Marrying to a girl who had anal sex before
Persian Gulf
I m engaged with a girl to whom i love so much and she also love me so
much, my sister is the wife of her brother, so we have close relation too,
due to bad behaviour of my sister's husband (brother of my fiance), my
father strongly oppose to this relation and want me to cut off from that
girl, no matter how much it will affect on my sister. My fiance loved
someone before me, she told me this truth earlier, but i ignore this coz i
truly love her, recently , she disclosed me that she had anal sex with that
guy, although she purely loves me, but she wanted to tell her all truth
clearly before marriage, now i need your guidance under the light of islam
that should i marry her or not, one hand my father strongly oppose this
relation due to my brother-in-law's bad behaviour with my sister, and on
the another hand this recent anal sex truth make me some times
uncomfortable. Please help me in this matter asap, i will be thankful to
you.
At the outset, we wish to inform you that it is prohibited to have a
premarital relationship. The concept of fianc'/fianc'e is prohibited in
Islam. Such a relationship falls in the category of Zina and adultery,
which is a major sin. There are also many negative consequences to such an
un-Islamic relationship.
We advise you terminate all contact with the girl. Inform her that you have
received a Shar'ee ruling on the relationship and you wish to abide by
that. If you are interested in marrying her, then consult your seniors and
also make Istikhaara. The girl has been honest to you in inform you about
her relationship with another person. You should be careful in making your
choice of marriage and follow the guidance of Shari'ah as explained above.
and Allah Ta'ala Knows Best
Mufti Ebrahim Desai
YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT ABOUT 99.9% OF MUSLIM GIRLS HAVE ANAL SEX BEFORE
MARRIAGE. EVEN YOUR SISTER HAS DONE IT. THEY MAY BE VIRGINS IN THE VAGINA
BUT NOT IN THE MOUTH OR BACK. JUST ASK FIRNANDO'S SISTER. heehee
ALSO, MAKE SURE YOU DON'T GIVE HER ADDRESS TO YOUR MULLAH/IMAM BECAUSE THEY
WILL KIDNAP HER, RAPE HER AND THEN STONE HER TO DEATH ALL UNDER THE NAME OF
SAG ARAB IZLAM.
AND RBRK TA'ALA KNOWS BEST.
