "fairy tale" marriage that began in
2000.
Not once did she go to McGreevey's parents' house, she said, even
though it was just five miles away from their own. She said McGreevey
kept finances secret, maintained a relationship that may have been
inappropriate with his ex-wife, and kept his daughter from the
previous marriage from ever meeting her.
"Silent Partners" is released eight months after McGreevey offered his
own story in the book "The Confession" - in which the former governor
wrote that his wife may have known he was gay.
While she flatly denies knowing about his gay affair, it was in
preparing to chronicle his story, Matos McGreevey said, that she
discovered notes that he acknowledged he had married her simply as a
political prop.
When the book was published in September 2006, a contrite McGreevey
sat on Winfrey's couch, telling her, "When you're in the closet, part
of the hell of being in the closet is you're denying your own
existence."
Poliot
"Luceafarul" <lucea...@aol.com> wrote in message
news:1178105888.7...@p77g2000hsh.googlegroups.com...
> McGreevey's Wife Calls Ex-Governor an 'Actor'
> By DAVID SCHOETZ
exista si o corelatie intre nevestele gretzesti, frumoase de crapa si
homosexualitatea sotilor.
ciubenu
> "Luceafarul" <luceafa...@aol.com> wrote in message
aha. pilozitatea..
iesces da foliculoza iestrogenica pa fond da lipsa acuta da
testiculon.
sa trateaza cu ulei da nuca.
uleiu da mazline da rezultate mediocre.